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		<title>By: The Perspicacious Loris</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7807</link>
		<dc:creator>The Perspicacious Loris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jun 2011 00:26:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, right.  The United States Supreme Court has nine judges.  (which I only recently realized are called Justices)</description>
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		<title>By: FanOfAr</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7805</link>
		<dc:creator>FanOfAr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 07:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@The Perspicacious Loris - Here&#039;s the Wikipedia Article about the California Supreme Court: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supreme_Court_of_California

Look in the box at the far right side of the page.  There it says &quot;Number of Positions: 7&quot;  There&#039;s the four-to-three ruling. :)  Hope this helped!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@The Perspicacious Loris &#8211; Here&#8217;s the Wikipedia Article about the California Supreme Court: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supreme_Court_of_California" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supreme_Court_of_California</a></p>
<p>Look in the box at the far right side of the page.  There it says &#8220;Number of Positions: 7&#8243;  There&#8217;s the four-to-three ruling. :)  Hope this helped!</p>
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		<title>By: The Perspicacious Loris</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7804</link>
		<dc:creator>The Perspicacious Loris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 01:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How do you have a four to three ruling on the Supreme Court?  Aren&#039;t there nine judges?</description>
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		<title>By: Mati</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7697</link>
		<dc:creator>Mati</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 06:48:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know why people don&#039;t acknowledge that the gay LIFESTYLE is a choice.  Its a LIFESTYLE, and nobody is born with a lifestyle...punk, metallic, or whatever.  Further, I don&#039;t know why people don&#039;t acknowledge that homosexual CONDUCT is also a choice.  One is not born with the CONDUCT of a pedaphile, necrophile, beastaphile, or selfaphile.  They learn it.  (Ok I may have made up some word or mispelled them, but you get the picture.)  Instead of learning that G-d didn&#039;t pick on a certain group of people when he commanded against anal sex between a man and another man but that the commandment was given to ALL mankind because ALL mankind has the capability of such inclination, they choose to play the victim that &quot;He made me/them this way,&quot; or &quot;religion is made up by man&quot; and therefore it is ok that I do what I do.  (Such people really want for themselves the moral/creative license do to their own, in secret, sexual practices and therefore hold a &quot;liberal&quot; posture and tolerance for gays.)  Can people not see that identical twins, where one is &quot;gay&quot; and the other is &quot;straight,&quot; is proof that it is NOT in the genes?  (These have the exact same genes)  Gay LIFESTYLE is a choice conscious OR subconscious.  Homosexuality is a learned thing.  This is proven by ancient Greek and Roman societies where homosexual conduct was held with more prestige than heterosexual conduct--they used women only for procreation.  And G-d made EVERY man with the capability of performing homosexuality.  This is why he gave ALL men the commandment.  Those who deny this attribute that G-d made within us are gays and homophobes.  (Gays claim that married men are really gay and are denying themselves when have a homosexual fling.)  In the &quot;old school&quot; (where I grew up) we used to call such a fling while growing up &quot;experimenting.&quot;  We must look at ourselves differently.  I cannot imagine myself killing another human being.  It is not in me at all.  However, I don&#039;t deny that G-d made me with the capability that, giving the right conditions, I could.  The same with theft and with every other commandment and moral deviation.  By not seeing it this way, one has opened the door to doing it any deviation...and close the door to change because they have already convinced themselved that it is impossible to change.  True that it may be the hardest thing for them to do.  But so is cigarette smoking for some, cussing for some, porn for some, stealing for some, and so forth.  We all have our alleged impossibilites but we only need to examin ourselves in a different light for change to happen.  The truth of the matter is, we just don&#039;t want to change.  But we all can.  Yes you can become &quot;staight,&quot; a nonsmoker, a clean ex-drug addict, a former molester or murder (by seeing humanity in the faces of those you have hurt) or by being an ex-WYTOK addict.  LOL  (Got to put some humor in my message.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know why people don&#8217;t acknowledge that the gay LIFESTYLE is a choice.  Its a LIFESTYLE, and nobody is born with a lifestyle&#8230;punk, metallic, or whatever.  Further, I don&#8217;t know why people don&#8217;t acknowledge that homosexual CONDUCT is also a choice.  One is not born with the CONDUCT of a pedaphile, necrophile, beastaphile, or selfaphile.  They learn it.  (Ok I may have made up some word or mispelled them, but you get the picture.)  Instead of learning that G-d didn&#8217;t pick on a certain group of people when he commanded against anal sex between a man and another man but that the commandment was given to ALL mankind because ALL mankind has the capability of such inclination, they choose to play the victim that &#8220;He made me/them this way,&#8221; or &#8220;religion is made up by man&#8221; and therefore it is ok that I do what I do.  (Such people really want for themselves the moral/creative license do to their own, in secret, sexual practices and therefore hold a &#8220;liberal&#8221; posture and tolerance for gays.)  Can people not see that identical twins, where one is &#8220;gay&#8221; and the other is &#8220;straight,&#8221; is proof that it is NOT in the genes?  (These have the exact same genes)  Gay LIFESTYLE is a choice conscious OR subconscious.  Homosexuality is a learned thing.  This is proven by ancient Greek and Roman societies where homosexual conduct was held with more prestige than heterosexual conduct&#8211;they used women only for procreation.  And G-d made EVERY man with the capability of performing homosexuality.  This is why he gave ALL men the commandment.  Those who deny this attribute that G-d made within us are gays and homophobes.  (Gays claim that married men are really gay and are denying themselves when have a homosexual fling.)  In the &#8220;old school&#8221; (where I grew up) we used to call such a fling while growing up &#8220;experimenting.&#8221;  We must look at ourselves differently.  I cannot imagine myself killing another human being.  It is not in me at all.  However, I don&#8217;t deny that G-d made me with the capability that, giving the right conditions, I could.  The same with theft and with every other commandment and moral deviation.  By not seeing it this way, one has opened the door to doing it any deviation&#8230;and close the door to change because they have already convinced themselved that it is impossible to change.  True that it may be the hardest thing for them to do.  But so is cigarette smoking for some, cussing for some, porn for some, stealing for some, and so forth.  We all have our alleged impossibilites but we only need to examin ourselves in a different light for change to happen.  The truth of the matter is, we just don&#8217;t want to change.  But we all can.  Yes you can become &#8220;staight,&#8221; a nonsmoker, a clean ex-drug addict, a former molester or murder (by seeing humanity in the faces of those you have hurt) or by being an ex-WYTOK addict.  LOL  (Got to put some humor in my message.)</p>
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		<title>By: Mati</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7696</link>
		<dc:creator>Mati</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Apr 2011 06:03:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I once asked a spokes&quot;person&quot; (woman) who was lecturing on gay marriage after she clearly stated that the agenda was to gain the same rights that married couples  get.  (medical &quot;spouse&quot; benefits, tax &quot;spouse&quot; breaks, etc.) if she would be satisfied that the laws were changed to allow all such &quot;equalities&quot; EXCEPT the acknowlegement that they were married and she said &quot;no.&quot;  Thus the true agenda is acceptance of a gay lifestyle as morally normal and decent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once asked a spokes&#8221;person&#8221; (woman) who was lecturing on gay marriage after she clearly stated that the agenda was to gain the same rights that married couples  get.  (medical &#8220;spouse&#8221; benefits, tax &#8220;spouse&#8221; breaks, etc.) if she would be satisfied that the laws were changed to allow all such &#8220;equalities&#8221; EXCEPT the acknowlegement that they were married and she said &#8220;no.&#8221;  Thus the true agenda is acceptance of a gay lifestyle as morally normal and decent.</p>
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		<title>By: How would you defend DOMA?</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7584</link>
		<dc:creator>How would you defend DOMA?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Mar 2011 00:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] contrary to how they&#039;d voted and without waiting to see how they&#039;d vote again - a major point made here.  At any rate, according to our own Declaration of Independence, we should be abiding by the will [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] contrary to how they&#39;d voted and without waiting to see how they&#39;d vote again &#8211; a major point made here.  At any rate, according to our own Declaration of Independence, we should be abiding by the will [...]</p>
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		<title>By: gedebob</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7299</link>
		<dc:creator>gedebob</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Dec 2010 19:10:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I should have known this one would cause quite a raucous.  I lived in Cali during the 2000 prop 22.  And even though I currently live in Utah it was and still is frustrating to find a govt. who is not listening to the people!  Good luck to you, and keep up the good work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I should have known this one would cause quite a raucous.  I lived in Cali during the 2000 prop 22.  And even though I currently live in Utah it was and still is frustrating to find a govt. who is not listening to the people!  Good luck to you, and keep up the good work.</p>
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		<title>By: PT202</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-7095</link>
		<dc:creator>PT202</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Oct 2010 02:46:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your show!  However, this one had me scratching my head.  Religion has nothing to do with me paying my taxes and wanting equal rights like every one else.  That means explicit and implicit rights such as pooling household taxes as a married couple and taking advantage of our established marriage rights such as social security benefits for a surviving spouse.  To argue that this is about religion is to go after fringe examples in order to stretch your logic to fit your opinion.

Had you have had your ideas held to than: blacks would not be able to marry whites, and would be separate but equal!

Again: The whole movement is about Taxation Without Representation.  As a gay individual I DO NOT have the same rights as Straights!  If you want to discount my taxes: perhaps we could come to an agreement.  Do I or people who are for this want to go into the churches and change them by law?  No.  No more than any Christian should want to march into a Synagogue and demand that they change their practice.  Do Jews and Christians have differences? Yes.  Do Jews and Christians and Muslims and Buddhists get lessor or more benefits due to their &quot;lifestyle&quot;? No.  

LEAVE RELIGION TO THE RELIGIOUS.  THIS IS ABOUT TAXES! THIS IS ABOUT SEPARATE NEVER BEING EQUAL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love your show!  However, this one had me scratching my head.  Religion has nothing to do with me paying my taxes and wanting equal rights like every one else.  That means explicit and implicit rights such as pooling household taxes as a married couple and taking advantage of our established marriage rights such as social security benefits for a surviving spouse.  To argue that this is about religion is to go after fringe examples in order to stretch your logic to fit your opinion.</p>
<p>Had you have had your ideas held to than: blacks would not be able to marry whites, and would be separate but equal!</p>
<p>Again: The whole movement is about Taxation Without Representation.  As a gay individual I DO NOT have the same rights as Straights!  If you want to discount my taxes: perhaps we could come to an agreement.  Do I or people who are for this want to go into the churches and change them by law?  No.  No more than any Christian should want to march into a Synagogue and demand that they change their practice.  Do Jews and Christians have differences? Yes.  Do Jews and Christians and Muslims and Buddhists get lessor or more benefits due to their &#8220;lifestyle&#8221;? No.  </p>
<p>LEAVE RELIGION TO THE RELIGIOUS.  THIS IS ABOUT TAXES! THIS IS ABOUT SEPARATE NEVER BEING EQUAL.</p>
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		<title>By: mygodisbetterthanyourgod</title>
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		<dc:creator>mygodisbetterthanyourgod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 19:58:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>in response to &quot;Lost Rights in Canada&quot;, a child doesn&#039;t have his or her own religion. just as a child has no political affiliation. i would see teaching a child any specific religious doctrine as fact as being a loss of rights, more so than not. adults are free to choose any religion they want; and this is how it should be. if the schools want to teach noahs ark, let them teach it alongside the story of ra the egyptian god of the sun, or zeus the greek god of the sea. it is fact that none of these stories can be proven; they are all allegorical and should be taught as such.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>in response to &#8220;Lost Rights in Canada&#8221;, a child doesn&#8217;t have his or her own religion. just as a child has no political affiliation. i would see teaching a child any specific religious doctrine as fact as being a loss of rights, more so than not. adults are free to choose any religion they want; and this is how it should be. if the schools want to teach noahs ark, let them teach it alongside the story of ra the egyptian god of the sun, or zeus the greek god of the sea. it is fact that none of these stories can be proven; they are all allegorical and should be taught as such.</p>
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		<title>By: mygodisbetterthanyourgod</title>
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		<dc:creator>mygodisbetterthanyourgod</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:07:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i hate trying to sift through all the religious bullshit to get to the facts. this site is satire, poorly conceived/executed satire. religious propaganda.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i hate trying to sift through all the religious bullshit to get to the facts. this site is satire, poorly conceived/executed satire. religious propaganda.</p>
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		<title>By: ideal4living</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-6078</link>
		<dc:creator>ideal4living</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 01:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i dont see what the problem is with gay marrige, if that is what they want, that is what they want. if religons (though i do not agree) believe that that is wrong then have it there way, in my opinion there is nothing wrong with gay marrige, if a man loves another man, or a woman loves another woman, then that is perfectley acceptible. and as a hetrasexual can be married if they love eachother very much then why not gays?!?!?!?!?! people can not help there own attractions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i dont see what the problem is with gay marrige, if that is what they want, that is what they want. if religons (though i do not agree) believe that that is wrong then have it there way, in my opinion there is nothing wrong with gay marrige, if a man loves another man, or a woman loves another woman, then that is perfectley acceptible. and as a hetrasexual can be married if they love eachother very much then why not gays?!?!?!?!?! people can not help there own attractions.</p>
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		<title>By: russdpipes</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-5651</link>
		<dc:creator>russdpipes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 15:45:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gays should not be allowed to Marry in secular law, Marriage is a religious ideal, and should not apply to law at all. So goes the same for heterosexual marriage, nobody should be allowed to &quot;marry&quot; in our secular courts. Marriage should only apply to religion and what ever religion deems marriage to be. Marriage comes from religion.
  Everybody who does not get married by a church, temple,....etc it should be a civil union and still carry all of the same benefits that  a so called marriage should be. which gays should also be allowed civil unions also, because nobody has said that civil unions are only between a man and a woman.
we should stop trying promoting everybody to marriage, marriage should apply only to a religious sanctioned union, and not be dictated on by courts. If it is not a religious sanctioned union, then it should only be a civil union whether man and woman, man and man, or woman and woman. Our laws should not dictate Marriage, leave that to religions, and maybe everybody could start being happy or....(gay)! it&#039;s just terminology. and it wont hurt  our values</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gays should not be allowed to Marry in secular law, Marriage is a religious ideal, and should not apply to law at all. So goes the same for heterosexual marriage, nobody should be allowed to &#8220;marry&#8221; in our secular courts. Marriage should only apply to religion and what ever religion deems marriage to be. Marriage comes from religion.<br />
  Everybody who does not get married by a church, temple,&#8230;.etc it should be a civil union and still carry all of the same benefits that  a so called marriage should be. which gays should also be allowed civil unions also, because nobody has said that civil unions are only between a man and a woman.<br />
we should stop trying promoting everybody to marriage, marriage should apply only to a religious sanctioned union, and not be dictated on by courts. If it is not a religious sanctioned union, then it should only be a civil union whether man and woman, man and man, or woman and woman. Our laws should not dictate Marriage, leave that to religions, and maybe everybody could start being happy or&#8230;.(gay)! it&#8217;s just terminology. and it wont hurt  our values</p>
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		<title>By: Space_Cadet</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-5621</link>
		<dc:creator>Space_Cadet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Mar 2009 15:54:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen brothers.</description>
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		<title>By: iammrkcohen</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-5384</link>
		<dc:creator>iammrkcohen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 22:34:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a respectable and intelligent assessment of the issue, but the claim that the Supreme Court is “legislating from the bench” is simply not true. The Supreme Court ruled that Proposition 22 passed in 2000 unfairly and unconstitutionally revoked the rights of a minority simply because it was a popular sentiment at the time. This clearly and absolutely violates the protection of the minority. Proposition 22 was essentially passed by mob rule. There was a time when pro-slavery sentiment could have easily garnered a majority of the vote, but is that a justifiable reason to enslave an entire race? Of course not. This is exactly why we have a Bill of Rights and a Supreme Court - so that we can no longer decide that one group of people is more entitled to a set of rights than another. Article I Section I of the California State Constitution says “All people are by nature free and independent and have inalienable rights. Among these are enjoying and defending life and liberty, acquiring, possessing, and protecting property, and pursuing and obtaining safety, happiness, and privacy.”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a respectable and intelligent assessment of the issue, but the claim that the Supreme Court is “legislating from the bench” is simply not true. The Supreme Court ruled that Proposition 22 passed in 2000 unfairly and unconstitutionally revoked the rights of a minority simply because it was a popular sentiment at the time. This clearly and absolutely violates the protection of the minority. Proposition 22 was essentially passed by mob rule. There was a time when pro-slavery sentiment could have easily garnered a majority of the vote, but is that a justifiable reason to enslave an entire race? Of course not. This is exactly why we have a Bill of Rights and a Supreme Court &#8211; so that we can no longer decide that one group of people is more entitled to a set of rights than another. Article I Section I of the California State Constitution says “All people are by nature free and independent and have inalienable rights. Among these are enjoying and defending life and liberty, acquiring, possessing, and protecting property, and pursuing and obtaining safety, happiness, and privacy.”</p>
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		<title>By: Jzyehoshua</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-4/#comment-4907</link>
		<dc:creator>Jzyehoshua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 17:50:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh wow, this is some more great stuff!  I don&#039;t think the gay rights community realizes that even people like me who are on the fence about whether or not they should have additional constitutional rights are being alienated and turned off by their attempts to circumvent the U.S. Constitution.  

As much as I happen to think the gay lifestyle is sinful, and while I don&#039;t think the definition of marriage should be changed...  maybe there are some lawful rights (as with partner inheritance when a will isn&#039;t available, or ability to serve in the military) which they ought to be accorded, and are being used to discriminate against them.

It&#039;s not a matter of trying to say both sides are equally right, or even trying to compromise, but I think what your site has helped me see is that it&#039;s about fairness, and recognizing that the other side may still have a point even if overly wrong.  And just because they&#039;re on the other side, doesn&#039;t mean we should stop making sure their constitutional rights aren&#039;t being damaged in some way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh wow, this is some more great stuff!  I don&#8217;t think the gay rights community realizes that even people like me who are on the fence about whether or not they should have additional constitutional rights are being alienated and turned off by their attempts to circumvent the U.S. Constitution.  </p>
<p>As much as I happen to think the gay lifestyle is sinful, and while I don&#8217;t think the definition of marriage should be changed&#8230;  maybe there are some lawful rights (as with partner inheritance when a will isn&#8217;t available, or ability to serve in the military) which they ought to be accorded, and are being used to discriminate against them.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not a matter of trying to say both sides are equally right, or even trying to compromise, but I think what your site has helped me see is that it&#8217;s about fairness, and recognizing that the other side may still have a point even if overly wrong.  And just because they&#8217;re on the other side, doesn&#8217;t mean we should stop making sure their constitutional rights aren&#8217;t being damaged in some way.</p>
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		<title>By: mjb3190</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 07:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>o and just a thought from civics class that im sure someone else has talked about in this sea of comments, aren&#039;t the judges not supposed to listen to the public. I was under the impression that their only job was to interpret constitutionality as they see fit, not to listen to what people want

again i&#039;m sure someone already cleared this up but im too lazy to look</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>o and just a thought from civics class that im sure someone else has talked about in this sea of comments, aren&#8217;t the judges not supposed to listen to the public. I was under the impression that their only job was to interpret constitutionality as they see fit, not to listen to what people want</p>
<p>again i&#8217;m sure someone already cleared this up but im too lazy to look</p>
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		<title>By: mjb3190</title>
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		<dc:creator>mjb3190</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 07:37:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you helped me write my english paper with this. thank u!</description>
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		<title>By: dnandy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 18:55:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Veganboy; yes, I do have the right to vote against something I don&#039;t like.  I have the right to discriminate if I don&#039;t agree with something.  If I don&#039;t want a certain person as leader of my country, I discriminate; if I don&#039;t like certain flavours of icecream, I discriminate.   Discrimination, in and of itself is not illegal or wrong.  I don&#039;t, however have the right to commit illegal acts of violence and hatred against something I don&#039;t like.

You&#039;re right; sometimes the majority is wrong; but in this case, I don&#039;t think so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Veganboy; yes, I do have the right to vote against something I don&#8217;t like.  I have the right to discriminate if I don&#8217;t agree with something.  If I don&#8217;t want a certain person as leader of my country, I discriminate; if I don&#8217;t like certain flavours of icecream, I discriminate.   Discrimination, in and of itself is not illegal or wrong.  I don&#8217;t, however have the right to commit illegal acts of violence and hatred against something I don&#8217;t like.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re right; sometimes the majority is wrong; but in this case, I don&#8217;t think so.</p>
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		<title>By: dnandy</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 18:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The law of the USA and it&#039;s states is designed to uphold the moral standards of the majority.  Whether the standards of said majority are &quot;right&quot; or &quot;wrong&quot; is not the issue on whether it passes for law.  Without the democratic right of the majority to make and have enforced laws it deems acceptable, then we are left to the tyranny of minorities or individuals.  We call the latter groups oligarchies and despots respectively.
Those who claim that &quot;religion&quot; has no place in politics are wrong, unless religion has been wiped from minds and hearts of the people, it will always influence politics and the laws that are created and enforced.
Laws are also standards agreed upon by and imposed on the citizens of a nation that state what is appropriate and what is not appropriate.  In Islamist countries, such laws reflect Islamist beliefs; in Christian countries, such laws reflect Christian beliefs.  Even Agnostic countries reflect the beliefs of their people.
However when the laws of a country become corrupt, then anything goes.  What was once defined as acceptable and unacceptable becomes all acceptable.  The lines that once were placed as guardrails are removed and society begins it&#039;s free fall down the slippery slope of promiscuity and permissiveness.
Some people like to think that the fight for black rights and the fight for gay rights is the same.  It&#039;s not.  Blacks are a race of people who were oppressed and enslaved for no better reason than the colour of their skin for hundreds of years.  Gays on the other hand are not a race, but encompass many, if not all races, and have only had restrictions placed in regards to their behaviour.  Behaviour which the majority of most governments throughout the history of the world have deemed inappropriate.
Unfortunately, this minority group seems to be taking it upon themselves not only rights of equality, to which it holds valid claim (no one should be persecuted or come to violent harm due to race, gender or sexual preference), but it also is working towards the subversion of another groups&#039; rights to practice their own beliefs, simply because it conflicts with their own.  They seem to think that tolerance is a one way street and if we all don&#039;t think as they do, we should be sued, assaulted and vilified, and yet they want our unconditional acceptance.
Their latest assault (lets not forget it is far from their last) is that they want to change the ages-long definition of marriage.  I don&#039;t agree with that.  Marriage has and will always be strictly between a man and woman for the propagation of the human family through (ideally) natural means.  Let them have equal legal rights in their relationships with each other, but call it by another name, for it is not the same, and never can be.
My biggest frustration with the gay community (or specifically with it&#039;s activist bodies) isn&#039;t that they live the way they do; my biggest frustration is that they are attempting to force their lifestyle on everyone, even those who disagree.  And if you disagree you face the likely outcome of litigation, verbal and physical assault and outright hatred.  For a group that cries for tolerance, they sure don&#039;t have much themselves.

Just so you know: tolerance is NOT acceptance.  tolerance is the ability to be amicable and courteous to someone even though you don&#039;t agree.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The law of the USA and it&#8217;s states is designed to uphold the moral standards of the majority.  Whether the standards of said majority are &#8220;right&#8221; or &#8220;wrong&#8221; is not the issue on whether it passes for law.  Without the democratic right of the majority to make and have enforced laws it deems acceptable, then we are left to the tyranny of minorities or individuals.  We call the latter groups oligarchies and despots respectively.<br />
Those who claim that &#8220;religion&#8221; has no place in politics are wrong, unless religion has been wiped from minds and hearts of the people, it will always influence politics and the laws that are created and enforced.<br />
Laws are also standards agreed upon by and imposed on the citizens of a nation that state what is appropriate and what is not appropriate.  In Islamist countries, such laws reflect Islamist beliefs; in Christian countries, such laws reflect Christian beliefs.  Even Agnostic countries reflect the beliefs of their people.<br />
However when the laws of a country become corrupt, then anything goes.  What was once defined as acceptable and unacceptable becomes all acceptable.  The lines that once were placed as guardrails are removed and society begins it&#8217;s free fall down the slippery slope of promiscuity and permissiveness.<br />
Some people like to think that the fight for black rights and the fight for gay rights is the same.  It&#8217;s not.  Blacks are a race of people who were oppressed and enslaved for no better reason than the colour of their skin for hundreds of years.  Gays on the other hand are not a race, but encompass many, if not all races, and have only had restrictions placed in regards to their behaviour.  Behaviour which the majority of most governments throughout the history of the world have deemed inappropriate.<br />
Unfortunately, this minority group seems to be taking it upon themselves not only rights of equality, to which it holds valid claim (no one should be persecuted or come to violent harm due to race, gender or sexual preference), but it also is working towards the subversion of another groups&#8217; rights to practice their own beliefs, simply because it conflicts with their own.  They seem to think that tolerance is a one way street and if we all don&#8217;t think as they do, we should be sued, assaulted and vilified, and yet they want our unconditional acceptance.<br />
Their latest assault (lets not forget it is far from their last) is that they want to change the ages-long definition of marriage.  I don&#8217;t agree with that.  Marriage has and will always be strictly between a man and woman for the propagation of the human family through (ideally) natural means.  Let them have equal legal rights in their relationships with each other, but call it by another name, for it is not the same, and never can be.<br />
My biggest frustration with the gay community (or specifically with it&#8217;s activist bodies) isn&#8217;t that they live the way they do; my biggest frustration is that they are attempting to force their lifestyle on everyone, even those who disagree.  And if you disagree you face the likely outcome of litigation, verbal and physical assault and outright hatred.  For a group that cries for tolerance, they sure don&#8217;t have much themselves.</p>
<p>Just so you know: tolerance is NOT acceptance.  tolerance is the ability to be amicable and courteous to someone even though you don&#8217;t agree.</p>
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		<title>By: Tae</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am not &quot;showing hatred&quot; to homosexuals when I show abhorrence to the idea of teaching strictly adult material (alternate sexual relationships) in schools. I am not &quot;discriminating&quot; when I state that religious institutions should not have to alter or redefine their practices (THAT change would be discriminatory) because a homosexual couple wants the title of being &quot;married&quot; (ask yourself, and be honest... how much does that term actually mean nowadays anyways? It&#039;s kind of sad).  Furthermore, I am perfectly fine with letting homosexual couples have visitation and financial rights. Probably the one thing I am adamantly opposed to (via religious belief alone) is letting gay couples adopt children.  I am against that. So sue me (no pun intended). I&#039;m allowed to have my opinion. You are allowed to have yours. If you want to know why I think the way I do, have the guts to respectfully ask me before you accuse me of being a bigot. Thanks for reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not &#8220;showing hatred&#8221; to homosexuals when I show abhorrence to the idea of teaching strictly adult material (alternate sexual relationships) in schools. I am not &#8220;discriminating&#8221; when I state that religious institutions should not have to alter or redefine their practices (THAT change would be discriminatory) because a homosexual couple wants the title of being &#8220;married&#8221; (ask yourself, and be honest&#8230; how much does that term actually mean nowadays anyways? It&#8217;s kind of sad).  Furthermore, I am perfectly fine with letting homosexual couples have visitation and financial rights. Probably the one thing I am adamantly opposed to (via religious belief alone) is letting gay couples adopt children.  I am against that. So sue me (no pun intended). I&#8217;m allowed to have my opinion. You are allowed to have yours. If you want to know why I think the way I do, have the guts to respectfully ask me before you accuse me of being a bigot. Thanks for reading.</p>
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		<title>By: veganboy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:06:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, people feel they should have the right to discriminate because they don&#039;t like something?  Doesn&#039;t ever occur to people that just because you don&#039;t like something/someone, that doesn&#039;t mean you should be able to make laws to deny them their right.  Sometimes the majority is wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, people feel they should have the right to discriminate because they don&#8217;t like something?  Doesn&#8217;t ever occur to people that just because you don&#8217;t like something/someone, that doesn&#8217;t mean you should be able to make laws to deny them their right.  Sometimes the majority is wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: sugarpoultry</title>
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		<dc:creator>sugarpoultry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 16:26:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>boredalum: Or, a vote for 8 means we are traditional marriage supporters and has nothing to do with gays or any other groups at all.

Anyways, Prop 8 passed. I&#039;m very very happy it did so. It&#039;s stupid how there are so many protesters right now, especially attacking the LDS community. They are literally saying &quot;the constitution is unconstitutional&quot; *facepalm*

The vote could have gone either way, it was a 50/50 chance of passing or failing. It was totally fair. Its their fault they don&#039;t have enough supporters on their side. It&#039;s their fault if they didn&#039;t do enough &quot;positive reinforcement&quot; to help win voters. All their violence and anger only caused more people to vote against them. They are the ones who dug their own grave, I say live with it...

No rights were &quot;lost&quot;. They got 6 months of being able to get &quot;married&quot; and have it called &quot;marriage&quot;. But the rights were the same as if it were a civil union. Now, its back to the way it was, and the way it always has been. The entire country (besides Massachusetts) is on the same page.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>boredalum: Or, a vote for 8 means we are traditional marriage supporters and has nothing to do with gays or any other groups at all.</p>
<p>Anyways, Prop 8 passed. I&#8217;m very very happy it did so. It&#8217;s stupid how there are so many protesters right now, especially attacking the LDS community. They are literally saying &#8220;the constitution is unconstitutional&#8221; *facepalm*</p>
<p>The vote could have gone either way, it was a 50/50 chance of passing or failing. It was totally fair. Its their fault they don&#8217;t have enough supporters on their side. It&#8217;s their fault if they didn&#8217;t do enough &#8220;positive reinforcement&#8221; to help win voters. All their violence and anger only caused more people to vote against them. They are the ones who dug their own grave, I say live with it&#8230;</p>
<p>No rights were &#8220;lost&#8221;. They got 6 months of being able to get &#8220;married&#8221; and have it called &#8220;marriage&#8221;. But the rights were the same as if it were a civil union. Now, its back to the way it was, and the way it always has been. The entire country (besides Massachusetts) is on the same page.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 01:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>boredalum said:
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&quot;A vote for 8 means you support amending a constitution to eliminate rights for a group of people&quot; - Like the right to marry your sister, or your cousin, or a ten-year-old, or someone who is already married?  But they love each other, doesn&#039;t that give them the right to be married?  No, I&#039;m sorry, but it doesn&#039;t.  
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&quot;. . . you condone the lies. . . &quot; - Like the notion that if marriage is redefined to include homosexual couples that will somehow not warrant a mention in public schools?  How could it not change school curricula; it changes marriage for pity&#039;s sake!  No on 8 is lying on this one.  
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&quot;. . . scare tactics. . . &quot; - Like the &quot;Home Invasion&quot; ad?  Equating people&#039;s right to express their political opinion on a social issue to violent criminal behavior is disgraceful.  
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&quot;. . . you believe in letting children inherit a world where it is ok to discriminate and treat people differently under the law.&quot; - Try marrying your cousin and see if the law treats you differently.  Of course it does.  Law discourages certain types of behavior that on the whole are not good for society.  You don&#039;t seem to be able to grasp this.
?.
?&quot;. . . what your religion says about religious marriage&quot; - For the million and first time, why can&#039;t religions be allowed to speak out on moral issues?  Morality is the basis of law.  
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&quot;. . . taking civil rights away from people&quot; - Who are immutably homosexual?  They have no free will when it comes to their sexual behavior?  
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&quot;You believe all people should be treated with equality, dignity, and respect under the law.&quot; - I do and I am voting for Prop 8.  
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?&quot;Ask yourself where you want your vote to be recorded in history.&quot; -  Indeed, what do you stand for?  As a nation, our moral standards have been sliding for a number of years.  Keep marriage between a man and woman.  Draw a line here or watch families continue to decline and society decline along with them.  ?
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?Vote Yes on 8 - let your voice be heard on a decidedly moral issue.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>boredalum said:<br />
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&#8220;A vote for 8 means you support amending a constitution to eliminate rights for a group of people&#8221; &#8211; Like the right to marry your sister, or your cousin, or a ten-year-old, or someone who is already married?  But they love each other, doesn&#8217;t that give them the right to be married?  No, I&#8217;m sorry, but it doesn&#8217;t.<br />
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&#8220;. . . you condone the lies. . . &#8221; &#8211; Like the notion that if marriage is redefined to include homosexual couples that will somehow not warrant a mention in public schools?  How could it not change school curricula; it changes marriage for pity&#8217;s sake!  No on 8 is lying on this one.<br />
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&#8220;. . . scare tactics. . . &#8221; &#8211; Like the &#8220;Home Invasion&#8221; ad?  Equating people&#8217;s right to express their political opinion on a social issue to violent criminal behavior is disgraceful.<br />
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&#8220;. . . you believe in letting children inherit a world where it is ok to discriminate and treat people differently under the law.&#8221; &#8211; Try marrying your cousin and see if the law treats you differently.  Of course it does.  Law discourages certain types of behavior that on the whole are not good for society.  You don&#8217;t seem to be able to grasp this.<br />
?.<br />
?&#8221;. . . what your religion says about religious marriage&#8221; &#8211; For the million and first time, why can&#8217;t religions be allowed to speak out on moral issues?  Morality is the basis of law.<br />
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&#8220;. . . taking civil rights away from people&#8221; &#8211; Who are immutably homosexual?  They have no free will when it comes to their sexual behavior?<br />
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&#8220;You believe all people should be treated with equality, dignity, and respect under the law.&#8221; &#8211; I do and I am voting for Prop 8.<br />
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?&#8221;Ask yourself where you want your vote to be recorded in history.&#8221; &#8211;  Indeed, what do you stand for?  As a nation, our moral standards have been sliding for a number of years.  Keep marriage between a man and woman.  Draw a line here or watch families continue to decline and society decline along with them.  ?<br />
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?Vote Yes on 8 &#8211; let your voice be heard on a decidedly moral issue.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 18:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Short and Simple:
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A vote for 8 means you support amending a constitution to eliminate rights for a group of people without benefiting anyone; you condone the lies (every debunked ad), racist propaganda (the disgusting ad misrepresenting Obama&#039;s position on prop 8 sent only to African American homes), scare tactics (the deceptive ads claiming 8 has anything to do with church tax exemptions and schools), and sabotage (the cyber attack on the No on 8 website that shut it down) of the proponents campaign; you believe in letting children inherit a world where it is ok to discriminate and treat people differently under the law.
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Voting No on 8 means that you recognize, no matter how you personally feel about marriage, or what your religion says about religious marriage, that taking civil rights away from people and amending the constitution to discriminate is wrong.  You believe all people should be treated with equality, dignity, and respect under the law.  You recognize that committed, loving, and devoted couples, especially those providing warm, loving, supportive, and healthy homes for children deserve to have equal treatment under the law.
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There&#039;s really nothing more that can be said.  Ask yourself where you want your vote to be recorded in history.  Do you support extreme forms of discrimination (and yes, amending a constitution to target a group of people for discrimination is very extreme and unprecedented in this country) or equality.
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Vote No on 8 - it is unfair, it is wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Short and Simple:<br />
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A vote for 8 means you support amending a constitution to eliminate rights for a group of people without benefiting anyone; you condone the lies (every debunked ad), racist propaganda (the disgusting ad misrepresenting Obama&#8217;s position on prop 8 sent only to African American homes), scare tactics (the deceptive ads claiming 8 has anything to do with church tax exemptions and schools), and sabotage (the cyber attack on the No on 8 website that shut it down) of the proponents campaign; you believe in letting children inherit a world where it is ok to discriminate and treat people differently under the law.<br />
.<br />
Voting No on 8 means that you recognize, no matter how you personally feel about marriage, or what your religion says about religious marriage, that taking civil rights away from people and amending the constitution to discriminate is wrong.  You believe all people should be treated with equality, dignity, and respect under the law.  You recognize that committed, loving, and devoted couples, especially those providing warm, loving, supportive, and healthy homes for children deserve to have equal treatment under the law.<br />
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There&#8217;s really nothing more that can be said.  Ask yourself where you want your vote to be recorded in history.  Do you support extreme forms of discrimination (and yes, amending a constitution to target a group of people for discrimination is very extreme and unprecedented in this country) or equality.<br />
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Vote No on 8 &#8211; it is unfair, it is wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<dc:creator>graybeard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 17:26:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-boredalum  Thank you.  If I have lightened your life with humor, my instruction has not been entirely in vain.
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Unfortunately, you have not recognized that emotional language, however justified you believe  it to be, tends to repel the very people your are attempting to persuade.
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I could say more, but today the people decide.  If they are the source of your rights, that should settle it.  If G-d (God) is the source of your rights, a final decision will be postponed.  In any eventual meeting between the opposition to Prop 8 and deity, may there be more kindness and tolerance evidenced than I have seen here.
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-boredalum, adieu.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-boredalum  Thank you.  If I have lightened your life with humor, my instruction has not been entirely in vain.<br />
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Unfortunately, you have not recognized that emotional language, however justified you believe  it to be, tends to repel the very people your are attempting to persuade.<br />
.<br />
I could say more, but today the people decide.  If they are the source of your rights, that should settle it.  If G-d (God) is the source of your rights, a final decision will be postponed.  In any eventual meeting between the opposition to Prop 8 and deity, may there be more kindness and tolerance evidenced than I have seen here.<br />
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-boredalum, adieu.</p>
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		<title>By: sugarpoultry</title>
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		<dc:creator>sugarpoultry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:15:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m tired of how people who are against Prop 8 are for &quot;love and tolerance&quot; when they go around and attack those who are for it; vandalize public and private property, slash tires, and even go as far as to physically injure people who are for Prop 8. Those people are the true bigots. 

Look all over the internet, and you will find only ONE case of a Prop 8 supporter doing any of the sort back. 

Homosexuals and &quot;No to Prop 8&quot; People: If you want people to accept you as equals, accept you getting the same rights, treat you with respect, or even LIKE you, this is NOT how you do it. 

Just seeing how you treat other people over the matter makes me want to &quot;hate&quot; you, or &quot;take your rights away&quot; as you put it, when you clearly don&#039;t deserve them...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m tired of how people who are against Prop 8 are for &#8220;love and tolerance&#8221; when they go around and attack those who are for it; vandalize public and private property, slash tires, and even go as far as to physically injure people who are for Prop 8. Those people are the true bigots. </p>
<p>Look all over the internet, and you will find only ONE case of a Prop 8 supporter doing any of the sort back. </p>
<p>Homosexuals and &#8220;No to Prop 8&#8243; People: If you want people to accept you as equals, accept you getting the same rights, treat you with respect, or even LIKE you, this is NOT how you do it. </p>
<p>Just seeing how you treat other people over the matter makes me want to &#8220;hate&#8221; you, or &#8220;take your rights away&#8221; as you put it, when you clearly don&#8217;t deserve them&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 17:21:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>boredalum:
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&quot;If a fanatical religious movement tried to amend the constitution to take away the rights. . .  I would use the same words.&quot; - So by extension a fanatical religious movement is currently trying to limit marriage to a man and a woman.  I just read another forum where it is now Mormons, Fundamentalists, and Radical Islamists supporting Prop 8.  It can&#039;t just be people who care about a moral issue.  They have to be fanatical or in some way mentally unhinged?  
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&quot;I stand by my charged words and their dictionary meanings as applied to prop 8. It is hateful, discriminatory, repugnant, etc.&quot; - You sure that doesn&#039;t make you sound just a little bit fanatical?  
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&quot;Bigotry does not deserve my respect and I will not raise it up or give it any legitimacy by treating it like it has any value.&quot; - So, you are in fact a bigot yourself.  Think about it.  A bigot is someone who is intolerant towards people who hold opinions different from their own.  You have defined the Prop 8 argument as being hateful, bigoted, etc, falsely labeling the motivation of others based on your own viewpoint.  You have disparaged people who support Prop 8 in the strongest possible terms.  You refuse to consider the idea that those same people may be 1) acting according to their conscience on a moral issue that affects all of society, 2) that they have every right to do so, and 3) that they may actually be free-thinking rational people.  
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The perpetually emotional nature of your arguments don&#039;t exactly cast you as the most rational person on the forum here.</description>
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&#8220;If a fanatical religious movement tried to amend the constitution to take away the rights. . .  I would use the same words.&#8221; &#8211; So by extension a fanatical religious movement is currently trying to limit marriage to a man and a woman.  I just read another forum where it is now Mormons, Fundamentalists, and Radical Islamists supporting Prop 8.  It can&#8217;t just be people who care about a moral issue.  They have to be fanatical or in some way mentally unhinged?<br />
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&#8220;I stand by my charged words and their dictionary meanings as applied to prop 8. It is hateful, discriminatory, repugnant, etc.&#8221; &#8211; You sure that doesn&#8217;t make you sound just a little bit fanatical?<br />
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&#8220;Bigotry does not deserve my respect and I will not raise it up or give it any legitimacy by treating it like it has any value.&#8221; &#8211; So, you are in fact a bigot yourself.  Think about it.  A bigot is someone who is intolerant towards people who hold opinions different from their own.  You have defined the Prop 8 argument as being hateful, bigoted, etc, falsely labeling the motivation of others based on your own viewpoint.  You have disparaged people who support Prop 8 in the strongest possible terms.  You refuse to consider the idea that those same people may be 1) acting according to their conscience on a moral issue that affects all of society, 2) that they have every right to do so, and 3) that they may actually be free-thinking rational people.<br />
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The perpetually emotional nature of your arguments don&#8217;t exactly cast you as the most rational person on the forum here.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>graybeard:
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You&#039;re hilarious.  I stand by my charged words and their dictionary meanings as applied to prop 8.  It is hateful, discriminatory, repugnant, etc.  If a fanatical religious movement tried to amend the constitution to take away the rights of the elderly, infertile couples, left handed people, or any minority - I would use the same words.  Bigotry does not deserve my respect and I will not raise it up or give it any legitimacy by treating it (the prop 8 propaganda and its hateful, wrong, and petty purpose) like it has any value.
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I must reiterate - this is an online message board - I am not submitting a final exam essay, thesis dissertation, or even a newspaper op-ed piece, and so, I take the liberty to write less formerly than usual. I think even you would be impressed with the quality of my writing in the proper context.
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My post was long enough without having to devote any more space or time for the lies conveyed by Prof. Peterson.  I raised his essential claims and then knocked them down authoritatively.  People should be responsible enough to check my citations and fact check my claims.  They can easily go to Google or any number of other resources and pull up the arguments, watch the controversial ad, and otherwise verify the veracity of my arguments.
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But thanks for the critique and humor.  I’ll keep you in mind if I ever need a peer review of my work.
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Vote No on Prop 8</description>
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You&#8217;re hilarious.  I stand by my charged words and their dictionary meanings as applied to prop 8.  It is hateful, discriminatory, repugnant, etc.  If a fanatical religious movement tried to amend the constitution to take away the rights of the elderly, infertile couples, left handed people, or any minority &#8211; I would use the same words.  Bigotry does not deserve my respect and I will not raise it up or give it any legitimacy by treating it (the prop 8 propaganda and its hateful, wrong, and petty purpose) like it has any value.<br />
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I must reiterate &#8211; this is an online message board &#8211; I am not submitting a final exam essay, thesis dissertation, or even a newspaper op-ed piece, and so, I take the liberty to write less formerly than usual. I think even you would be impressed with the quality of my writing in the proper context.<br />
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My post was long enough without having to devote any more space or time for the lies conveyed by Prof. Peterson.  I raised his essential claims and then knocked them down authoritatively.  People should be responsible enough to check my citations and fact check my claims.  They can easily go to Google or any number of other resources and pull up the arguments, watch the controversial ad, and otherwise verify the veracity of my arguments.<br />
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But thanks for the critique and humor.  I’ll keep you in mind if I ever need a peer review of my work.<br />
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Vote No on Prop 8</p>
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 15:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-boredalum
On a light note, be careful to accurately paraphrase others.  There are differences between a tired which aches and an ache which is tired.  Let’s itemize your remaining problems.
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1. Your documentation is inconsistent.  You made a reasonable start but an extremely poor finish.  Always try to end with your strongest supported arguments.
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2. Supporting your own statements degenerated into attacking the statements of a Dr. Peterson. Please note that many people may know nothing of his positions.  Proving you are right by trying to prove him wrong requires a lot of work.  First you must  dispassionately present his views.  (I doubt that a single sentence does them justice. It simply sets up a straw man for you to knock down.)  Next, you must establish how his views oppose yours, and finally you must document any errors you believe to exit.  Simply jumping to your conclusions decreases your persuasiveness.
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3. One of the more serious flaws in your persuasive writing is your use of emotionally charged words.  Here are some examples -- repugnant, hateful, farce, bullsh’t, pathetic, bogus, debunked, bull, scare, lie, riddled, dishonest, wrong, insulting, blame, and depravities.  People equate emotion with irrationality.  Using strong emotion in your writing causes people to distrust even documented positions.
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But take heart.  You are making some progress.  Remember that the quality of your writing is often perceived as the quality of your argument.  If you would like to correct your post and resubmit it, I would be happy to review it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-boredalum<br />
On a light note, be careful to accurately paraphrase others.  There are differences between a tired which aches and an ache which is tired.  Let’s itemize your remaining problems.<br />
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1. Your documentation is inconsistent.  You made a reasonable start but an extremely poor finish.  Always try to end with your strongest supported arguments.<br />
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2. Supporting your own statements degenerated into attacking the statements of a Dr. Peterson. Please note that many people may know nothing of his positions.  Proving you are right by trying to prove him wrong requires a lot of work.  First you must  dispassionately present his views.  (I doubt that a single sentence does them justice. It simply sets up a straw man for you to knock down.)  Next, you must establish how his views oppose yours, and finally you must document any errors you believe to exit.  Simply jumping to your conclusions decreases your persuasiveness.<br />
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3. One of the more serious flaws in your persuasive writing is your use of emotionally charged words.  Here are some examples &#8212; repugnant, hateful, farce, bullsh’t, pathetic, bogus, debunked, bull, scare, lie, riddled, dishonest, wrong, insulting, blame, and depravities.  People equate emotion with irrationality.  Using strong emotion in your writing causes people to distrust even documented positions.<br />
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But take heart.  You are making some progress.  Remember that the quality of your writing is often perceived as the quality of your argument.  If you would like to correct your post and resubmit it, I would be happy to review it.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<dc:creator>boredalum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Nov 2008 03:43:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Scott, graybeard, and all others still reading who challenge my claims:
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Sorry for making your ache tired.  I didn&#039;t know that I was submitting a dissertation thesis to such a critical professor.  Here I thought this was an informal online forum.  But of course, you are right.  I am making serious claims and some people who are still following this debate might be undecided on how to vote on these repugnant and hateful measures in California, Arizona, Florida, and elsewhere.  So I have included plenty of citations and authority for my claims:
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EX-GAY MOVEMENT IS A FARCE
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A 2002 peer-reviewed study found that 88% of participants failed to achieve a sustained change in their sexual behavior and 3% reported changing their orientation to heterosexual. The remainder reported either losing all sexual drive or attempting to remain celibate, with no change in attraction. Some of the participants who failed felt a sense of shame and had gone through conversion therapy programs for many years. Others who failed believed that therapy was worthwhile and valuable. Of the 8 respondents (out of a sample of 202) who reported a change in sexual orientation, 7 worked as ex-gay counselors or group leaders. See Shidlo, Ariel; Schroeder, Michael; Drescher, Jack (2001). Sexual Conversion Therapy: Ethical, Clinical, and Research Perspectives. New York: Haworth Medical Press. ISBN 0789019108 (summary copied from wikipedia).  This supports my claim that most ex-gay conversions are unsuccessful.
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A little satirical humor that conveys a message – humor is something that I often find sadly lacking in this world
http://www.jibjab.com/view/90712
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Very informative article with many internal citations – especially pick up the book cited herein (One Nation Under G-d)(title altered by boredalum). Of special note: Perfect example of the bullsh*t that is the basis of the ex-gay movement in the form of Gary Busse and Michael Cooper, the gay couple who founded Exodus, a &quot;ministry&quot; aimed at turning gays into &quot;ex-gays.&quot; After a few years of teaching this dubious gospel - spread in pamphlets with titles such as &quot;Unhappy and gay? Join the Exodus&quot; -- they admitted to each other that they had fallen in love, quit their movement and started preaching tolerance and self-acceptance instead. They thus became &quot;ex-&#039;ex-gays.&#039;&quot;
http://www.otkenyer.hu/kovu/section10.php
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Excellent article debunking the un-peer-reviewed and bogus claims of the ex-gay movement:
http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/HTML/facts_changing.html
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A great site that monitors bogus claims and activities of ex-gay figures – loaded with information, resources, and links that frankly I don’t have the time to dig up myself for the purposes of this message board – I do actually do other things besides post long essays on this forum:
http://www.exgaywatch.com/
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Another excellent article; naturally because it comes from the HRC it is vulnerable to claims of bias.  But the data conveyed is susceptible to fact checking and it lists loads of citations to unbiased sources (including APA, AMA, American Academy of Pediatrics).
http://www.hrc.org/documents/missionimpossible.pdf
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Here is an interesting breakdown of the ex-gay junk science.  Notice that by their own admission – the ex-gay ministries claim only a 30% “success” rate from a very targeted and pre-screened pool.  If that weren’t low enough, I’ve read before (though I can’t find the source now) that of that 30% only a quarter of participants get married and lead “heterosexual” lives – the rest wrestle with their identities and choose to remain celibate.  So of the 98 participants, there is at best a 7.5% success rate.  That’s a 92.5% failure rate, utilizing the figures provided from the ex-gay ministry in its most highly lauded study.  That’s pathetic.  And no doubt, in time, even some of those 7.5% will be turn out to be future Ted Haggards or Larry Craigs.  
http://onlinejournal.com/artman/publish/article_2475.shtml
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Again, I hate citing to wikipedia, but this article provides a primer for those who have never heard about any of these terms, organizations, or references.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ex-ex-gay
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PROP 8 HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHURCH TAX EXEMPT STATUS AND OTHER FALSE LEGAL CLAIMS AND SCARE TACTICS
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The best sources for this claim are the Federal Constitution, the California Constitution, and the In re Marriages opinion itself.  Just like divorcees would not be able to sue a Catholic church for not marrying them or an interfaith couple could not sue a synagogue for refusing to solemnize their marriage, no successful lawsuits would prevail if a same sex couple even tried to sue a church for not recognizing their union under religious law (see 1st Amendment, period).  The bogus claims by the lone debunked professor from Pepperdine, Richard Peterson, are at odds with virtually every other law professor at the best law schools in California.  Citing to the letter signed by 59 distinguished law professors who refute his claims is authoritative.  But apparently people want more.  So here goes.  
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Peterson’s claim that people will be sued over personal beliefs – bull!
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The legal document that goes on screen as support for this misleading deception has nothing to do with same sex marriage or prop 8.  That lawsuit involved a lesbian couple suing a doctor for refusing to perform a medical treatment on religious grounds.  California’s Unruh Civil Rights Act prohibits discrimination in public accommodations and services on the basis of sexual orientation.  Licensed medical doctors cannot refuse to perform medical services because they are bigots or because their religious and non-scientific beliefs call for them to discriminate against their patients (The same would be true under Unruh if a doctor refused to provide medical services to a black or Latino person or a person belonging to any faith or no faith.  If you’re going to be a medical doctor licensed by the state – it’s pretty simple and uncontroversial to expect of you that you won’t discriminate against your patients.)  The case can be found here: http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/opinions/documents/S142892.PDF. Unruh long pre-exists same sex marriage, has nothing to do with same sex marriage, and will not change no matter the outcome of prop 8.  So – Peterson’s assertion and scare tactic that prop 8 is necessary to stop lawsuits against individuals for having personal beliefs is bogus, unethical, and deceptive.  
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Peterson’s claims about church tax exempt status
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The newspaper clipping that flashes on the screen as Peterson makes this claim is taken totally out of context.  The article by Robert Dekoven (a Californian Western Law Professor) that appeared in the Gay and Lesbian Times only said that those churches that actively endorse political candidates or political campaigns might risk losing their tax exempt status.  This argument could be applied to any political issue (abortion, prayer in school, oil drilling, fill in the ______ here) and is not isolated to prop 8 or same sex marriage.  Churches are exempt from paying taxes precisely because they agree not get involved as institutions in political matters.  And that’s the way it should be.  Interestingly, since the U.S. Conference of Bishops gave $200,000 to proponents of prop 8, it is THEIR ACTIONS that might jeopardize their own status.  It is not based on same sex marriage or refusal to marry same sex couples – it is based on campaigning as a church.  To claim that churches might loses tax exemptions for refusing to marry same sex couples (precisely for the same reasons that this wouldn’t happen in the case of refusing to marry divorcees, interfaith people, or anyone else not allowed to marry by that church’s religious doctrine) IS A BOLD FACED AND UNSUPPORTED LIE.  It is a wholly different discussion, not yet addressed or decided by Congress or any court, whether tax exemptions should apply to churches that actively participate in the political process.  I think they should lose their status if they do and I’m willing to debate that issue separately, but it is mutually exclusive from prop 8. PERIOD. In any case, aside from that one article, there is no other support, legal citation, or other authority validating the claim.  It’s another bogus scare tactic riddled with lies and misleading assertions.
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Peterson’s claim about school curricula
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The case cited by Peterson in the controversial prop 8 ad is Parker v. Hurley, 414 F.3d 87 (1st Cir. 2008).  If you look up the cited case, you’ll notice that those idiots behind prop 8 are so bad at actually checking their facts before making commercials that they even got the case citation wrong.  The actual case is reported at 514 F.3d 87.  But I digress.  Notice this is a First Circuit case originating in Massachusetts.  California resides within the Ninth Circuit.  California law is different than Massachusetts law, and either state or federal court would have to apply the law of the forum state.  In any case, many prop 8 ads keep citing to the Cal. Educ. Code s. 51933 which says in pertinent part: “Instruction and materials shall teach respect for marriage.&quot;  What they deliberately omit however is provision also mandates the teaching of respect for &quot;all committed relationships&quot; in addition to marriage, which presumably includes respect for committed same-sex relationships. Thus, regardless of the outcome of Prop 8, schoolchildren may already be instructed on the worth of gay families under existing policy.  Proponents also conveniently ignore the fact that parents are entitled to have notice that sex ed instruction will occur and are entitled to withdraw their children from such classes. Cal. Educ. Code ss. 51937-51939. Under s. 51938, &quot;A parent or guardian of a pupil has the right to excuse their child from all or part of comprehensive sexual health education, HIV/AIDS prevention education, and assessments related to that education . . . .&quot; This serves the legislative view that &quot;parents and guardians have the ultimate responsibility for imparting values regarding human sexuality to their children.&quot; Cal. Educ. Code s. 51937. Furthermore, private religious schools are completely exempt from the general state education requirement that schools not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. Cal. Educ. Code s. 221.  Prop 8 has nothing to do with school curricula which is governed by the Cal. Educ. Code and which is determined by local school districts with participation from parents.
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So I repeat – prop 8 has nothing to do with lawsuits for beliefs, church tax exempt status, and school curricula.  Proponents can keep using scare tactics and lies until their immoral, dishonest, hateful, and petty faces turn blue.  There is no legal support for their claims.  Their one legal “expert” has been debunked numerous times.  An actual reading of the proposition and California law proves the falsities of these assertions.
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For more of the same, visit: http://volokh.com/posts/1223612249.shtml
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For Scott:
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On the tax and school issues, look above (your analysis is clearly wrong, and mine is clearly right – I don’t know what else I can do but cite the authorities, the statutes at issue, and the con law provisions). As to other issues you raise:
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Civil Unions are less than marriage
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A study in NJ comparing its civil unions to marriage found many tangible and intangible deficiencies.  http://www.nj.gov/oag/dcr/downloads/1st-InterimReport-CURC.pdf.  During oral arguments before the Cal Supreme Court, the couples’ attorneys raised many other reasons, you can listen to those here: http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/courts/supreme/highprofile/.  Even if there weren’t concrete differences, I would maintain that separate but equal is inherently unequal.  Just as it would be unfair and wrong to tell interracial couples that they can’t get married and instead offer the insulting alternative of a civil union, so too is it unfair and wrong with respect to same sex couples.  Civil marriage is a civil institution and denying it to anyone is no different than denying access to people to become teachers, participate in politics, vote, and live as free first class citizens.  Same sex couples make excellent parents to thousands of children – many of whom are adopted because they were conceived by unloving or unprepared heterosexuals – and they will continue to raise families irrespective of prop 8.  It harms children when parents aren’t married – both because of the social stigma, but also, as I am sure you would agree, because marriage is the glue that hold families together; it creates commit and solidifies mutual love and support, obligations, and privileges.
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Gay promiscuity
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Obviously, as you admitted, your views on gay sexual behaviors are based on prejudice and stereotypes.  It’s insulting that you believe gays have more promiscuous sex than heterosexuals.  Putting aside your value judgment on human sexual expression, you can’t possibly quantify your assertions.  Have you been to any Fraternity houses recently?  I’d wager that straight guys in college have a lot more sex with many more partners and expose themselves to just as many STDS as the average gay guy.  I’ll concede, without having the time now to research this point, that gay men in the 70s and 80s had a lot of unsafe and uncommitted sexual relations. But can you blame them.  They were finally liberated from the closets, the shadows, the park bushes, and the underground.  They could finally come out and be open.  Just like many Holocaust survivors died shortly after liberation from over-engorging upon seeing food for the first time in years, so too did gay men overdo unsafe sex because they finally had the opportunity to do it.  Today though, within the gay community there has been a transformation.  Gay kids and teens, especially those who can confide in their parents and get the love and support that they need, engage is much less risky behavior overall and aspire to live in “normal” relationships.  I do not believe that gays teens or adults are any more or less sexually active than heterosexuals, and I doubt very much that you’d be able to back up that assertion without resorting to prejudice.  The reason gays and lesbians are fighting so hard to for marriage and inclusion is precisely because they want to live in committed responsible relationships that are better for child rearing.  And of course, marriage isn’t for everyone, so non-monogamous gays won’t seek to enter the institution just like many heterosexuals don’t.
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More generally – most of the arguments that you advance, especially those that you back up with your personal and selective notions of “public” “morality” reveal something about you.  Same sex marriage and prop 8 are really just a herring for you.  They only way you could really be consistent in your views on our pending culture war and Armageddon is if 1) gays were not allowed to enter into any relationships where they could publicly (or even privately) be seen and identified and exposed to children, 2) gays and lesbians shouldn’t be allowed to adopt, 3) gays and lesbians are either the cause or symptom of the disease of moral decay in society, 4) gays and lesbians should be conditioned to be straight or otherwise eradicated from society.  There really is no other way to make your arguments consistent unless those inferences are true.  Why even rely on the argument that same sex marriage isn’t necessary since the Cal DPA and Unruh provide all the same legal rights and benefits when you really believe gays shouldn’t be taught about at schools, shouldn’t be seen on television, shouldn’t be able to raise children, and so forth.  If you actually believe that gays should be able to do all those things then there is no sense in denying them the right to legally wed in to the civil institution of marriage.  The same moral depravities would exist and continue irrespective of prop 8. So either gays and lesbians are allowed to exist in your world or we must eradicate them slowly, one law at a time, until they are gone and stop poisoning our society.  To that, I cite to the Nuremberg Laws and ask if you are really prepared to sign onto that kind of an ideology.
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PROP 8 ONLY TAKES RIGHTS AWAY FROM PEOPLE. IT DOES NOT AFFECT EXISTING LAW THAT ALREADY DEALS WITH CHURCH TAX STATUS AND EDUCATION. PROP 8 WRITES DISCRIMINATION INTO THE CONSTITUTION, HURTS MANY, BENEFITS NO ONE, AND INJECTS ONE NARROW STREAM OF RELIGIOUS IDEOLOGY INTO SECULAR LAW.
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Don’t take rights away from anyone; treat all people equally under the law.
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VOTE NO ON PROP 8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Scott, graybeard, and all others still reading who challenge my claims:<br />
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Sorry for making your ache tired.  I didn&#8217;t know that I was submitting a dissertation thesis to such a critical professor.  Here I thought this was an informal online forum.  But of course, you are right.  I am making serious claims and some people who are still following this debate might be undecided on how to vote on these repugnant and hateful measures in California, Arizona, Florida, and elsewhere.  So I have included plenty of citations and authority for my claims:<br />
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EX-GAY MOVEMENT IS A FARCE<br />
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A 2002 peer-reviewed study found that 88% of participants failed to achieve a sustained change in their sexual behavior and 3% reported changing their orientation to heterosexual. The remainder reported either losing all sexual drive or attempting to remain celibate, with no change in attraction. Some of the participants who failed felt a sense of shame and had gone through conversion therapy programs for many years. Others who failed believed that therapy was worthwhile and valuable. Of the 8 respondents (out of a sample of 202) who reported a change in sexual orientation, 7 worked as ex-gay counselors or group leaders. See Shidlo, Ariel; Schroeder, Michael; Drescher, Jack (2001). Sexual Conversion Therapy: Ethical, Clinical, and Research Perspectives. New York: Haworth Medical Press. ISBN 0789019108 (summary copied from wikipedia).  This supports my claim that most ex-gay conversions are unsuccessful.<br />
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A little satirical humor that conveys a message – humor is something that I often find sadly lacking in this world<br />
<a href="http://www.jibjab.com/view/90712" rel="nofollow">http://www.jibjab.com/view/90712</a><br />
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Very informative article with many internal citations – especially pick up the book cited herein (One Nation Under G-d)(title altered by boredalum). Of special note: Perfect example of the bullsh*t that is the basis of the ex-gay movement in the form of Gary Busse and Michael Cooper, the gay couple who founded Exodus, a &#8220;ministry&#8221; aimed at turning gays into &#8220;ex-gays.&#8221; After a few years of teaching this dubious gospel &#8211; spread in pamphlets with titles such as &#8220;Unhappy and gay? Join the Exodus&#8221; &#8212; they admitted to each other that they had fallen in love, quit their movement and started preaching tolerance and self-acceptance instead. They thus became &#8220;ex-&#8217;ex-gays.&#8217;&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.otkenyer.hu/kovu/section10.php" rel="nofollow">http://www.otkenyer.hu/kovu/section10.php</a><br />
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Excellent article debunking the un-peer-reviewed and bogus claims of the ex-gay movement:<br />
<a href="http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/HTML/facts_changing.html" rel="nofollow">http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/HTML/facts_changing.html</a><br />
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A great site that monitors bogus claims and activities of ex-gay figures – loaded with information, resources, and links that frankly I don’t have the time to dig up myself for the purposes of this message board – I do actually do other things besides post long essays on this forum:<br />
<a href="http://www.exgaywatch.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.exgaywatch.com/</a><br />
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Another excellent article; naturally because it comes from the HRC it is vulnerable to claims of bias.  But the data conveyed is susceptible to fact checking and it lists loads of citations to unbiased sources (including APA, AMA, American Academy of Pediatrics).<br />
<a href="http://www.hrc.org/documents/missionimpossible.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.hrc.org/documents/missionimpossible.pdf</a><br />
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Here is an interesting breakdown of the ex-gay junk science.  Notice that by their own admission – the ex-gay ministries claim only a 30% “success” rate from a very targeted and pre-screened pool.  If that weren’t low enough, I’ve read before (though I can’t find the source now) that of that 30% only a quarter of participants get married and lead “heterosexual” lives – the rest wrestle with their identities and choose to remain celibate.  So of the 98 participants, there is at best a 7.5% success rate.  That’s a 92.5% failure rate, utilizing the figures provided from the ex-gay ministry in its most highly lauded study.  That’s pathetic.  And no doubt, in time, even some of those 7.5% will be turn out to be future Ted Haggards or Larry Craigs.<br />
<a href="http://onlinejournal.com/artman/publish/article_2475.shtml" rel="nofollow">http://onlinejournal.com/artman/publish/article_2475.shtml</a><br />
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Again, I hate citing to wikipedia, but this article provides a primer for those who have never heard about any of these terms, organizations, or references.<br />
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ex-ex-gay" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ex-ex-gay</a><br />
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PROP 8 HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CHURCH TAX EXEMPT STATUS AND OTHER FALSE LEGAL CLAIMS AND SCARE TACTICS<br />
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The best sources for this claim are the Federal Constitution, the California Constitution, and the In re Marriages opinion itself.  Just like divorcees would not be able to sue a Catholic church for not marrying them or an interfaith couple could not sue a synagogue for refusing to solemnize their marriage, no successful lawsuits would prevail if a same sex couple even tried to sue a church for not recognizing their union under religious law (see 1st Amendment, period).  The bogus claims by the lone debunked professor from Pepperdine, Richard Peterson, are at odds with virtually every other law professor at the best law schools in California.  Citing to the letter signed by 59 distinguished law professors who refute his claims is authoritative.  But apparently people want more.  So here goes.<br />
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Peterson’s claim that people will be sued over personal beliefs – bull!<br />
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The legal document that goes on screen as support for this misleading deception has nothing to do with same sex marriage or prop 8.  That lawsuit involved a lesbian couple suing a doctor for refusing to perform a medical treatment on religious grounds.  California’s Unruh Civil Rights Act prohibits discrimination in public accommodations and services on the basis of sexual orientation.  Licensed medical doctors cannot refuse to perform medical services because they are bigots or because their religious and non-scientific beliefs call for them to discriminate against their patients (The same would be true under Unruh if a doctor refused to provide medical services to a black or Latino person or a person belonging to any faith or no faith.  If you’re going to be a medical doctor licensed by the state – it’s pretty simple and uncontroversial to expect of you that you won’t discriminate against your patients.)  The case can be found here: <a href="http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/opinions/documents/S142892.PDF" rel="nofollow">http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/opinions/documents/S142892.PDF</a>. Unruh long pre-exists same sex marriage, has nothing to do with same sex marriage, and will not change no matter the outcome of prop 8.  So – Peterson’s assertion and scare tactic that prop 8 is necessary to stop lawsuits against individuals for having personal beliefs is bogus, unethical, and deceptive.<br />
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Peterson’s claims about church tax exempt status<br />
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The newspaper clipping that flashes on the screen as Peterson makes this claim is taken totally out of context.  The article by Robert Dekoven (a Californian Western Law Professor) that appeared in the Gay and Lesbian Times only said that those churches that actively endorse political candidates or political campaigns might risk losing their tax exempt status.  This argument could be applied to any political issue (abortion, prayer in school, oil drilling, fill in the ______ here) and is not isolated to prop 8 or same sex marriage.  Churches are exempt from paying taxes precisely because they agree not get involved as institutions in political matters.  And that’s the way it should be.  Interestingly, since the U.S. Conference of Bishops gave $200,000 to proponents of prop 8, it is THEIR ACTIONS that might jeopardize their own status.  It is not based on same sex marriage or refusal to marry same sex couples – it is based on campaigning as a church.  To claim that churches might loses tax exemptions for refusing to marry same sex couples (precisely for the same reasons that this wouldn’t happen in the case of refusing to marry divorcees, interfaith people, or anyone else not allowed to marry by that church’s religious doctrine) IS A BOLD FACED AND UNSUPPORTED LIE.  It is a wholly different discussion, not yet addressed or decided by Congress or any court, whether tax exemptions should apply to churches that actively participate in the political process.  I think they should lose their status if they do and I’m willing to debate that issue separately, but it is mutually exclusive from prop 8. PERIOD. In any case, aside from that one article, there is no other support, legal citation, or other authority validating the claim.  It’s another bogus scare tactic riddled with lies and misleading assertions.<br />
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Peterson’s claim about school curricula<br />
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The case cited by Peterson in the controversial prop 8 ad is Parker v. Hurley, 414 F.3d 87 (1st Cir. 2008).  If you look up the cited case, you’ll notice that those idiots behind prop 8 are so bad at actually checking their facts before making commercials that they even got the case citation wrong.  The actual case is reported at 514 F.3d 87.  But I digress.  Notice this is a First Circuit case originating in Massachusetts.  California resides within the Ninth Circuit.  California law is different than Massachusetts law, and either state or federal court would have to apply the law of the forum state.  In any case, many prop 8 ads keep citing to the Cal. Educ. Code s. 51933 which says in pertinent part: “Instruction and materials shall teach respect for marriage.&#8221;  What they deliberately omit however is provision also mandates the teaching of respect for &#8220;all committed relationships&#8221; in addition to marriage, which presumably includes respect for committed same-sex relationships. Thus, regardless of the outcome of Prop 8, schoolchildren may already be instructed on the worth of gay families under existing policy.  Proponents also conveniently ignore the fact that parents are entitled to have notice that sex ed instruction will occur and are entitled to withdraw their children from such classes. Cal. Educ. Code ss. 51937-51939. Under s. 51938, &#8220;A parent or guardian of a pupil has the right to excuse their child from all or part of comprehensive sexual health education, HIV/AIDS prevention education, and assessments related to that education . . . .&#8221; This serves the legislative view that &#8220;parents and guardians have the ultimate responsibility for imparting values regarding human sexuality to their children.&#8221; Cal. Educ. Code s. 51937. Furthermore, private religious schools are completely exempt from the general state education requirement that schools not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. Cal. Educ. Code s. 221.  Prop 8 has nothing to do with school curricula which is governed by the Cal. Educ. Code and which is determined by local school districts with participation from parents.<br />
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So I repeat – prop 8 has nothing to do with lawsuits for beliefs, church tax exempt status, and school curricula.  Proponents can keep using scare tactics and lies until their immoral, dishonest, hateful, and petty faces turn blue.  There is no legal support for their claims.  Their one legal “expert” has been debunked numerous times.  An actual reading of the proposition and California law proves the falsities of these assertions.<br />
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For more of the same, visit: <a href="http://volokh.com/posts/1223612249.shtml" rel="nofollow">http://volokh.com/posts/1223612249.shtml</a><br />
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For Scott:<br />
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On the tax and school issues, look above (your analysis is clearly wrong, and mine is clearly right – I don’t know what else I can do but cite the authorities, the statutes at issue, and the con law provisions). As to other issues you raise:<br />
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Civil Unions are less than marriage<br />
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A study in NJ comparing its civil unions to marriage found many tangible and intangible deficiencies.  <a href="http://www.nj.gov/oag/dcr/downloads/1st-InterimReport-CURC.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.nj.gov/oag/dcr/downloads/1st-InterimReport-CURC.pdf</a>.  During oral arguments before the Cal Supreme Court, the couples’ attorneys raised many other reasons, you can listen to those here: <a href="http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/courts/supreme/highprofile/" rel="nofollow">http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/courts/supreme/highprofile/</a>.  Even if there weren’t concrete differences, I would maintain that separate but equal is inherently unequal.  Just as it would be unfair and wrong to tell interracial couples that they can’t get married and instead offer the insulting alternative of a civil union, so too is it unfair and wrong with respect to same sex couples.  Civil marriage is a civil institution and denying it to anyone is no different than denying access to people to become teachers, participate in politics, vote, and live as free first class citizens.  Same sex couples make excellent parents to thousands of children – many of whom are adopted because they were conceived by unloving or unprepared heterosexuals – and they will continue to raise families irrespective of prop 8.  It harms children when parents aren’t married – both because of the social stigma, but also, as I am sure you would agree, because marriage is the glue that hold families together; it creates commit and solidifies mutual love and support, obligations, and privileges.<br />
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Gay promiscuity<br />
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Obviously, as you admitted, your views on gay sexual behaviors are based on prejudice and stereotypes.  It’s insulting that you believe gays have more promiscuous sex than heterosexuals.  Putting aside your value judgment on human sexual expression, you can’t possibly quantify your assertions.  Have you been to any Fraternity houses recently?  I’d wager that straight guys in college have a lot more sex with many more partners and expose themselves to just as many STDS as the average gay guy.  I’ll concede, without having the time now to research this point, that gay men in the 70s and 80s had a lot of unsafe and uncommitted sexual relations. But can you blame them.  They were finally liberated from the closets, the shadows, the park bushes, and the underground.  They could finally come out and be open.  Just like many Holocaust survivors died shortly after liberation from over-engorging upon seeing food for the first time in years, so too did gay men overdo unsafe sex because they finally had the opportunity to do it.  Today though, within the gay community there has been a transformation.  Gay kids and teens, especially those who can confide in their parents and get the love and support that they need, engage is much less risky behavior overall and aspire to live in “normal” relationships.  I do not believe that gays teens or adults are any more or less sexually active than heterosexuals, and I doubt very much that you’d be able to back up that assertion without resorting to prejudice.  The reason gays and lesbians are fighting so hard to for marriage and inclusion is precisely because they want to live in committed responsible relationships that are better for child rearing.  And of course, marriage isn’t for everyone, so non-monogamous gays won’t seek to enter the institution just like many heterosexuals don’t.<br />
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More generally – most of the arguments that you advance, especially those that you back up with your personal and selective notions of “public” “morality” reveal something about you.  Same sex marriage and prop 8 are really just a herring for you.  They only way you could really be consistent in your views on our pending culture war and Armageddon is if 1) gays were not allowed to enter into any relationships where they could publicly (or even privately) be seen and identified and exposed to children, 2) gays and lesbians shouldn’t be allowed to adopt, 3) gays and lesbians are either the cause or symptom of the disease of moral decay in society, 4) gays and lesbians should be conditioned to be straight or otherwise eradicated from society.  There really is no other way to make your arguments consistent unless those inferences are true.  Why even rely on the argument that same sex marriage isn’t necessary since the Cal DPA and Unruh provide all the same legal rights and benefits when you really believe gays shouldn’t be taught about at schools, shouldn’t be seen on television, shouldn’t be able to raise children, and so forth.  If you actually believe that gays should be able to do all those things then there is no sense in denying them the right to legally wed in to the civil institution of marriage.  The same moral depravities would exist and continue irrespective of prop 8. So either gays and lesbians are allowed to exist in your world or we must eradicate them slowly, one law at a time, until they are gone and stop poisoning our society.  To that, I cite to the Nuremberg Laws and ask if you are really prepared to sign onto that kind of an ideology.<br />
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PROP 8 ONLY TAKES RIGHTS AWAY FROM PEOPLE. IT DOES NOT AFFECT EXISTING LAW THAT ALREADY DEALS WITH CHURCH TAX STATUS AND EDUCATION. PROP 8 WRITES DISCRIMINATION INTO THE CONSTITUTION, HURTS MANY, BENEFITS NO ONE, AND INJECTS ONE NARROW STREAM OF RELIGIOUS IDEOLOGY INTO SECULAR LAW.<br />
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Don’t take rights away from anyone; treat all people equally under the law.<br />
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 21:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-boredalum
You make my tired ache.  I am simply trying to make your “one anonymous voice” more persuasive.  Here are some things to consider.
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1. Use references carefully and consistently. Citing two letters as support for all your claims is not worthy of a passing grade.  I know others may not do this, but if you want to represent ideas which are not common knowledge, you must document them with credible sources.
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2. Never promise to do something you cannot do or have no intention of doing. Example -- “I’d be happy to cite you to legitimate support for each claim that I made.” (post 10/28)  I have not yet found support for many of your statements including the one I cited -- “The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled.“ (post 10/26).
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3. When someone catches you making an emotional, unsupported statement, admit it and move on.  Throwing dust in the air and changing the subject is not at all persuasive.
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I am interested that you have learned to preface your unsupported statements with the word “if”.  This allows you to convey the message of the statement but no longer requires you to justify it.  Unfortunately, it is quite a shabby trick and not worthy of a superior argument.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>-boredalum<br />
You make my tired ache.  I am simply trying to make your “one anonymous voice” more persuasive.  Here are some things to consider.<br />
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1. Use references carefully and consistently. Citing two letters as support for all your claims is not worthy of a passing grade.  I know others may not do this, but if you want to represent ideas which are not common knowledge, you must document them with credible sources.<br />
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2. Never promise to do something you cannot do or have no intention of doing. Example &#8212; “I’d be happy to cite you to legitimate support for each claim that I made.” (post 10/28)  I have not yet found support for many of your statements including the one I cited &#8212; “The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled.“ (post 10/26).<br />
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3. When someone catches you making an emotional, unsupported statement, admit it and move on.  Throwing dust in the air and changing the subject is not at all persuasive.<br />
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I am interested that you have learned to preface your unsupported statements with the word “if”.  This allows you to convey the message of the statement but no longer requires you to justify it.  Unfortunately, it is quite a shabby trick and not worthy of a superior argument.</p>
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		<title>By: socalcutie82</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 18:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK, I got the link to this video and since I enjoyed it so much I started watching the other videos....and I am HOOKED!!! You can expect to see much more of me on here now.  I also loved the video about languages in other countries....AMEN!!

And thanks for posting this video about Prop. 8!! I am so tired of hearing negative stuff, it&#039;s nice to see things presented in such a lighthearted but truthful and informative way!!! Video on my friend!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, I got the link to this video and since I enjoyed it so much I started watching the other videos&#8230;.and I am HOOKED!!! You can expect to see much more of me on here now.  I also loved the video about languages in other countries&#8230;.AMEN!!</p>
<p>And thanks for posting this video about Prop. 8!! I am so tired of hearing negative stuff, it&#8217;s nice to see things presented in such a lighthearted but truthful and informative way!!! Video on my friend!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 00:41:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>boredalum:  Hello again.  I was going to try and keep this short, but that didn&#039;t happen.  Sorry everyone.  Also kudos to Russ for the line spacing trick.  It really does help.  
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&quot;Whether Prop 8 has anything to do with California church tax exempt status&quot; - Pretty likely considering the precedent it sets and the inevitable lawsuits that will follow.  
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&quot;Whether Prop 8 has anything to do with school curricula&quot; - Virtual certainty considering it would alter the legal definition of marriage.  Why wouldn&#039;t schools teach what is the accepted definition of marriage?
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&quot;Whether Prop 8 benefits anyone or merely and repugnantly hurts one group of people without directly benefiting anyone else.&quot; - Been through this too.  What is the benefit of civil union vs. marriage with all the same legal standing versus the damage to society when the institution of marriage is turned upside-down?  
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&quot;Certain individuals, primarily Russ, Scott, motr_man, and graybeard, have been passionately challenging my claims.&quot; - Passionately, but with reasoned, structured, and valid arguments.  Anybody can make an emotional plea in an matter like this (and most people do).  
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&quot;The first of these is a rare joint letter whose signatories represent 59 highly respected Constitutional Law professors&quot; - Four out of five dentists surveyed recommend sugarless gum to their patients who chew gum.  Persuasive maybe, but not much of an argument.  Yes on 8 has a few endorsements too (not that it really matters to free thinking individuals).  
.?&quot;The second letter was written by James Brosnahan&quot; - He is one of the &quot;American Taliban&quot; John Walker Lindh&#039;s defense lawyers, right?  Interesting source and certainly a man of strong opinions (that most people may not agree with).  
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&quot;The letter can be found here:&quot; - I read it.  It is basically full of the same kinds of arguments we have been discussing here.  He really doesn&#039;t bring up anything that I haven&#039;t already refuted.  
.?&quot;When a court finds that a law is unconstitutional, that law must be struck down. There is nothing controversial about this.&quot; - No, but since it is a moral issue it is a bit disturbing to have such a small number of judges completely reverse the people&#039;s recently expressed notion of morality.  
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&quot;Slavery, followed by Jim Crow laws, Japanese Internment, and so many other terrible instances in recent history that any honorable, sympathetic, and educated person must recognize were horrible events.&quot; - And all of them subject to Judicial Review.  It hardly saved the day did it?  ?.?&quot;The position advanced by Prop 8 proponents, a position that can only be supported by “moral” reasoning – which is an unsatisfactory and ambiguous term that requires privileging some conceptions of morality over others. . .&quot; - Go through the law books and throw out every law that is based on this unfortunately ambiguous concept of morality.  The result is essentially anarchy.  It may not be perfect, but that is the way law and society work.  ?.?&quot;Left handed people are pressured their whole lives (less so today, but certainly throughout much of history) to ignore their natural impulses and condition themselves to become right handed.&quot; - And if being left-handed were a moral issue and detrimental to the basic structure of families, they ought to be encouraged to do just that.  But Prop 8 isn&#039;t about whether anyone needs to change their behavior.  It is about society&#039;s stamp of approval on an alternate version of morality.  
.?&quot;I do not believe this is the appropriate forum for the &#039;my morals are better than your morals&#039; debate&quot; - I have repeatedly said, here is what morality was, here is what it is changing into.  The change has brought consequences for society.  I oppose those changes in numerous forms.  Gay marriage is just the hot button issue of the moment.  
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&quot;What is it about same sex marriage that is driving proponents so hard?&quot; - What is moral, what society considers to be moral, and what government sanctions as moral.  The apocalypse is already here.  Family breakdown is all around us and it&#039;s effects are undoubtedly negative.  Why throw gasoline on the fire?  
.?&quot;However, if you know that homosexuality is not a choice, volitionally made every day by individuals&quot; - It has to be a choice at some level.  Humanity doesn&#039;t run on instinct to that degree.  ?.?&quot;And for those out there who do desire to inject religious morality into secular state law&quot; - Been through this.  Morality is not religion and religion is not morality.  Otherwise it would be impossible to distinguish atheists and psychopaths.  
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&quot;Why is homosexuality your single most important issue?&quot; - It is a rather pressing issue don&#039;t you agree?
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&quot;From my understanding of Christianity, Jesus never once said anything about homosexuality.&quot; - Did he need to?  My understanding is that the Jews at the time had serious adultery issues.  He said plenty about that.  Why address an issue your audience doesn&#039;t have.  He was sent to the &quot;lost sheep of the House of Israel&quot; not the gentiles after all.  He said so himself.  The Romans had all sorts of homosexuality issues and Paul addressed the matter with them.  Different audience -- custom tailored message.  
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&quot;And Christians are supposed to accept the New Testament as the new covenant that replaces the Old Testament.&quot; - That doesn&#039;t throw out the doctrinal concepts.  Jesus taught a higher law by giving people something that was even more difficult to live.  &quot;Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:  But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.&quot; That doesn&#039;t do away with the old law.  It raises the bar.  
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&quot;The most often repeated religious condemnations of homosexuality inevitably reference Leviticus 18:22, and certain other passages of the Old Testament. . .&quot; - I though you might be Jewish because you wrote God &quot;G-d&quot;, but I take it all back.  As for the rather harsh (by modern standards), penalties for violating the Mosaic law, don&#039;t the prophets tell them repeatedly that they are a stiffnecked people who are quick to do iniquity and slow to hear the Lord their God.  I think the law was meant to be strict in an attempt to keep them following Jehovah.  He did say he was a jealous God after all.  Let&#039;s all be glad that Christianity subscribes to the concept of repentance!  
.?One poster suggested that same sex marriage will again lead to an Old Testament type reckoning as witnessed in Sodom and Gomorrah. - I said if you believed in God and subscribe to the Bible&#039;s version of things then you might expect something like that.  If you don&#039;t then no worries.  Although you may want to ask yourself, if morality keeps changing, where are you going to draw the line?  ?.?&quot;It’s a form of religious establishment repugnant to our constitution and American way of life&quot; - Been through this . . . moral not religious.  But remember the Ben Franklin quote?  Good government encourages religious participation.  It wasn&#039;t such a repugnant idea to him.  
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&quot;Consider that 40-80% of the financing, cheerleading, and drive behind Prop 8 is coming from Mormons&quot; - Good for them.  Do you know why they are opposing it?  Moral grounds.  Their press release says as a church they avoid political issues but they feel they have every right to speak out on moral issues that affect society.  ?.
&quot;Your personal religious views on no sex before marriage are not superior to, nor are they necessarily inferior to, anyone else’s views.&quot; - Not necessarily religious, but definitely moral.  Most people may not agree with me on that one and I recognize that.   Does that mean I have to change my mind?  
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&quot;There actually are many gays and lesbians who do &#039;wait&#039; – which counters your wife’s unsaid and inherent prejudiced assumption that all gays and lesbians are a bunch of sinful, horny, shameless, floozies.&quot; - Well, there is prejudice and there is inductive reasoning.  Is it prejudiced to say that a green apple is most likely sour or is it a rational assumption based on inductive reasoning.  I have tasted a lot of green apples and they have pretty much all been sour.  Homosexuality is not commonly know as a monogamous lifestyle as you also assert below.  Was that prejudice or just inductive reasoning on your part?  
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Naturally, because so many religions persecute and verbally assault gays and lesbians their whole lives, many leave those religions feeling unwelcome. 

&quot;But, many others stay, and try to lead “moral” lives to the greatest extent possible.&quot; - I applaud that even if it seems a bit contradictory.  People should always try to do the best they can with what they have.  
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&quot;Obviously, it’s pretty hard for a gay or lesbian person to &#039;wait&#039; when access to the institution of marriage has been blocked, and outside Massachusetts and California, has always been blocked. So it’s a false premise&quot; - I know, but it would serve to demonstrate how serious they were about the institution of marriage.    
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&quot;It relies on an ethnocentric and prejudiced value judgment about superior expressions of sexuality and morality&quot; - By that I assume you mean the common morality by which society establishes its laws.  
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&quot;And by the way, why don’t you try to pass a proposition forbidding extramarital sex and we’ll see how much traction that gets – but, oh yeah, that just proves your point that we’re engaged in a culture war, right?&quot; - And how much values have changed. . . exactly.  
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&quot;There are gays and lesbians who do remain virgins until they find their true loves and they do and have waited (as long as possible – if marriage is never an option, then at least until a deeply committed relationship), and now that marriage is a possibility, some will undoubtedly wait for it.&quot; - You haven&#039;t really substantiating this in any way, but If they do, good for them!  I applaud exclusivity in sexual relations, even homosexual ones.  That is more morality for you.  I remember reading somewhere that lesbian couples were fairly monogamous, but that gay men had numerous partners often within the same month.  That would throw into question how much a committed relationship such as marriage would be likely to mean to them.  But I don&#039;t need to pursue that line of argument.  It is better to take people one at a time.  
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&quot;I bet that given some time with the existence of the possibility of marriage being a reality, the institution will have a “domesticating effect” on many gays and lesbians&quot; - If Prop 8 goes down in flames, I certainly hope domestication is the order of the day.  
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&quot;Maybe this should be a reason for you and your wife to change positions and oppose Prop 8&quot; - No.  The far-reaching moral consequences are not worth it.  But if it fails to pass I wish them all the domestic tranquility in the world.  ?.
&quot;It is no more than a modern Inquisition&quot; - No small amount of exaggeration there.  
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&quot;Prop 8 hurts California by writing discrimination into law and taking rights that exist away from people only to the pleasure of religious fundamentalists.&quot; - Pleasure?  If you only knew how wrong you were.  I&#039;m repeatedly making a morally relevant argument against a seismic shift in society that is incredibly easy for the opposition to demagogue and argue from emotion and you think that is fun?  I hate doing it and I wish it wasn&#039;t necessary.  But I&#039;ll do my best to oppose   judicial fiat and convince my fellow citizens not to lightly abandon the traditional institution of marriage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>boredalum:  Hello again.  I was going to try and keep this short, but that didn&#8217;t happen.  Sorry everyone.  Also kudos to Russ for the line spacing trick.  It really does help.<br />
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&#8220;Whether Prop 8 has anything to do with California church tax exempt status&#8221; &#8211; Pretty likely considering the precedent it sets and the inevitable lawsuits that will follow.<br />
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&#8220;Whether Prop 8 has anything to do with school curricula&#8221; &#8211; Virtual certainty considering it would alter the legal definition of marriage.  Why wouldn&#8217;t schools teach what is the accepted definition of marriage?<br />
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&#8220;Whether Prop 8 benefits anyone or merely and repugnantly hurts one group of people without directly benefiting anyone else.&#8221; &#8211; Been through this too.  What is the benefit of civil union vs. marriage with all the same legal standing versus the damage to society when the institution of marriage is turned upside-down?<br />
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&#8220;Certain individuals, primarily Russ, Scott, motr_man, and graybeard, have been passionately challenging my claims.&#8221; &#8211; Passionately, but with reasoned, structured, and valid arguments.  Anybody can make an emotional plea in an matter like this (and most people do).<br />
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&#8220;The first of these is a rare joint letter whose signatories represent 59 highly respected Constitutional Law professors&#8221; &#8211; Four out of five dentists surveyed recommend sugarless gum to their patients who chew gum.  Persuasive maybe, but not much of an argument.  Yes on 8 has a few endorsements too (not that it really matters to free thinking individuals).<br />
.?&#8221;The second letter was written by James Brosnahan&#8221; &#8211; He is one of the &#8220;American Taliban&#8221; John Walker Lindh&#8217;s defense lawyers, right?  Interesting source and certainly a man of strong opinions (that most people may not agree with).<br />
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&#8220;The letter can be found here:&#8221; &#8211; I read it.  It is basically full of the same kinds of arguments we have been discussing here.  He really doesn&#8217;t bring up anything that I haven&#8217;t already refuted.<br />
.?&#8221;When a court finds that a law is unconstitutional, that law must be struck down. There is nothing controversial about this.&#8221; &#8211; No, but since it is a moral issue it is a bit disturbing to have such a small number of judges completely reverse the people&#8217;s recently expressed notion of morality.<br />
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&#8220;Slavery, followed by Jim Crow laws, Japanese Internment, and so many other terrible instances in recent history that any honorable, sympathetic, and educated person must recognize were horrible events.&#8221; &#8211; And all of them subject to Judicial Review.  It hardly saved the day did it?  ?.?&#8221;The position advanced by Prop 8 proponents, a position that can only be supported by “moral” reasoning – which is an unsatisfactory and ambiguous term that requires privileging some conceptions of morality over others. . .&#8221; &#8211; Go through the law books and throw out every law that is based on this unfortunately ambiguous concept of morality.  The result is essentially anarchy.  It may not be perfect, but that is the way law and society work.  ?.?&#8221;Left handed people are pressured their whole lives (less so today, but certainly throughout much of history) to ignore their natural impulses and condition themselves to become right handed.&#8221; &#8211; And if being left-handed were a moral issue and detrimental to the basic structure of families, they ought to be encouraged to do just that.  But Prop 8 isn&#8217;t about whether anyone needs to change their behavior.  It is about society&#8217;s stamp of approval on an alternate version of morality.<br />
.?&#8221;I do not believe this is the appropriate forum for the &#8216;my morals are better than your morals&#8217; debate&#8221; &#8211; I have repeatedly said, here is what morality was, here is what it is changing into.  The change has brought consequences for society.  I oppose those changes in numerous forms.  Gay marriage is just the hot button issue of the moment.<br />
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&#8220;What is it about same sex marriage that is driving proponents so hard?&#8221; &#8211; What is moral, what society considers to be moral, and what government sanctions as moral.  The apocalypse is already here.  Family breakdown is all around us and it&#8217;s effects are undoubtedly negative.  Why throw gasoline on the fire?<br />
.?&#8221;However, if you know that homosexuality is not a choice, volitionally made every day by individuals&#8221; &#8211; It has to be a choice at some level.  Humanity doesn&#8217;t run on instinct to that degree.  ?.?&#8221;And for those out there who do desire to inject religious morality into secular state law&#8221; &#8211; Been through this.  Morality is not religion and religion is not morality.  Otherwise it would be impossible to distinguish atheists and psychopaths.<br />
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&#8220;Why is homosexuality your single most important issue?&#8221; &#8211; It is a rather pressing issue don&#8217;t you agree?<br />
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&#8220;From my understanding of Christianity, Jesus never once said anything about homosexuality.&#8221; &#8211; Did he need to?  My understanding is that the Jews at the time had serious adultery issues.  He said plenty about that.  Why address an issue your audience doesn&#8217;t have.  He was sent to the &#8220;lost sheep of the House of Israel&#8221; not the gentiles after all.  He said so himself.  The Romans had all sorts of homosexuality issues and Paul addressed the matter with them.  Different audience &#8212; custom tailored message.<br />
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&#8220;And Christians are supposed to accept the New Testament as the new covenant that replaces the Old Testament.&#8221; &#8211; That doesn&#8217;t throw out the doctrinal concepts.  Jesus taught a higher law by giving people something that was even more difficult to live.  &#8220;Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:  But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.&#8221; That doesn&#8217;t do away with the old law.  It raises the bar.<br />
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&#8220;The most often repeated religious condemnations of homosexuality inevitably reference Leviticus 18:22, and certain other passages of the Old Testament. . .&#8221; &#8211; I though you might be Jewish because you wrote God &#8220;G-d&#8221;, but I take it all back.  As for the rather harsh (by modern standards), penalties for violating the Mosaic law, don&#8217;t the prophets tell them repeatedly that they are a stiffnecked people who are quick to do iniquity and slow to hear the Lord their God.  I think the law was meant to be strict in an attempt to keep them following Jehovah.  He did say he was a jealous God after all.  Let&#8217;s all be glad that Christianity subscribes to the concept of repentance!<br />
.?One poster suggested that same sex marriage will again lead to an Old Testament type reckoning as witnessed in Sodom and Gomorrah. &#8211; I said if you believed in God and subscribe to the Bible&#8217;s version of things then you might expect something like that.  If you don&#8217;t then no worries.  Although you may want to ask yourself, if morality keeps changing, where are you going to draw the line?  ?.?&#8221;It’s a form of religious establishment repugnant to our constitution and American way of life&#8221; &#8211; Been through this . . . moral not religious.  But remember the Ben Franklin quote?  Good government encourages religious participation.  It wasn&#8217;t such a repugnant idea to him.<br />
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&#8220;Consider that 40-80% of the financing, cheerleading, and drive behind Prop 8 is coming from Mormons&#8221; &#8211; Good for them.  Do you know why they are opposing it?  Moral grounds.  Their press release says as a church they avoid political issues but they feel they have every right to speak out on moral issues that affect society.  ?.<br />
&#8220;Your personal religious views on no sex before marriage are not superior to, nor are they necessarily inferior to, anyone else’s views.&#8221; &#8211; Not necessarily religious, but definitely moral.  Most people may not agree with me on that one and I recognize that.   Does that mean I have to change my mind?<br />
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&#8220;There actually are many gays and lesbians who do &#8216;wait&#8217; – which counters your wife’s unsaid and inherent prejudiced assumption that all gays and lesbians are a bunch of sinful, horny, shameless, floozies.&#8221; &#8211; Well, there is prejudice and there is inductive reasoning.  Is it prejudiced to say that a green apple is most likely sour or is it a rational assumption based on inductive reasoning.  I have tasted a lot of green apples and they have pretty much all been sour.  Homosexuality is not commonly know as a monogamous lifestyle as you also assert below.  Was that prejudice or just inductive reasoning on your part?<br />
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Naturally, because so many religions persecute and verbally assault gays and lesbians their whole lives, many leave those religions feeling unwelcome. </p>
<p>&#8220;But, many others stay, and try to lead “moral” lives to the greatest extent possible.&#8221; &#8211; I applaud that even if it seems a bit contradictory.  People should always try to do the best they can with what they have.<br />
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&#8220;Obviously, it’s pretty hard for a gay or lesbian person to &#8216;wait&#8217; when access to the institution of marriage has been blocked, and outside Massachusetts and California, has always been blocked. So it’s a false premise&#8221; &#8211; I know, but it would serve to demonstrate how serious they were about the institution of marriage.<br />
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&#8220;It relies on an ethnocentric and prejudiced value judgment about superior expressions of sexuality and morality&#8221; &#8211; By that I assume you mean the common morality by which society establishes its laws.<br />
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&#8220;And by the way, why don’t you try to pass a proposition forbidding extramarital sex and we’ll see how much traction that gets – but, oh yeah, that just proves your point that we’re engaged in a culture war, right?&#8221; &#8211; And how much values have changed. . . exactly.<br />
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&#8220;There are gays and lesbians who do remain virgins until they find their true loves and they do and have waited (as long as possible – if marriage is never an option, then at least until a deeply committed relationship), and now that marriage is a possibility, some will undoubtedly wait for it.&#8221; &#8211; You haven&#8217;t really substantiating this in any way, but If they do, good for them!  I applaud exclusivity in sexual relations, even homosexual ones.  That is more morality for you.  I remember reading somewhere that lesbian couples were fairly monogamous, but that gay men had numerous partners often within the same month.  That would throw into question how much a committed relationship such as marriage would be likely to mean to them.  But I don&#8217;t need to pursue that line of argument.  It is better to take people one at a time.<br />
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&#8220;I bet that given some time with the existence of the possibility of marriage being a reality, the institution will have a “domesticating effect” on many gays and lesbians&#8221; &#8211; If Prop 8 goes down in flames, I certainly hope domestication is the order of the day.<br />
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&#8220;Maybe this should be a reason for you and your wife to change positions and oppose Prop 8&#8243; &#8211; No.  The far-reaching moral consequences are not worth it.  But if it fails to pass I wish them all the domestic tranquility in the world.  ?.<br />
&#8220;It is no more than a modern Inquisition&#8221; &#8211; No small amount of exaggeration there.<br />
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&#8220;Prop 8 hurts California by writing discrimination into law and taking rights that exist away from people only to the pleasure of religious fundamentalists.&#8221; &#8211; Pleasure?  If you only knew how wrong you were.  I&#8217;m repeatedly making a morally relevant argument against a seismic shift in society that is incredibly easy for the opposition to demagogue and argue from emotion and you think that is fun?  I hate doing it and I wish it wasn&#8217;t necessary.  But I&#8217;ll do my best to oppose   judicial fiat and convince my fellow citizens not to lightly abandon the traditional institution of marriage.</p>
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		<description>Those of you who have been following the discussion on this thread for the past week or so have probably noticed a rather cyclical debate concerning three primary issues: whether Prop 8 has anything to do with California church tax exempt status; whether Prop 8 has anything to do with school curricula; and whether Prop 8 benefits anyone or merely and repugnantly hurts one group of people without directly benefiting anyone else.  I have forcefully tried to represent my understanding of the law to the best of my ability, and I believe that I am correct.  However, I understand that I am only one anonymous voice competing for your attention, and that certain individuals, primarily Russ, Scott, motr_man, and graybeard, have been passionately challenging my claims.  Well, in this post, I thought it prudent to provide authority for my positions in the form of two letters.  (Coincidently, I like to give credit where credit is due, and I give props to Russ for showing me how to make posts more readable by separating paragraphs – thank you).
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The first of these is a rare joint letter whose signatories represent 59 highly respected Constitutional Law professors from California&#039;s 12 largest law schools, some of which are the highest ranking and most prestigious in the nation.  These experts on Constitutional law conclusively find that: Prop 8 has nothing to do with church tax exempt status; Prop 8 has nothing to do with school curricula; and Prop 8 does not benefit anyone while it does directly harm a multitude of Californians.  The succinct letter can be found here: http://www.noonprop8.com/downloads/MarriageStatement.Final.pdf
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The second letter was written by James Brosnahan, a senior partner at Morrison &amp; Foerster and one of the most highly regarded and best known attorneys in California and within the national legal community.  Mr. Brosnahan&#039;s letter decisively challenges Professor Richard Peterson of Pepperdine Law School.  Professor Peterson gave Prop 8 proponents misleading ammunition when he went on television and provided deceptive and frightening legal conclusions in the guise of a constitutional law expert.  Mr. Brosnahan decisively refutes Prof. Peterson&#039;s false claims, calls him out on his ethical shortcomings, and raises serious questions about Prof. Peterson&#039;s self-proclaimed expertise and motivations.  The letter can be found here: http://www.equaljusticesociety.org/keith/2008/10/jim-brosnahan-debate-with-myself-on.html
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I am providing these 60 experts as authority to ensure that whatever position you take on Prop 8, at least you will have the true facts in front of you.  
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The California Supreme Court did its job in May of this year.  It conducted a judicial review of Prop 22.  The voters, acting as a super-legislator, did express their will in 2000 to exclude gays and lesbians from the marital relationship.  But the Court has the responsibility to review all legislation within our system, which consists of checks and balances, and in respect of federalism.  When a court finds that a law is unconstitutional, that law must be struck down.  There is nothing controversial about this.  This has been the law since the founding of our nation, stemming back to Marbury v. Madison.  And just because the majority of the people express their will, it does not make their will immune to constitutional review.  If that were the case, what would stop the majority from oppressing minorities, at any time, and on any issue?  A belief that the will of the majority could never be checked, simply because of the unsophisticated legal philosophy that majority rules, leads to events such as the Holocaust (which was preceded by a decade of Nuremberg Laws that classified Jews as biologically inferior and slowly stripped away their legal rights, dehumanized them, separated them out from society, and ultimately led to their extermination), slavery, followed by Jim Crow laws, Japanese Internment, and so many other terrible instances in recent history that any honorable, sympathetic, and educated person must recognize were horrible events.
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The position advanced by Prop 8 proponents, a position that can only be supported by “moral” reasoning – which is an unsatisfactory and ambiguous term that requires privileging some conceptions of morality over others, is flawed, hurtful, and incompatible with notions of human diversity and liberty.  It is in principle no different than the persecution of left handed people for centuries.  I do not regularly cite to Wikipedia, but this article was actually rather interesting and provides great analogies: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handedness
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Continuing the analogy of handedness – left handed individuals are a minority, but evolution has not caused them to be selected out.  There is debate to what extent genetics plays in left-handedness, and to what extent it can and should be controlled.  Left handed people are pressured their whole lives (less so today, but certainly throughout much of history) to ignore their natural impulses and condition themselves to become right handed.  Many superstitions and negative assumptions pervade attitudes about left handedness.  Christianity and Christians throughout history have juxtaposed left handedness with immorality.  Now could we imagine a law passed today that singles left handed people out from enjoyment and access to civil institutions like marriage?  Of course not!  And left handedness is not even a protected class.
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And in discussing morality – and as I said before, I do not believe this is the appropriate forum for the “my morals are better than your morals” debate – what is it about same sex marriage that is driving proponents so hard?  I suppose if you truly believe, deep down in your heart and with all of your conviction to a point of absolute certainty, that homosexuality is totally a controllable choice, homosexual conduct is a depravity, that exposure to homosexuals can cause others, for instance impressionable children, to choose to live a homosexual lifestyle, ultimately leading to a morally bankrupt society, a complete halt to procreation, and the end of human kind – well then nothing I write or anyone says can (or really should) influence your position on this issue.  
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However, if you know that homosexuality is not a choice, volitionally made every day by individuals, or even if you are the least bit unsure about its true origins, or especially if it does not matter to you whether someone has control over their sexual orientation, and likewise, if you know that the apocalyptic scenario drawn out above is totally ridiculous, or at the very least impossibly unlikely, then there is no possible justification for supporting a discriminatory, completely fundamentalist religious driven constitutional amendment that strips a large segment of decent Californians of rights without providing you or anyone else any benefit.
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And for those out there who do desire to inject religious morality into secular state law – why is homosexuality your single most important issue?  Tony Perkins of the Family Research Council and his colleagues have run a bell signaling Armageddon if Prop 8 fails.  Why?  From my understanding of Christianity, Jesus never once said anything about homosexuality.  And Christians are supposed to accept the New Testament as the new covenant that replaces the Old Testament.  All sins are supposed to be forgiven by accepting Jesus’ blood and only the rules that Jesus underscored from the Old Testament remained obligatory in the New Era.  The most often repeated religious condemnations of homosexuality inevitably reference Leviticus 18:22, and certain other passages of the Old Testament.  But if you are going to dare cite to Leviticus and demand obedience to it, then at least be consistent.  Leviticus also requires: go out there and kill men who lie with men as with women for their blood is upon them (lesbians are cool though, can’t touch them); don’t raise different crop in the same field; don’t let cattle graze with other cattle; absolutely do not wear clothing made from multiple fibers; don’t shave with a metal blade; if you curse a mother or father – death to you; because women are filthy creatures, if you dare have sexual relations with them during the visit of their special friend – excommunication from the community; you know that Tarot Card reader down the street – well she and all other psychics and wizards must be stoned to death (maybe line up all the gays and psychics in a row and kill multiple sinners with one stone, then you can be as efficient as the Nazis); discriminate against handicapped people in worship; stone the blasphemers (gee whiz, I really hope there are enough stones on this planet to kill everyone according to Leviticus); and don’t even get me started on dietary prohibitions – anyone who dares cite Leviticus to me had better not be caught dead with pork, shell fish, meat and dairy meals, or about a thousand other ingredients or combination of ingredients in their gut.  By the way, this was a very short list, Leviticus and Deuteronomy (another law providing book of the Pentateuch) are very lengthy and law laden.
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So even if you believe that laws should be based in morality – how do you define it?  How can you justify discrimination against gays and lesbians in the law because of morals, but then claim that it’s not ok to discriminate against women, left-handed people, blacks (let’s not forget that many in the slave-holding South justified slavery by claiming it was prevalent in the bible and that blacks were the inferior descendents of Noah’s son, Ham), non-Kosher dieters, and so forth.  A vote for Prop 8 is a vote for discrimination; it’s a vote for religious indoctrination of secular law, intolerance and persecution masked in euphemisms and false legal premises.  It’s hate, whether proponents admit to it or not.
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One last point before I end, yet again, another long post.  In the discussions of sexual immorality, one poster suggested that same sex marriage will again lead to an Old Testament type reckoning as witnessed in Sodom and Gomorrah.  Of course, no one really knows what happened in either of these fictional cities (and yes, I know that in Israel these places are marked in the Judean Desert, I’ve been to them, but the stories themselves are fictional).  Was Sodom a parable about homosexual conduct, or was it about raping angels, or disrespecting visitors, or un-consented to orgies?  And what’s the deal with Lot offering up his virgin daughters to “get to know” the villagers as they would his angelic guests?  Raping a young girl is ok – is that the lesson?  Is being a good heterosexual father embodied by disposing of one’s child like some garbage to be ravaged by a mob?  What was the moral of Sodom?  I know sodomy today means contact of the genitals with the mouth or anus of another person – but where did this ridiculous definitional connection arise in relation to Sodom.  Why did we have all these absurd, religious driven, government intervention-into-the-bedroom laws up until 5 years ago outlawing a form of common human intimacy?  And what really happened in Gomorrah?  Oh that’s right, no one knows.  The bible does not explain it.  What a wonderful omission – thanks perfect, infallible bible.  What if Gomorrah had to be destroyed because it was a warring city that invaded other cities under false pretenses, or a city that over used natural resources and polluted too much, or a city where private religious expression was corrupted and forced down the throats of non-believers?  The problem is, we don’t know, and as intelligent, independent thinking, rational adults, we should know not to legislate religious morality in a secular government on others.
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Please vote No on Prop 8.  It’s based on false premises, it harms many without benefiting any, it’s a form of religious establishment repugnant to our constitution and American way of life (consider that 40-80% of the financing, cheerleading, and drive behind Prop 8 is coming from Mormons, with most of the rest coming from Catholics and Evangelical Christians – yes, the individual believers have a right to free speech, but forcing a singular religious doctrine on a state filled with people who do not believe in that doctrine is wrong, invidious, and, as history has demonstrated repeatedly, disastrous.) 
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(And to Scott – I read your wife’s question, and here’s my response.  Your personal religious views on no sex before marriage are not superior to, nor are they necessarily inferior to, anyone else’s views.  I do actually know many gay and lesbian identified people who have never had sex for any number of reasons or who have only expressed their intimacy in very old fashioned and reserved ways.  So if your wife is comforted, there actually are many gays and lesbians who do “wait” – which counters your wife’s unsaid and inherent prejudiced assumption that all gays and lesbians are a bunch of sinful, horny, shameless, floozies.  Gays and lesbians exist in every culture, ethnicity, and religion.  Many of them were raised with the same values that you and your wife grew up being taught.  Naturally, because so many religions persecute and verbally assault gays and lesbians their whole lives, many leave those religions feeling unwelcome.  But, many others stay, and try to lead “moral” lives to the greatest extent possible.  Also, obviously, it’s pretty hard for a gay or lesbian person to “wait” when access to the institution of marriage has been blocked, and outside Massachusetts and California, has always been blocked.  So it’s a false premise – because it relies on an ethnocentric and prejudiced value judgment about superior expressions of sexuality and morality, and it ignores the reality in which most gays and lesbians live.  And by the way, why don’t you try to pass a proposition forbidding extramarital sex and we’ll see how much traction that gets – but, oh yeah, that just proves your point that we’re engaged in a culture war, right?  Two people loving one another so much that they wish to enter a marital relationship has absolutely nothing to do with “keeping virginity in tact,” nor should it.  But again, yes, there are gays and lesbians who do remain virgins until they find their true loves and they do and have waited (as long as possible – if marriage is never an option, then at least until a deeply committed relationship), and now that marriage is a possibility, some will undoubtedly wait for it.  I bet that given some time with the existence of the possibility of marriage being a reality, the institution will have a “domesticating effect” on many gays and lesbians – in fact a reason why some radical leftists in the gay community actually oppose marriage – and gays and lesbians will begin to act and think very similarly to heterosexuals and acculturate more into heterosexual mores.  Maybe this should be a reason for you and your wife to change positions and oppose Prop 8.). 
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Prop 8 is wrong, it is hideous; it is no more than a modern Inquisition – injecting a very narrow religious doctrine into a secular constitution.  Prop 8 discriminates, it takes rights away from people, and it hurts loving devoted couples, their children, their extended families and friends.  Prop 8 hurts California by writing discrimination into law and taking rights that exist away from people only to the pleasure of religious fundamentalists.  Nothing good is accomplished by Prop 8 – so please, Vote No on Prop 8 on November 4th.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those of you who have been following the discussion on this thread for the past week or so have probably noticed a rather cyclical debate concerning three primary issues: whether Prop 8 has anything to do with California church tax exempt status; whether Prop 8 has anything to do with school curricula; and whether Prop 8 benefits anyone or merely and repugnantly hurts one group of people without directly benefiting anyone else.  I have forcefully tried to represent my understanding of the law to the best of my ability, and I believe that I am correct.  However, I understand that I am only one anonymous voice competing for your attention, and that certain individuals, primarily Russ, Scott, motr_man, and graybeard, have been passionately challenging my claims.  Well, in this post, I thought it prudent to provide authority for my positions in the form of two letters.  (Coincidently, I like to give credit where credit is due, and I give props to Russ for showing me how to make posts more readable by separating paragraphs – thank you).<br />
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The first of these is a rare joint letter whose signatories represent 59 highly respected Constitutional Law professors from California&#8217;s 12 largest law schools, some of which are the highest ranking and most prestigious in the nation.  These experts on Constitutional law conclusively find that: Prop 8 has nothing to do with church tax exempt status; Prop 8 has nothing to do with school curricula; and Prop 8 does not benefit anyone while it does directly harm a multitude of Californians.  The succinct letter can be found here: <a href="http://www.noonprop8.com/downloads/MarriageStatement.Final.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.noonprop8.com/downloads/MarriageStatement.Final.pdf</a><br />
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The second letter was written by James Brosnahan, a senior partner at Morrison &amp; Foerster and one of the most highly regarded and best known attorneys in California and within the national legal community.  Mr. Brosnahan&#8217;s letter decisively challenges Professor Richard Peterson of Pepperdine Law School.  Professor Peterson gave Prop 8 proponents misleading ammunition when he went on television and provided deceptive and frightening legal conclusions in the guise of a constitutional law expert.  Mr. Brosnahan decisively refutes Prof. Peterson&#8217;s false claims, calls him out on his ethical shortcomings, and raises serious questions about Prof. Peterson&#8217;s self-proclaimed expertise and motivations.  The letter can be found here: <a href="http://www.equaljusticesociety.org/keith/2008/10/jim-brosnahan-debate-with-myself-on.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.equaljusticesociety.org/keith/2008/10/jim-brosnahan-debate-with-myself-on.html</a><br />
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I am providing these 60 experts as authority to ensure that whatever position you take on Prop 8, at least you will have the true facts in front of you.<br />
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The California Supreme Court did its job in May of this year.  It conducted a judicial review of Prop 22.  The voters, acting as a super-legislator, did express their will in 2000 to exclude gays and lesbians from the marital relationship.  But the Court has the responsibility to review all legislation within our system, which consists of checks and balances, and in respect of federalism.  When a court finds that a law is unconstitutional, that law must be struck down.  There is nothing controversial about this.  This has been the law since the founding of our nation, stemming back to Marbury v. Madison.  And just because the majority of the people express their will, it does not make their will immune to constitutional review.  If that were the case, what would stop the majority from oppressing minorities, at any time, and on any issue?  A belief that the will of the majority could never be checked, simply because of the unsophisticated legal philosophy that majority rules, leads to events such as the Holocaust (which was preceded by a decade of Nuremberg Laws that classified Jews as biologically inferior and slowly stripped away their legal rights, dehumanized them, separated them out from society, and ultimately led to their extermination), slavery, followed by Jim Crow laws, Japanese Internment, and so many other terrible instances in recent history that any honorable, sympathetic, and educated person must recognize were horrible events.<br />
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The position advanced by Prop 8 proponents, a position that can only be supported by “moral” reasoning – which is an unsatisfactory and ambiguous term that requires privileging some conceptions of morality over others, is flawed, hurtful, and incompatible with notions of human diversity and liberty.  It is in principle no different than the persecution of left handed people for centuries.  I do not regularly cite to Wikipedia, but this article was actually rather interesting and provides great analogies: <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handedness" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Handedness</a><br />
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Continuing the analogy of handedness – left handed individuals are a minority, but evolution has not caused them to be selected out.  There is debate to what extent genetics plays in left-handedness, and to what extent it can and should be controlled.  Left handed people are pressured their whole lives (less so today, but certainly throughout much of history) to ignore their natural impulses and condition themselves to become right handed.  Many superstitions and negative assumptions pervade attitudes about left handedness.  Christianity and Christians throughout history have juxtaposed left handedness with immorality.  Now could we imagine a law passed today that singles left handed people out from enjoyment and access to civil institutions like marriage?  Of course not!  And left handedness is not even a protected class.<br />
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And in discussing morality – and as I said before, I do not believe this is the appropriate forum for the “my morals are better than your morals” debate – what is it about same sex marriage that is driving proponents so hard?  I suppose if you truly believe, deep down in your heart and with all of your conviction to a point of absolute certainty, that homosexuality is totally a controllable choice, homosexual conduct is a depravity, that exposure to homosexuals can cause others, for instance impressionable children, to choose to live a homosexual lifestyle, ultimately leading to a morally bankrupt society, a complete halt to procreation, and the end of human kind – well then nothing I write or anyone says can (or really should) influence your position on this issue.<br />
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However, if you know that homosexuality is not a choice, volitionally made every day by individuals, or even if you are the least bit unsure about its true origins, or especially if it does not matter to you whether someone has control over their sexual orientation, and likewise, if you know that the apocalyptic scenario drawn out above is totally ridiculous, or at the very least impossibly unlikely, then there is no possible justification for supporting a discriminatory, completely fundamentalist religious driven constitutional amendment that strips a large segment of decent Californians of rights without providing you or anyone else any benefit.<br />
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And for those out there who do desire to inject religious morality into secular state law – why is homosexuality your single most important issue?  Tony Perkins of the Family Research Council and his colleagues have run a bell signaling Armageddon if Prop 8 fails.  Why?  From my understanding of Christianity, Jesus never once said anything about homosexuality.  And Christians are supposed to accept the New Testament as the new covenant that replaces the Old Testament.  All sins are supposed to be forgiven by accepting Jesus’ blood and only the rules that Jesus underscored from the Old Testament remained obligatory in the New Era.  The most often repeated religious condemnations of homosexuality inevitably reference Leviticus 18:22, and certain other passages of the Old Testament.  But if you are going to dare cite to Leviticus and demand obedience to it, then at least be consistent.  Leviticus also requires: go out there and kill men who lie with men as with women for their blood is upon them (lesbians are cool though, can’t touch them); don’t raise different crop in the same field; don’t let cattle graze with other cattle; absolutely do not wear clothing made from multiple fibers; don’t shave with a metal blade; if you curse a mother or father – death to you; because women are filthy creatures, if you dare have sexual relations with them during the visit of their special friend – excommunication from the community; you know that Tarot Card reader down the street – well she and all other psychics and wizards must be stoned to death (maybe line up all the gays and psychics in a row and kill multiple sinners with one stone, then you can be as efficient as the Nazis); discriminate against handicapped people in worship; stone the blasphemers (gee whiz, I really hope there are enough stones on this planet to kill everyone according to Leviticus); and don’t even get me started on dietary prohibitions – anyone who dares cite Leviticus to me had better not be caught dead with pork, shell fish, meat and dairy meals, or about a thousand other ingredients or combination of ingredients in their gut.  By the way, this was a very short list, Leviticus and Deuteronomy (another law providing book of the Pentateuch) are very lengthy and law laden.<br />
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So even if you believe that laws should be based in morality – how do you define it?  How can you justify discrimination against gays and lesbians in the law because of morals, but then claim that it’s not ok to discriminate against women, left-handed people, blacks (let’s not forget that many in the slave-holding South justified slavery by claiming it was prevalent in the bible and that blacks were the inferior descendents of Noah’s son, Ham), non-Kosher dieters, and so forth.  A vote for Prop 8 is a vote for discrimination; it’s a vote for religious indoctrination of secular law, intolerance and persecution masked in euphemisms and false legal premises.  It’s hate, whether proponents admit to it or not.<br />
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One last point before I end, yet again, another long post.  In the discussions of sexual immorality, one poster suggested that same sex marriage will again lead to an Old Testament type reckoning as witnessed in Sodom and Gomorrah.  Of course, no one really knows what happened in either of these fictional cities (and yes, I know that in Israel these places are marked in the Judean Desert, I’ve been to them, but the stories themselves are fictional).  Was Sodom a parable about homosexual conduct, or was it about raping angels, or disrespecting visitors, or un-consented to orgies?  And what’s the deal with Lot offering up his virgin daughters to “get to know” the villagers as they would his angelic guests?  Raping a young girl is ok – is that the lesson?  Is being a good heterosexual father embodied by disposing of one’s child like some garbage to be ravaged by a mob?  What was the moral of Sodom?  I know sodomy today means contact of the genitals with the mouth or anus of another person – but where did this ridiculous definitional connection arise in relation to Sodom.  Why did we have all these absurd, religious driven, government intervention-into-the-bedroom laws up until 5 years ago outlawing a form of common human intimacy?  And what really happened in Gomorrah?  Oh that’s right, no one knows.  The bible does not explain it.  What a wonderful omission – thanks perfect, infallible bible.  What if Gomorrah had to be destroyed because it was a warring city that invaded other cities under false pretenses, or a city that over used natural resources and polluted too much, or a city where private religious expression was corrupted and forced down the throats of non-believers?  The problem is, we don’t know, and as intelligent, independent thinking, rational adults, we should know not to legislate religious morality in a secular government on others.<br />
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Please vote No on Prop 8.  It’s based on false premises, it harms many without benefiting any, it’s a form of religious establishment repugnant to our constitution and American way of life (consider that 40-80% of the financing, cheerleading, and drive behind Prop 8 is coming from Mormons, with most of the rest coming from Catholics and Evangelical Christians – yes, the individual believers have a right to free speech, but forcing a singular religious doctrine on a state filled with people who do not believe in that doctrine is wrong, invidious, and, as history has demonstrated repeatedly, disastrous.)<br />
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(And to Scott – I read your wife’s question, and here’s my response.  Your personal religious views on no sex before marriage are not superior to, nor are they necessarily inferior to, anyone else’s views.  I do actually know many gay and lesbian identified people who have never had sex for any number of reasons or who have only expressed their intimacy in very old fashioned and reserved ways.  So if your wife is comforted, there actually are many gays and lesbians who do “wait” – which counters your wife’s unsaid and inherent prejudiced assumption that all gays and lesbians are a bunch of sinful, horny, shameless, floozies.  Gays and lesbians exist in every culture, ethnicity, and religion.  Many of them were raised with the same values that you and your wife grew up being taught.  Naturally, because so many religions persecute and verbally assault gays and lesbians their whole lives, many leave those religions feeling unwelcome.  But, many others stay, and try to lead “moral” lives to the greatest extent possible.  Also, obviously, it’s pretty hard for a gay or lesbian person to “wait” when access to the institution of marriage has been blocked, and outside Massachusetts and California, has always been blocked.  So it’s a false premise – because it relies on an ethnocentric and prejudiced value judgment about superior expressions of sexuality and morality, and it ignores the reality in which most gays and lesbians live.  And by the way, why don’t you try to pass a proposition forbidding extramarital sex and we’ll see how much traction that gets – but, oh yeah, that just proves your point that we’re engaged in a culture war, right?  Two people loving one another so much that they wish to enter a marital relationship has absolutely nothing to do with “keeping virginity in tact,” nor should it.  But again, yes, there are gays and lesbians who do remain virgins until they find their true loves and they do and have waited (as long as possible – if marriage is never an option, then at least until a deeply committed relationship), and now that marriage is a possibility, some will undoubtedly wait for it.  I bet that given some time with the existence of the possibility of marriage being a reality, the institution will have a “domesticating effect” on many gays and lesbians – in fact a reason why some radical leftists in the gay community actually oppose marriage – and gays and lesbians will begin to act and think very similarly to heterosexuals and acculturate more into heterosexual mores.  Maybe this should be a reason for you and your wife to change positions and oppose Prop 8.).<br />
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Prop 8 is wrong, it is hideous; it is no more than a modern Inquisition – injecting a very narrow religious doctrine into a secular constitution.  Prop 8 discriminates, it takes rights away from people, and it hurts loving devoted couples, their children, their extended families and friends.  Prop 8 hurts California by writing discrimination into law and taking rights that exist away from people only to the pleasure of religious fundamentalists.  Nothing good is accomplished by Prop 8 – so please, Vote No on Prop 8 on November 4th.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 04:45:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Avonasek</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 21:42:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What takes away all of my sympathy for gay marriage is the fact that they didn&#039;t earn it.  they have only had the right for half a year and they act like they have had it forever.  And then they claim to keep government out of the issue when a 4 judges (employed by the government) decided they should have the right. Also what makes me so indifferent is the fact that they pretend that they are fine with just being married, but they deny our claims about it effecting school, religion, and business.  I do not think gays want to even get married...because it IS a traditional heterosexual institution. I think many of their attempts into society are spiteful and hateful.  Which is another hypocritical thing they do; claim bigotry and hatred on our side when they participate equally or more in the mud slinging.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What takes away all of my sympathy for gay marriage is the fact that they didn&#8217;t earn it.  they have only had the right for half a year and they act like they have had it forever.  And then they claim to keep government out of the issue when a 4 judges (employed by the government) decided they should have the right. Also what makes me so indifferent is the fact that they pretend that they are fine with just being married, but they deny our claims about it effecting school, religion, and business.  I do not think gays want to even get married&#8230;because it IS a traditional heterosexual institution. I think many of their attempts into society are spiteful and hateful.  Which is another hypocritical thing they do; claim bigotry and hatred on our side when they participate equally or more in the mud slinging.</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 02:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heh thanks guys for making the really long posts a little shorter looking at first glance. I&#039;m appreciateing the mores and lots mores to hide all the words until I am ready to read them.</description>
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		<title>By: jeffinputnam</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 00:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Russ, you didn&#039;t read what I wrote but read what you had hoped I had written. It&#039;s common when emotions flare.

You wrote:

1) Women’s Suffrage DID pass nationally. (See the Nineteenth Amendment.) It passed, as is necessary to make an Amendment to the Constitution, 

I originally wrote:

Had the decision for women to vote gone to a national referendum it would not have passed for it was never a national majority opinion. Most western states were in favor, having already granted women that right. Most eastern and southern states would not agree to such a thing and the population at the time was, well, in the east and south.

Which is the truth. Women would never have been given the right to vote had it been put to a national referendum at the time. As I wrote, the western states had already given women the vote while the vast majority of the US population was in the north east and south, places that took quite some time to come around.... like long enough for it to come before Congress, but only after 75 years of fighting for it.

If a poll was taken that lasted 75 years then yes, giving women the vote would have passed. But that&#039;s not practical nor actual.

You wrote:

2) A majority of the community DID vote to give blacks equal rights — twice. (See the Thirteenth, Fourteenth, Fifteenth, and Twenty-fourth Amendments.) This is a point that cannot be stressed nearly enough: The will of the majority of the people, expressed in the adoption of FOUR Amendments to the Constitution was and is that Equal Protection under the law should be granted to every citizen of the United States, regardless of

My original post said:

Had Alabaman’s been asked to vote to give blacks equal rights with whites in 1963, how do you think that would have turned out?

Which you have not refuted.

You wrote:

3) Virginia has the most interesting history in regards to the issue of slavery. I’m not sure where they would have stood in 1863, but I do know that before the war, public sentiment was generally opposed to slavery in Virginia. In fact, because of this opposition, most people at the time thought that Virginia

I originally wrote:

Had Virginia been polled in 1863 about slavery, how do you think that would have ended up?

And you post has not refuted that with any specificity.

Jeff

PS: I&#039;m just hoping the Brothers Winn have come to their senses on this one and seen the bigotry in their position.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Russ, you didn&#8217;t read what I wrote but read what you had hoped I had written. It&#8217;s common when emotions flare.</p>
<p>You wrote:</p>
<p>1) Women’s Suffrage DID pass nationally. (See the Nineteenth Amendment.) It passed, as is necessary to make an Amendment to the Constitution, </p>
<p>I originally wrote:</p>
<p>Had the decision for women to vote gone to a national referendum it would not have passed for it was never a national majority opinion. Most western states were in favor, having already granted women that right. Most eastern and southern states would not agree to such a thing and the population at the time was, well, in the east and south.</p>
<p>Which is the truth. Women would never have been given the right to vote had it been put to a national referendum at the time. As I wrote, the western states had already given women the vote while the vast majority of the US population was in the north east and south, places that took quite some time to come around&#8230;. like long enough for it to come before Congress, but only after 75 years of fighting for it.</p>
<p>If a poll was taken that lasted 75 years then yes, giving women the vote would have passed. But that&#8217;s not practical nor actual.</p>
<p>You wrote:</p>
<p>2) A majority of the community DID vote to give blacks equal rights — twice. (See the Thirteenth, Fourteenth, Fifteenth, and Twenty-fourth Amendments.) This is a point that cannot be stressed nearly enough: The will of the majority of the people, expressed in the adoption of FOUR Amendments to the Constitution was and is that Equal Protection under the law should be granted to every citizen of the United States, regardless of</p>
<p>My original post said:</p>
<p>Had Alabaman’s been asked to vote to give blacks equal rights with whites in 1963, how do you think that would have turned out?</p>
<p>Which you have not refuted.</p>
<p>You wrote:</p>
<p>3) Virginia has the most interesting history in regards to the issue of slavery. I’m not sure where they would have stood in 1863, but I do know that before the war, public sentiment was generally opposed to slavery in Virginia. In fact, because of this opposition, most people at the time thought that Virginia</p>
<p>I originally wrote:</p>
<p>Had Virginia been polled in 1863 about slavery, how do you think that would have ended up?</p>
<p>And you post has not refuted that with any specificity.</p>
<p>Jeff</p>
<p>PS: I&#8217;m just hoping the Brothers Winn have come to their senses on this one and seen the bigotry in their position.</p>
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		<title>By: Diego</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:57:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@keelhaulbill
&quot;That means at best natural selection has targeted gays for extinction.&quot;

You seem to not be aware of group selection, homosexuality is common in mammalian species, and appears to provide a population control mechanism, but the genetic mechanism which creates homosexuality is not selected against, it is selected for, because populations with homosexual members grow in a more controlled manner.

All of your subsequent false conclusions follow from your misunderstanding of the mechanism of group genetic selection.

&quot;You can play the “genetics made me do it” card if you like.&quot;

You appear to be playing that card with heterosexuality, there is no difference. If you claim that sexuality is a choice, and therefor deserves no privileges, therefor heterosexuality is a choice, and people who choose it should not be give the arbitrary and significant legal and economic privilege of marriage.

The only truly constitutional(federal) response to the &quot;gay marriage&quot; issue is to realize that the problem is not that a particular minority want access to the same privileges as the majority, it&#039;s that the state is meddling in religious affairs. The government should immediately withdraw all privileges extended to people on the basis of their married status. If the government won&#039;t acknowledge gay-marriage I object to them acknowledge straight marriage, and my reason is the same as yours, I don&#039;t support, and don&#039;t want to be forced to pay for the straight lifestyle and its flagrant indoctrination of our children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@keelhaulbill<br />
&#8220;That means at best natural selection has targeted gays for extinction.&#8221;</p>
<p>You seem to not be aware of group selection, homosexuality is common in mammalian species, and appears to provide a population control mechanism, but the genetic mechanism which creates homosexuality is not selected against, it is selected for, because populations with homosexual members grow in a more controlled manner.</p>
<p>All of your subsequent false conclusions follow from your misunderstanding of the mechanism of group genetic selection.</p>
<p>&#8220;You can play the “genetics made me do it” card if you like.&#8221;</p>
<p>You appear to be playing that card with heterosexuality, there is no difference. If you claim that sexuality is a choice, and therefor deserves no privileges, therefor heterosexuality is a choice, and people who choose it should not be give the arbitrary and significant legal and economic privilege of marriage.</p>
<p>The only truly constitutional(federal) response to the &#8220;gay marriage&#8221; issue is to realize that the problem is not that a particular minority want access to the same privileges as the majority, it&#8217;s that the state is meddling in religious affairs. The government should immediately withdraw all privileges extended to people on the basis of their married status. If the government won&#8217;t acknowledge gay-marriage I object to them acknowledge straight marriage, and my reason is the same as yours, I don&#8217;t support, and don&#8217;t want to be forced to pay for the straight lifestyle and its flagrant indoctrination of our children.</p>
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		<title>By: effamy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>for Russ[22]
I appreciate it Russ, thank you. Loads of stuff. After checking our own law libraries I checked other Canadian uni. library links but the compendium is indeed very new, I see 0809 as the publication date on the American sites. Don&#039;t think I&#039;ll bother asking the library to get it on a loan from the States. Plus you gave me loads of other stuff. But they do have a couple of his earlier books where I teach and they seem to be on the same issue so perhaps I&#039;ll pick one up. 
Just read a synopsis of a presentation he gave at some law conference. It ends with &quot;The author argues that legalization of adoption by gay and lesbian couples would alter the nature of the parenthood paradigm and argues for the reinforcement of the paradigm through law.&quot;
I&#039;m about to use &quot;you&quot; again, but be aware I use the personal pronoun only to make an argument more &quot;personal&quot; not because I believe you are the originator of any of the arguments involved, anymore than I believe myself to be the originator of any of the arguments against legislation of our personal lives....but, really, do you think we need authorities to tell us what a marriage should and shouldn&#039;t be? That we need institutions to authorize how we raise our children? Honestly, I find such ideas to be completely misanthropic and bordering on some serious fascist ideals (and I don&#039;t mean fascism to be denigrative but rather I mean actual fascism, as a political ideology). But I am committed to understanding behaviour so I will check out some of the citations you listed. Again, I appreciate it...It&#039;s been a while since I&#039;ve read anything that made me question the right to free speech by people I don&#039;t agree with! ;-) Cheers!</description>
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I appreciate it Russ, thank you. Loads of stuff. After checking our own law libraries I checked other Canadian uni. library links but the compendium is indeed very new, I see 0809 as the publication date on the American sites. Don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll bother asking the library to get it on a loan from the States. Plus you gave me loads of other stuff. But they do have a couple of his earlier books where I teach and they seem to be on the same issue so perhaps I&#8217;ll pick one up.<br />
Just read a synopsis of a presentation he gave at some law conference. It ends with &#8220;The author argues that legalization of adoption by gay and lesbian couples would alter the nature of the parenthood paradigm and argues for the reinforcement of the paradigm through law.&#8221;<br />
I&#8217;m about to use &#8220;you&#8221; again, but be aware I use the personal pronoun only to make an argument more &#8220;personal&#8221; not because I believe you are the originator of any of the arguments involved, anymore than I believe myself to be the originator of any of the arguments against legislation of our personal lives&#8230;.but, really, do you think we need authorities to tell us what a marriage should and shouldn&#8217;t be? That we need institutions to authorize how we raise our children? Honestly, I find such ideas to be completely misanthropic and bordering on some serious fascist ideals (and I don&#8217;t mean fascism to be denigrative but rather I mean actual fascism, as a political ideology). But I am committed to understanding behaviour so I will check out some of the citations you listed. Again, I appreciate it&#8230;It&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve read anything that made me question the right to free speech by people I don&#8217;t agree with! ;-) Cheers!</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 21:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ effamy:
I&#039;ll never quite understand the logic that says a statement from my mouth carries more weight when it was first spoken by someone else.  The unequal application of that criterion against me alone is equally confusing; however, I will take it as a compliment, as I think it demonstrates the strength of my arguments on their own merits.
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Regardless, I agree that citations are important and am only happy to oblige your request.  As I said in my previous post (2. Harms), the list of harms I provided was merely cursory.  The sources I here offer add to that list, (though this list is still not exhaustive).  For your convenience, I have organized it by category.
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Regarding the harms to family and child-rearing posed by gay-marriage:
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A. Dean Byrd, Ph.D., M.B.A., M.P.H., &quot;Conjugal Marriage Fosters Healthy Human and Societal Development.&quot;
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Jason S. Carroll, Ph.D., and David C. Dollahite, Ph.D., &quot;Who&#039;s My Daddy?: How the Legalization of Same-Sex Partnerships Would Further the Rise of Ambiguous Fatherhood in America.&quot;
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Marianne M. Jennings, &quot;Unintended Consequences: The Flaws in &#039;It Doesn&#039;t Affect Anyone but Us&#039; Argument in Favor of Legalizing Same-Sex Marriage.&quot;
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Lynne Marie Kohm, J.D., &quot;What&#039;s the Harm to Women and Children? A Prospective Analysis.&quot;
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Louis DeSerres, M.B.A., Same-Sex Marriage and the Rights of the Child.&quot;
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Regarding the Harms in sexual behavior and procreation posed by gay-marriage:
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Scott FitzGibbon, J.D., B.C.L., &quot;The Principles of Justice in Procreative Affiliations.&quot;
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Edwin E. Gantt, Ph.D. (psychology) and Emily Reynolds, &quot;Meaning, Morality, and Sexual Attraction: Questioning the Reductive and Deterministic Assumptions of Biologism and Social Constructionism.&quot;
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Dr. Charles J. Reid, Jr., J.D., J.C.L., Ph.D., &quot;Sexual Virtue, Sexual Vice, and the Requirements of the Good Society: Lessons from Ancient Rome.&quot;
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The Harms posed by gay marriage to the relationship and meaning of marriage:
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Lynn D. Wardle, J.D., &quot;The Morality of Marriage and the Transformative Power of Inclusion.&quot;
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Allan Carlson, Ph.D., &quot;Equality or Ideology? Same-Sex Unions in Scandinavia.&quot;
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Bryce Christensen, Ph.D., &quot;Same-Sex &#039;Marriage&#039; as Verbicide: Reaffirming the Linguistic and Cultural Heritage that once Made &#039;Marriage&#039; a Vibrant Word of Substance and Hope.&quot;
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And... The harms posed by gay-marriage to basic human freedoms and institutions:
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Seana Sugrue, B.B.A., LL.B., LL.M., D.C.L., &quot;The Erosion of Marriage: A Pyrrhic Victory?&quot;
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Roger T. Severino, J.D., &quot;Or For Poorer? How Same-Sex Marriage Threatens Religious Liberty.&quot; Harvard Journal of Law &amp; Public Policy (Vol. 30, No.3 at p.939) (2007).
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Charles J. Russo, M.Div., J.D., Ed. D., &quot;Same-Sex Marriage and Public School Curricula: Preserving the Rights of Parents to Direct the Education of Their Children.&quot; 32 U. Dayton L. Rev. 361 (2007).
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William C. Duncan, &quot;Redefinition of Marriage and the Rule of Law.&quot; 
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Many of these articles, and others, are found in a compendium entitled &quot;What&#039;s the Harm?&quot; (edited by Lynn D. Wardle.)  Its one of the collections we house in our law library; though it&#039;s new, I&#039;m sure most libraries carry it.  If you like, go out and pick it up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ effamy:<br />
I&#8217;ll never quite understand the logic that says a statement from my mouth carries more weight when it was first spoken by someone else.  The unequal application of that criterion against me alone is equally confusing; however, I will take it as a compliment, as I think it demonstrates the strength of my arguments on their own merits.<br />
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Regardless, I agree that citations are important and am only happy to oblige your request.  As I said in my previous post (2. Harms), the list of harms I provided was merely cursory.  The sources I here offer add to that list, (though this list is still not exhaustive).  For your convenience, I have organized it by category.<br />
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Regarding the harms to family and child-rearing posed by gay-marriage:<br />
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A. Dean Byrd, Ph.D., M.B.A., M.P.H., &#8220;Conjugal Marriage Fosters Healthy Human and Societal Development.&#8221;<br />
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Jason S. Carroll, Ph.D., and David C. Dollahite, Ph.D., &#8220;Who&#8217;s My Daddy?: How the Legalization of Same-Sex Partnerships Would Further the Rise of Ambiguous Fatherhood in America.&#8221;<br />
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Marianne M. Jennings, &#8220;Unintended Consequences: The Flaws in &#8216;It Doesn&#8217;t Affect Anyone but Us&#8217; Argument in Favor of Legalizing Same-Sex Marriage.&#8221;<br />
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Lynne Marie Kohm, J.D., &#8220;What&#8217;s the Harm to Women and Children? A Prospective Analysis.&#8221;<br />
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Louis DeSerres, M.B.A., Same-Sex Marriage and the Rights of the Child.&#8221;<br />
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Regarding the Harms in sexual behavior and procreation posed by gay-marriage:<br />
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Scott FitzGibbon, J.D., B.C.L., &#8220;The Principles of Justice in Procreative Affiliations.&#8221;<br />
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Edwin E. Gantt, Ph.D. (psychology) and Emily Reynolds, &#8220;Meaning, Morality, and Sexual Attraction: Questioning the Reductive and Deterministic Assumptions of Biologism and Social Constructionism.&#8221;<br />
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Dr. Charles J. Reid, Jr., J.D., J.C.L., Ph.D., &#8220;Sexual Virtue, Sexual Vice, and the Requirements of the Good Society: Lessons from Ancient Rome.&#8221;<br />
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The Harms posed by gay marriage to the relationship and meaning of marriage:<br />
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Lynn D. Wardle, J.D., &#8220;The Morality of Marriage and the Transformative Power of Inclusion.&#8221;<br />
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Allan Carlson, Ph.D., &#8220;Equality or Ideology? Same-Sex Unions in Scandinavia.&#8221;<br />
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Bryce Christensen, Ph.D., &#8220;Same-Sex &#8216;Marriage&#8217; as Verbicide: Reaffirming the Linguistic and Cultural Heritage that once Made &#8216;Marriage&#8217; a Vibrant Word of Substance and Hope.&#8221;<br />
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And&#8230; The harms posed by gay-marriage to basic human freedoms and institutions:<br />
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Seana Sugrue, B.B.A., LL.B., LL.M., D.C.L., &#8220;The Erosion of Marriage: A Pyrrhic Victory?&#8221;<br />
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Roger T. Severino, J.D., &#8220;Or For Poorer? How Same-Sex Marriage Threatens Religious Liberty.&#8221; Harvard Journal of Law &amp; Public Policy (Vol. 30, No.3 at p.939) (2007).<br />
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Charles J. Russo, M.Div., J.D., Ed. D., &#8220;Same-Sex Marriage and Public School Curricula: Preserving the Rights of Parents to Direct the Education of Their Children.&#8221; 32 U. Dayton L. Rev. 361 (2007).<br />
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William C. Duncan, &#8220;Redefinition of Marriage and the Rule of Law.&#8221;<br />
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Many of these articles, and others, are found in a compendium entitled &#8220;What&#8217;s the Harm?&#8221; (edited by Lynn D. Wardle.)  Its one of the collections we house in our law library; though it&#8217;s new, I&#8217;m sure most libraries carry it.  If you like, go out and pick it up.</p>
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		<title>By: effamy</title>
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		<dc:creator>effamy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:18:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Russ[22]
Just to point out your illogic:
Re: 3 The Greater Harms
You&#039;re correct in saying that law is based on morality. But law is based on injustice to a person and a person&#039;s property. So, yes, this is exactly the case for theft and murder.
Homosexuality is not a threat to person or personal property. 
A definition of family is not the pervue of the law.
You are confusing personal morality with social morality. Law is only meant to exert control over the latter.
This is why Prop 8 is wrong and it&#039;s why there should be no definition of &quot;marriage&quot; anywhere in law. the problem comes from not knowing what the role of law is. the confusion comes from government systems that legislates personal morality. which, of course, is also not the place of government.


Re: 2 Harms
First, whoever suggests that gay families are &quot;less harmful&quot; are wrong, as you point out. Gay families are no more and no less harmful than any other kind of family. They are harmful gay families, harmful single parent families, harmful so-called traditional families. The percentage is no different from any one type of family to another. Data don&#039;t support you here.

Second, you don&#039;t cite any of these sources that tell you that gay relationships are dangerous for children. I would love to hear about them. 
I recommend a recent tome titled Socialization in the Context of Family Diversity: Handbook of Socialization, Theory and Research. The editors are Grusec and Hastings. It was published by Guilford Press in 2007. It&#039;s ISBN is 1593853327.
Unless you&#039;re raising children in a lesbian family on an Amazonian Island untouched by malekind, you cannot escape gender socialization. It comes through media, it comes through every person you ever meet, it comes from your own biology. Families are your support system and to suggest that they only good form of child rearing occurs when you have a man and woman is completely and utterly untrue if only because the so-called traditional family is a modern conception and has always been the minority of families. Historically and psychologically the statements you make here are false.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Russ[22]<br />
Just to point out your illogic:<br />
Re: 3 The Greater Harms<br />
You&#8217;re correct in saying that law is based on morality. But law is based on injustice to a person and a person&#8217;s property. So, yes, this is exactly the case for theft and murder.<br />
Homosexuality is not a threat to person or personal property.<br />
A definition of family is not the pervue of the law.<br />
You are confusing personal morality with social morality. Law is only meant to exert control over the latter.<br />
This is why Prop 8 is wrong and it&#8217;s why there should be no definition of &#8220;marriage&#8221; anywhere in law. the problem comes from not knowing what the role of law is. the confusion comes from government systems that legislates personal morality. which, of course, is also not the place of government.</p>
<p>Re: 2 Harms<br />
First, whoever suggests that gay families are &#8220;less harmful&#8221; are wrong, as you point out. Gay families are no more and no less harmful than any other kind of family. They are harmful gay families, harmful single parent families, harmful so-called traditional families. The percentage is no different from any one type of family to another. Data don&#8217;t support you here.</p>
<p>Second, you don&#8217;t cite any of these sources that tell you that gay relationships are dangerous for children. I would love to hear about them.<br />
I recommend a recent tome titled Socialization in the Context of Family Diversity: Handbook of Socialization, Theory and Research. The editors are Grusec and Hastings. It was published by Guilford Press in 2007. It&#8217;s ISBN is 1593853327.<br />
Unless you&#8217;re raising children in a lesbian family on an Amazonian Island untouched by malekind, you cannot escape gender socialization. It comes through media, it comes through every person you ever meet, it comes from your own biology. Families are your support system and to suggest that they only good form of child rearing occurs when you have a man and woman is completely and utterly untrue if only because the so-called traditional family is a modern conception and has always been the minority of families. Historically and psychologically the statements you make here are false.</p>
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 17:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-boredalum
Thank you for the legal lesson (post 10/27).  I am relieved to know that immutable does not mean immutable.
Perhaps I can reciprocate with a lesson on persuasive writing.
Making statements which are not common knowledge without any supporting references is like saying, “It’s my opinion, and it’s very true.”  Supporting references have two advantages
First, they keep your emotion from running away with your text. Here is an example. “The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled.“ (post 10/26)   The prophecy the statement contains and the unrestricted use of the word cannot make your statements unbelievable without corroborating documentation.
And second, supporting references give your readers a chance to evaluate the credibility of your sources.  If they find them believable, they may find you believable too.  I happily accept your offer to cite legitimate support for each claim you make.</description>
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Thank you for the legal lesson (post 10/27).  I am relieved to know that immutable does not mean immutable.<br />
Perhaps I can reciprocate with a lesson on persuasive writing.<br />
Making statements which are not common knowledge without any supporting references is like saying, “It’s my opinion, and it’s very true.”  Supporting references have two advantages<br />
First, they keep your emotion from running away with your text. Here is an example. “The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled.“ (post 10/26)   The prophecy the statement contains and the unrestricted use of the word cannot make your statements unbelievable without corroborating documentation.<br />
And second, supporting references give your readers a chance to evaluate the credibility of your sources.  If they find them believable, they may find you believable too.  I happily accept your offer to cite legitimate support for each claim you make.</p>
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		<title>By: Meandering {207}</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 17:31:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey gang, is everyone still talking about this?  I know I put my 2 cents in with the rest of you, but as I was waiting for the next episode I thought I would come back and check. Over 135 comments is great.  I have not read all of them (or even most of them) but I wonder who here has changed their original view on the matter of Gay Marriage and Prop 8.  Anyone?  Just curious.  I look forward to the next show!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey gang, is everyone still talking about this?  I know I put my 2 cents in with the rest of you, but as I was waiting for the next episode I thought I would come back and check. Over 135 comments is great.  I have not read all of them (or even most of them) but I wonder who here has changed their original view on the matter of Gay Marriage and Prop 8.  Anyone?  Just curious.  I look forward to the next show!</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 06:40:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>3.  THE GREATER HARM
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I think the more relevant discussion here is the question of morality.  I believe that homosexuality is immoral.  And while this belief has never led me to hate any homosexuals, I do believe that gay marriage undermines our social morality.  But worse than this, judicially imposed gay marriage threatens destruction to that social morality.  That is the greater harm.
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Now some out there, if they are still reading this, are silently growling and gnashing their teeth, mocking me as they say, &quot;Russ would impose on us a moral code.&quot;  They are absolutely right.  The moral code I would impose I like to call, the &quot;LAW.&quot;
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Now don’t laugh.  All law is based on morality – and I mean ALL law -- taxes (who should pay and how much based on our understandings of &quot;fairness&quot;), voting age (at adult age in the hopes that we might be able to overcome undue influence), driving age (where we decided the minor might have the requisite maturity), legal working age (with the understanding that by sixteen we have the ability to substantially give an informed consent, though perhaps not legally binding, and are self-reliant enough to manage our own education), and all this across the entire spectrum to perjury, theft, murder and the like -- ALL law finds its foundation in our moral code.
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I nod to Bork:  When the community decides that certain conduct is permissible and other conduct is not, courts have no way of disagreeing about the line drawn except by saying that the judges’ morality is superior to that of the majority of the citizenry and is, for that reason, to be transformed into a constitutional standard.  Our social morality, that we, the people, chose, is thrown down by a hubris-filled, activist judiciary, and replaced with their view, standing alone, of the &quot;good.&quot;  When constitutional law is judge-made and not rooted in the text or structure of the Constitution, it doesn’t just approach illegitimacy, it IS illegitimate, root and branch.
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There are heavy costs for the legal system, heavy costs for our liberty to govern ourselves, when the Court decides it is the instrument of the general will and the keeper of the national conscience.  Then there is no law; there are only the moral imperatives and self-righteousness of the hour.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>3.  THE GREATER HARM<br />
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I think the more relevant discussion here is the question of morality.  I believe that homosexuality is immoral.  And while this belief has never led me to hate any homosexuals, I do believe that gay marriage undermines our social morality.  But worse than this, judicially imposed gay marriage threatens destruction to that social morality.  That is the greater harm.<br />
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Now some out there, if they are still reading this, are silently growling and gnashing their teeth, mocking me as they say, &#8220;Russ would impose on us a moral code.&#8221;  They are absolutely right.  The moral code I would impose I like to call, the &#8220;LAW.&#8221;<br />
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Now don’t laugh.  All law is based on morality – and I mean ALL law &#8212; taxes (who should pay and how much based on our understandings of &#8220;fairness&#8221;), voting age (at adult age in the hopes that we might be able to overcome undue influence), driving age (where we decided the minor might have the requisite maturity), legal working age (with the understanding that by sixteen we have the ability to substantially give an informed consent, though perhaps not legally binding, and are self-reliant enough to manage our own education), and all this across the entire spectrum to perjury, theft, murder and the like &#8212; ALL law finds its foundation in our moral code.<br />
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I nod to Bork:  When the community decides that certain conduct is permissible and other conduct is not, courts have no way of disagreeing about the line drawn except by saying that the judges’ morality is superior to that of the majority of the citizenry and is, for that reason, to be transformed into a constitutional standard.  Our social morality, that we, the people, chose, is thrown down by a hubris-filled, activist judiciary, and replaced with their view, standing alone, of the &#8220;good.&#8221;  When constitutional law is judge-made and not rooted in the text or structure of the Constitution, it doesn’t just approach illegitimacy, it IS illegitimate, root and branch.<br />
.<br />
There are heavy costs for the legal system, heavy costs for our liberty to govern ourselves, when the Court decides it is the instrument of the general will and the keeper of the national conscience.  Then there is no law; there are only the moral imperatives and self-righteousness of the hour.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 06:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2.  HARMS
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Many previous posters have claimed that there is no harm to gay marriage, whether that be to society generally, to the family as a unit, or to children raised within the family unit.  Take care; your arguments partake of a logical fallacy, which proves fatal.  Taken at its base, this is what your arguments boil down to:
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Gay marriage harms less than other social ills and institutions; therefore, gay marriage is harmless.
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Let me uncover the flaw:  A glass of beer has less alcohol than the same quantity of vodka; therefore, beer has no alcohol.  You see, there is a world of difference between &quot;to cause less harm&quot; and &quot;to be harmless.&quot;  Gay marriage may be the former; it is not the latter.  The rearing of children has been brought up several times by other posters; I think that’s a fair topic as there’s been a lot of research done in the area.
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Gay-marriage leads toward an increase in ambiguous fatherhood.  Ambiguous fatherhood harms society in countless destructive ways and many scholars agree it is the leading social ill, especially in urban environments.
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Gay marriage attempts to confuse gender roles, and, in some cases, to outright obliterate gender.  Awareness of gender and the understanding of its role is one of the first developmental stages in self-awareness.  Being able to relate to the parent whose gender is like mine and the parent whose gender is different is one of those essential stages that later lead to positive social interaction.
.
Gay marriage does not provide the best environment for raising children.  The best environment for children is a stable, loving home where they are raised by their biological parents, both mother and father, who live in conjugal matrimony.  Children raised in such an environment have a significantly lower delinquency rate than those raised in any other environment.  That family unit, provided for through traditional marriage, accrues greater benefits to children than any other familial form.  Lack of substantial benefits is a harm.
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This is not an exhaustive list of harms; but I hope you recognize the common thread.  I’m not saying here that gay marriage is a vicious assault on children; it’s just lacking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2.  HARMS<br />
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Many previous posters have claimed that there is no harm to gay marriage, whether that be to society generally, to the family as a unit, or to children raised within the family unit.  Take care; your arguments partake of a logical fallacy, which proves fatal.  Taken at its base, this is what your arguments boil down to:<br />
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Gay marriage harms less than other social ills and institutions; therefore, gay marriage is harmless.<br />
.<br />
Let me uncover the flaw:  A glass of beer has less alcohol than the same quantity of vodka; therefore, beer has no alcohol.  You see, there is a world of difference between &#8220;to cause less harm&#8221; and &#8220;to be harmless.&#8221;  Gay marriage may be the former; it is not the latter.  The rearing of children has been brought up several times by other posters; I think that’s a fair topic as there’s been a lot of research done in the area.<br />
.<br />
Gay-marriage leads toward an increase in ambiguous fatherhood.  Ambiguous fatherhood harms society in countless destructive ways and many scholars agree it is the leading social ill, especially in urban environments.<br />
.<br />
Gay marriage attempts to confuse gender roles, and, in some cases, to outright obliterate gender.  Awareness of gender and the understanding of its role is one of the first developmental stages in self-awareness.  Being able to relate to the parent whose gender is like mine and the parent whose gender is different is one of those essential stages that later lead to positive social interaction.<br />
.<br />
Gay marriage does not provide the best environment for raising children.  The best environment for children is a stable, loving home where they are raised by their biological parents, both mother and father, who live in conjugal matrimony.  Children raised in such an environment have a significantly lower delinquency rate than those raised in any other environment.  That family unit, provided for through traditional marriage, accrues greater benefits to children than any other familial form.  Lack of substantial benefits is a harm.<br />
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This is not an exhaustive list of harms; but I hope you recognize the common thread.  I’m not saying here that gay marriage is a vicious assault on children; it’s just lacking.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 06:38:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are a few things that I think need clarification.

1.  IMMUTABILITY
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Immutability is definable, and in fact defined simply as those characteristics that cannot be changed, such as race, national origin, or gender.  Despite some claims to the contrary made by certain other posters, race is not something a person can change (no matter how much bleach or dye he may use), nor is gender as defined by the courts (the courts use chromosomal gender -- legal gender &quot;changes&quot; were accomplished, not through the courts, but through a weighing of opposing moralities in the LEGISLATURE), and &quot;allienage&quot; is best understood in terms of national origin.
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Now, it is true that government cannot discriminate on the basis of religion, but this has little if anything to do with &quot;suspect classifications,&quot; despite the Courts dicta-affected hyperbole to the contrary.  If you wish to find the basis for the protection of religion, open your Constitution (state or federal -- something the Court ought to consider doing next time).  Religion is protected under the First Amendment, as incorporated against State Governments via the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment.  Were that all that was offered on the subject, that would be sufficient.  Not to be outdone, however, California has an equally vigorous protection of religion all its own:
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&quot;Free exercise and enjoyment of religion without discrimination or preference are guaranteed. This liberty of conscience does not excuse acts that are licentious or inconsistent with the peace or safety of the State. The Legislature shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion.&quot;  (Cal.Const. Art. I sec. 4)
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&quot;Suspect classification&quot; is not needed to protect religion; it is explicitly protected in California&#039;s Constitution (and it&#039;s PAGE ONE READING -- how do you miss that?).  Immutability has never been a factor necessary for a determination of unlawful state religious discrimination, thus the Court was plainly disingenuous to abuse that concept in support of its anti-constitutional decision.  Allow me, please, to disabuse you of any such notion.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are a few things that I think need clarification.</p>
<p>1.  IMMUTABILITY<br />
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Immutability is definable, and in fact defined simply as those characteristics that cannot be changed, such as race, national origin, or gender.  Despite some claims to the contrary made by certain other posters, race is not something a person can change (no matter how much bleach or dye he may use), nor is gender as defined by the courts (the courts use chromosomal gender &#8212; legal gender &#8220;changes&#8221; were accomplished, not through the courts, but through a weighing of opposing moralities in the LEGISLATURE), and &#8220;allienage&#8221; is best understood in terms of national origin.<br />
.<br />
Now, it is true that government cannot discriminate on the basis of religion, but this has little if anything to do with &#8220;suspect classifications,&#8221; despite the Courts dicta-affected hyperbole to the contrary.  If you wish to find the basis for the protection of religion, open your Constitution (state or federal &#8212; something the Court ought to consider doing next time).  Religion is protected under the First Amendment, as incorporated against State Governments via the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment.  Were that all that was offered on the subject, that would be sufficient.  Not to be outdone, however, California has an equally vigorous protection of religion all its own:<br />
.<br />
&#8220;Free exercise and enjoyment of religion without discrimination or preference are guaranteed. This liberty of conscience does not excuse acts that are licentious or inconsistent with the peace or safety of the State. The Legislature shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion.&#8221;  (Cal.Const. Art. I sec. 4)<br />
.<br />
&#8220;Suspect classification&#8221; is not needed to protect religion; it is explicitly protected in California&#8217;s Constitution (and it&#8217;s PAGE ONE READING &#8212; how do you miss that?).  Immutability has never been a factor necessary for a determination of unlawful state religious discrimination, thus the Court was plainly disingenuous to abuse that concept in support of its anti-constitutional decision.  Allow me, please, to disabuse you of any such notion.</p>
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		<title>By: kd</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 22:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What happened to flaming Responsibly?!?</description>
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		<title>By: motr_man</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 21:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not gonna be taught in schools, huh?  This article seems to indicate otherwise.  But wait!  That means that the No on Prop 8 people are lying!  See for yourself.  &lt;a href=&quot;http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=news/local/east_bay&amp;id=6467358&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=news/local/east_bay&amp;id=6467358&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not gonna be taught in schools, huh?  This article seems to indicate otherwise.  But wait!  That means that the No on Prop 8 people are lying!  See for yourself.  <a href="http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=news/local/east_bay&amp;id=6467358" rel="nofollow">http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=news/local/east_bay&#038;id=6467358</a></p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:58:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Back at ya boredalum:  (I hope you aren&#039;t quite so bored these days)?


&quot;Courts make law all the time, let’s not pretend like that’s not part of their historic role.&quot;  -  Oh well, there goes separation of powers.  Or I guess I should say there went separation of powers.  You will recall that courts making the law was my working definition of an activist judiciary.  So, what you are saying is that we have had an activist judiciary that has been overstepping their constitutional authority for a while now.  I couldn&#039;t agree more.  Courts shouldn&#039;t make law.  Their rulings establish precedents by which similar cases are likely to be judged.  That why the CA Supreme&#039;s ruling on homosexual marriage is the paragon of judicial activism -- it threw out the very recently settled law of the land, created law requiring compliance by other branches of government, and turned common law upside-down.  

&quot;The legal system is based in the Constitution of the United States, Laws and Treaties. The Declaration of Independence is a nice document with historical significance but absolutely no legal significance, at all, whatsoever, period.&quot;  -  Right, I agree completely, except that that is not the way it is in practice.  Remember, the Constitution explicitly protected slavery.  The principles of the Declaration of Independence were invoked by abolitionists to emancipate the slaves and amend the Constitution.  The Declaration of Independence has been cited frequently in judicial opinion too.  It is a &quot;founding document&quot; and the legal system tends to use it as such.  


&quot;I won’t address your religious arguments . . . these have absolutely no bearing, significance or weight in discussing the purely civil secular matter of marriage in California.&quot;  -  If you think they are religious arguments, then you have missed the point.  I argue that society and it&#039;s laws are founded on a common sense of morality.  The concept of what is just or unjust, virtuous or vice are moral judgments.  People running around telling everyone not to make moral judgments is ludicrous.  Society is one great big commonly-held moral judgment.  What they are really running around saying is &quot;Let&#039;s redefine societal morality to tolerate my behavior, and if you won&#039;t I&#039;ll call you names&quot;.  


The United States and even the State of California were founded on Judeo-Christian ethics and moral principles.  Anyone who wants to deny that is lying.  Those principles do not condone homosexual behavior never mind gay marriage.  Anyone who cares to deny that is lying.  So the foundation of our law and moral principle in this country does not approve of gay marriage.  A great many people have altered their sense of what is moral since then.  The ones running around saying, &quot;Let&#039;s redefine societal morality to tolerate my behavior&quot; over the last 30 or 40 years have found some people to support them, intimidated others, and made others so tired of hearing about it that they are generally apathetic.  Prop 8 is a barometer for how much society&#039;s morals have changed.  My sense of what is moral has not changed.  Many other people&#039;s has.  We are about to find out just how much the general public&#039;s sense of morality has changed in the last few years since Prop 22 passed.  


&quot;I will say that G-d is not the source of our rights in the United States or California&quot;  -  That&#039;s a pity.  It puts you somewhat at odds with the founders of our country.  But I believe the point they were getting at was that rights are not granted by the government.  Government is coercion.  It does not create natural rights.  It can only limit them.  When the government &quot;finds&quot; new rights they invariably come at the expense of someone else&#039;s.  You may wildly misinterpret what I am saying here.  That will depend on how you define &quot;rights&quot; and your idea of the role of government.  


&quot;I have not chatted Him (G-d) up lately about His stance on Prop 8.&quot;  -  Why not?  If you believe in such a being and He has power enough to create the earth, mankind, etc, He ought to be aware of the situation and able to answer you in some way.  If you don&#039;t then Prop 8 is a pretty insignificant bit of law in a great big universe and life is really short.  


&quot;It would prove G-d’s fallibility if He were our source of rights because undoubtedly they have changed drastically throughout our history, indicating they were not perfect to begin with.&quot;  -  Rights haven&#039;t changed at all.  People are not perfect, government is made up of people and has limited those rights in imperfect ways from the beginning.  But you are right in that this leads very quickly into a different discussion, which I would be happy to undertake some other time.  

&quot;These Justices are 6 out 7 Republicans and Republican appointments, and they tend to generally be a very conservative court. (So stop representing them as small group of freakish liberal San Francisco judges that did something so wicked and unfathomable).&quot;  -  I don&#039;t care in the slightest about their party affiliation and I never said anything about them being freakish or from San Francisco, so please stop putting words in my mouth.  Thank you very much.  I reserve the right to call throwing out Prop 22 a liberal / progressive ruling, because that&#039;s exactly what it was.  If you search the forum thread you will find that YOU are the one who keeps mentioning San Francisco.  Russ mentions SF in passing, since he used to live there.  You say you are tired of people calling them freaky SF judges . . . so . . . stop doing it already!  


&quot;If the voters got together and passed by majoritarian rule . . . &quot;  -  No one can do anything about being Asian, Black, Hispanic, White, or an Orange Umpa Lumpa.  Choosing to have sex with someone of the same gender is not an immutable characteristic of humanity, period.  If there is a physiological or psychological basis for same gender attraction that does not make homosexuality immutable anymore than a genetic predisposition to alcoholism makes someone a drunk.  It is the choice that makes the difference.  We are our choices after all.  


&quot;Same sex marriage will not harm you, your relationships, or society. . . Why not try to attack the “real” “problem” by making it harder to dissolve marriages. . .&quot;  -  You try to make a point and then give me the evidence to refute it.  The rise of &quot;gay rights&quot; has accompanied the slide of traditional marriage.  Suggesting that I turn a blind eye to gay marriage and focus on keeping married couples together is a bit like suggesting that I concentrate on fixing a broken window while someone is pounding on my front door with a fire axe.  They are both obviously problems and societal morality issues but one of them seems to be just a bit more urgent.  Society has lots of problems (in my opinion).  Isn&#039;t it a bit of a false premise to suggest that I can only care about one of them at a time?  


My wife brought up an interesting point that you may care to comment on.  She was wondering if there could be found any two homosexuals who loved each other and believed in marriage so much that they waited, virginity intact, for the State Supreme Court to approve gay marriage before giving themselves to each other.  Heard of anyone like that?  That was what marriage was designed to be.  That was the standard for thousands of years.  It also shows just how far we have fallen from our founding principles.  

&quot;Pepperdine Law School is a religious school that is founded on Christian values and requires students and faculty to abide by Christian morals and philosophy&quot;  -  More evidence for my case of sliding morality.  Thanks.  


&quot;Citing Massachusetts as a counter point is deceiving because that is a different state with different laws.&quot;  -  Different states, different laws?  Not a law to be found.  Judicial fiat is what you are talking about.  The rulings were similar.  Can one reasonably expect the results to be different?  We&#039;ll see what you have to say about it below.  


&quot;I would also submit that while teaching Kindergartners about sex is inappropriate&quot;  -  I assume you meant appropriate, since the rest of your comment claims that same sex should be accepted as a cultural norm and it is entirely appropriate to teach children what is normal, right?  It does weaken your claim a bit that school curricula wouldn&#039;t change when you go out of your way to say that you, as a opponent of Prop 8, are all in favor of doing just that.  You also provide the grounds for doing so.  If gay marriage is normal, why wouldn&#039;t you teach it?  Therefore, No on 8 will lead to a de facto change in school curricula.  No on Prop 8 doesn&#039;t change it directly, but as you have just demonstrated it will certainly change it indirectly.  So who is really lying, the Pro-Prop 8 ads or you?  


&quot;But in any case, that’s what individual school districts will decide and they can teach whatever they want irrespective of Prop 8&quot;  -  So local school districts are autonomous and no one is trying to make them teach &quot;alternate lifestyles&quot;?  Harvey Milk Day?  SB 777? AB 394?  AB 14?  Are you willfully ignorant about this?  How could anyone claim with a straight face that school districts have any kind of independence when it comes to homosexuality issues?  Maybe your face wasn&#039;t straight when you wrote that.  

&quot;It’s not democracy in action when proponents are using extortion and threat tactics to bully opponents.&quot;  -  In my own little corner of California, I have seen two Yes on Prop 8 signs stolen.  I have heard from friends and family (2nd hand info) of all sorts of sign stealing, slashing and property damage, but I have not gone to look at it first had.  All of the No on Prop 8 signs that I have seen in the community are still in place.  All of them.  By way of the news, I have heard of numerous first amendment violations.  One incident involved a public school teacher inciting students to commit criminal misdemeanors.  There is plenty of intolerance on both sides, too much really.  My experience says it has been greater on the side of Prop 8&#039;s opponents, but your experience may vary.  

&quot;My list of groups opposing Prop 8 was not meant to dissuade anyone from fact checking or making reasoned voting decisions.&quot;  -  Then why bother unless you are going for some kind of bandwagon advertising approach?  When I learned logic fallacies, that was one of them.  


&quot;It is not wrong to factor in where money is coming from on both sides, and where and why certain groups oppose Prop 8.&quot;  -  Wrong?  I don&#039;t know, but it doesn&#039;t make a valid argument.  The proposition is what it is.  People will support it or oppose it for their own reasons.  If Abraham Lincoln or Charles Manson were all in favor of something that doesn&#039;t make it a good or a bad idea.  Singling out organizations who are in favor of Prop 8 and misrepresenting their reasons for supporting it can be persuasive, but it isn&#039;t logically valid.  


&quot;It is wrong for religious doctrine to control secular government and secular law.&quot;  -  Like I&#039;ve been saying.  It is not about religious doctrine, it is about public morality, and if the public sense of morality doesn&#039;t control the law, what does?


&quot;The many religions of the U.S. are not monolithic on this issue, and even within the Mormon church there is debate whether their drive in support of Prop 8 is acceptable.&quot;  -  More evidence of the moral slide I&#039;ve been talking about.  Thanks.  

&quot;Your thoughts about “natural families” are not supported by experts who have done multi-decade and highly reliable studies. I’ll take the APA analysis over your personal and untested thoughts.&quot;  -  Thanks, I haven&#039;t had a laugh like that in a while!  I have the nation&#039;s founding Judeo-Christian principles, the basis of most of our law, mankind&#039;s proven, over thousands of years, world-wide, independently arrived at consensus on the family, the fundamental unit of society, on my side and you trump that with a multi-year APA study.  If you will step back a moment and try to be a bit more objective, you&#039;ll realize that this isn&#039;t just my idea on how society ought to work.  Thanks for the laugh though.  Thanks the &quot;experts&quot; for me too.  I wish they could go start a colony on a habitable planet somewhere and I could look in on them after a few thousand years to see how they were doing.  Unfortunately, my curiosity is not sufficient to allow social engineering experiments of that scale on this planet unopposed.  I have to live here.  


&quot;Again, Prop 8 only hurts many and benefits no one!&quot;  - Prop 8 doesn&#039;t hurt anyone and benefits everyone.  Hate and discrimination have nothing to do with it.  Law and morality have everything to do with it.  


P.S.  I&#039;m still waiting to hear what specific legal rights are being denied to gay couples under California&#039;s civil union law.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back at ya boredalum:  (I hope you aren&#8217;t quite so bored these days)?</p>
<p>&#8220;Courts make law all the time, let’s not pretend like that’s not part of their historic role.&#8221;  &#8211;  Oh well, there goes separation of powers.  Or I guess I should say there went separation of powers.  You will recall that courts making the law was my working definition of an activist judiciary.  So, what you are saying is that we have had an activist judiciary that has been overstepping their constitutional authority for a while now.  I couldn&#8217;t agree more.  Courts shouldn&#8217;t make law.  Their rulings establish precedents by which similar cases are likely to be judged.  That why the CA Supreme&#8217;s ruling on homosexual marriage is the paragon of judicial activism &#8212; it threw out the very recently settled law of the land, created law requiring compliance by other branches of government, and turned common law upside-down.  </p>
<p>&#8220;The legal system is based in the Constitution of the United States, Laws and Treaties. The Declaration of Independence is a nice document with historical significance but absolutely no legal significance, at all, whatsoever, period.&#8221;  &#8211;  Right, I agree completely, except that that is not the way it is in practice.  Remember, the Constitution explicitly protected slavery.  The principles of the Declaration of Independence were invoked by abolitionists to emancipate the slaves and amend the Constitution.  The Declaration of Independence has been cited frequently in judicial opinion too.  It is a &#8220;founding document&#8221; and the legal system tends to use it as such.  </p>
<p>&#8220;I won’t address your religious arguments . . . these have absolutely no bearing, significance or weight in discussing the purely civil secular matter of marriage in California.&#8221;  &#8211;  If you think they are religious arguments, then you have missed the point.  I argue that society and it&#8217;s laws are founded on a common sense of morality.  The concept of what is just or unjust, virtuous or vice are moral judgments.  People running around telling everyone not to make moral judgments is ludicrous.  Society is one great big commonly-held moral judgment.  What they are really running around saying is &#8220;Let&#8217;s redefine societal morality to tolerate my behavior, and if you won&#8217;t I&#8217;ll call you names&#8221;.  </p>
<p>The United States and even the State of California were founded on Judeo-Christian ethics and moral principles.  Anyone who wants to deny that is lying.  Those principles do not condone homosexual behavior never mind gay marriage.  Anyone who cares to deny that is lying.  So the foundation of our law and moral principle in this country does not approve of gay marriage.  A great many people have altered their sense of what is moral since then.  The ones running around saying, &#8220;Let&#8217;s redefine societal morality to tolerate my behavior&#8221; over the last 30 or 40 years have found some people to support them, intimidated others, and made others so tired of hearing about it that they are generally apathetic.  Prop 8 is a barometer for how much society&#8217;s morals have changed.  My sense of what is moral has not changed.  Many other people&#8217;s has.  We are about to find out just how much the general public&#8217;s sense of morality has changed in the last few years since Prop 22 passed.  </p>
<p>&#8220;I will say that G-d is not the source of our rights in the United States or California&#8221;  &#8211;  That&#8217;s a pity.  It puts you somewhat at odds with the founders of our country.  But I believe the point they were getting at was that rights are not granted by the government.  Government is coercion.  It does not create natural rights.  It can only limit them.  When the government &#8220;finds&#8221; new rights they invariably come at the expense of someone else&#8217;s.  You may wildly misinterpret what I am saying here.  That will depend on how you define &#8220;rights&#8221; and your idea of the role of government.  </p>
<p>&#8220;I have not chatted Him (G-d) up lately about His stance on Prop 8.&#8221;  &#8211;  Why not?  If you believe in such a being and He has power enough to create the earth, mankind, etc, He ought to be aware of the situation and able to answer you in some way.  If you don&#8217;t then Prop 8 is a pretty insignificant bit of law in a great big universe and life is really short.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It would prove G-d’s fallibility if He were our source of rights because undoubtedly they have changed drastically throughout our history, indicating they were not perfect to begin with.&#8221;  &#8211;  Rights haven&#8217;t changed at all.  People are not perfect, government is made up of people and has limited those rights in imperfect ways from the beginning.  But you are right in that this leads very quickly into a different discussion, which I would be happy to undertake some other time.  </p>
<p>&#8220;These Justices are 6 out 7 Republicans and Republican appointments, and they tend to generally be a very conservative court. (So stop representing them as small group of freakish liberal San Francisco judges that did something so wicked and unfathomable).&#8221;  &#8211;  I don&#8217;t care in the slightest about their party affiliation and I never said anything about them being freakish or from San Francisco, so please stop putting words in my mouth.  Thank you very much.  I reserve the right to call throwing out Prop 22 a liberal / progressive ruling, because that&#8217;s exactly what it was.  If you search the forum thread you will find that YOU are the one who keeps mentioning San Francisco.  Russ mentions SF in passing, since he used to live there.  You say you are tired of people calling them freaky SF judges . . . so . . . stop doing it already!  </p>
<p>&#8220;If the voters got together and passed by majoritarian rule . . . &#8221;  &#8211;  No one can do anything about being Asian, Black, Hispanic, White, or an Orange Umpa Lumpa.  Choosing to have sex with someone of the same gender is not an immutable characteristic of humanity, period.  If there is a physiological or psychological basis for same gender attraction that does not make homosexuality immutable anymore than a genetic predisposition to alcoholism makes someone a drunk.  It is the choice that makes the difference.  We are our choices after all.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Same sex marriage will not harm you, your relationships, or society. . . Why not try to attack the “real” “problem” by making it harder to dissolve marriages. . .&#8221;  &#8211;  You try to make a point and then give me the evidence to refute it.  The rise of &#8220;gay rights&#8221; has accompanied the slide of traditional marriage.  Suggesting that I turn a blind eye to gay marriage and focus on keeping married couples together is a bit like suggesting that I concentrate on fixing a broken window while someone is pounding on my front door with a fire axe.  They are both obviously problems and societal morality issues but one of them seems to be just a bit more urgent.  Society has lots of problems (in my opinion).  Isn&#8217;t it a bit of a false premise to suggest that I can only care about one of them at a time?  </p>
<p>My wife brought up an interesting point that you may care to comment on.  She was wondering if there could be found any two homosexuals who loved each other and believed in marriage so much that they waited, virginity intact, for the State Supreme Court to approve gay marriage before giving themselves to each other.  Heard of anyone like that?  That was what marriage was designed to be.  That was the standard for thousands of years.  It also shows just how far we have fallen from our founding principles.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Pepperdine Law School is a religious school that is founded on Christian values and requires students and faculty to abide by Christian morals and philosophy&#8221;  &#8211;  More evidence for my case of sliding morality.  Thanks.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Citing Massachusetts as a counter point is deceiving because that is a different state with different laws.&#8221;  &#8211;  Different states, different laws?  Not a law to be found.  Judicial fiat is what you are talking about.  The rulings were similar.  Can one reasonably expect the results to be different?  We&#8217;ll see what you have to say about it below.  </p>
<p>&#8220;I would also submit that while teaching Kindergartners about sex is inappropriate&#8221;  &#8211;  I assume you meant appropriate, since the rest of your comment claims that same sex should be accepted as a cultural norm and it is entirely appropriate to teach children what is normal, right?  It does weaken your claim a bit that school curricula wouldn&#8217;t change when you go out of your way to say that you, as a opponent of Prop 8, are all in favor of doing just that.  You also provide the grounds for doing so.  If gay marriage is normal, why wouldn&#8217;t you teach it?  Therefore, No on 8 will lead to a de facto change in school curricula.  No on Prop 8 doesn&#8217;t change it directly, but as you have just demonstrated it will certainly change it indirectly.  So who is really lying, the Pro-Prop 8 ads or you?  </p>
<p>&#8220;But in any case, that’s what individual school districts will decide and they can teach whatever they want irrespective of Prop 8&#8243;  &#8211;  So local school districts are autonomous and no one is trying to make them teach &#8220;alternate lifestyles&#8221;?  Harvey Milk Day?  SB 777? AB 394?  AB 14?  Are you willfully ignorant about this?  How could anyone claim with a straight face that school districts have any kind of independence when it comes to homosexuality issues?  Maybe your face wasn&#8217;t straight when you wrote that.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It’s not democracy in action when proponents are using extortion and threat tactics to bully opponents.&#8221;  &#8211;  In my own little corner of California, I have seen two Yes on Prop 8 signs stolen.  I have heard from friends and family (2nd hand info) of all sorts of sign stealing, slashing and property damage, but I have not gone to look at it first had.  All of the No on Prop 8 signs that I have seen in the community are still in place.  All of them.  By way of the news, I have heard of numerous first amendment violations.  One incident involved a public school teacher inciting students to commit criminal misdemeanors.  There is plenty of intolerance on both sides, too much really.  My experience says it has been greater on the side of Prop 8&#8242;s opponents, but your experience may vary.  </p>
<p>&#8220;My list of groups opposing Prop 8 was not meant to dissuade anyone from fact checking or making reasoned voting decisions.&#8221;  &#8211;  Then why bother unless you are going for some kind of bandwagon advertising approach?  When I learned logic fallacies, that was one of them.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It is not wrong to factor in where money is coming from on both sides, and where and why certain groups oppose Prop 8.&#8221;  &#8211;  Wrong?  I don&#8217;t know, but it doesn&#8217;t make a valid argument.  The proposition is what it is.  People will support it or oppose it for their own reasons.  If Abraham Lincoln or Charles Manson were all in favor of something that doesn&#8217;t make it a good or a bad idea.  Singling out organizations who are in favor of Prop 8 and misrepresenting their reasons for supporting it can be persuasive, but it isn&#8217;t logically valid.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It is wrong for religious doctrine to control secular government and secular law.&#8221;  &#8211;  Like I&#8217;ve been saying.  It is not about religious doctrine, it is about public morality, and if the public sense of morality doesn&#8217;t control the law, what does?</p>
<p>&#8220;The many religions of the U.S. are not monolithic on this issue, and even within the Mormon church there is debate whether their drive in support of Prop 8 is acceptable.&#8221;  &#8211;  More evidence of the moral slide I&#8217;ve been talking about.  Thanks.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Your thoughts about “natural families” are not supported by experts who have done multi-decade and highly reliable studies. I’ll take the APA analysis over your personal and untested thoughts.&#8221;  &#8211;  Thanks, I haven&#8217;t had a laugh like that in a while!  I have the nation&#8217;s founding Judeo-Christian principles, the basis of most of our law, mankind&#8217;s proven, over thousands of years, world-wide, independently arrived at consensus on the family, the fundamental unit of society, on my side and you trump that with a multi-year APA study.  If you will step back a moment and try to be a bit more objective, you&#8217;ll realize that this isn&#8217;t just my idea on how society ought to work.  Thanks for the laugh though.  Thanks the &#8220;experts&#8221; for me too.  I wish they could go start a colony on a habitable planet somewhere and I could look in on them after a few thousand years to see how they were doing.  Unfortunately, my curiosity is not sufficient to allow social engineering experiments of that scale on this planet unopposed.  I have to live here.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Again, Prop 8 only hurts many and benefits no one!&#8221;  &#8211; Prop 8 doesn&#8217;t hurt anyone and benefits everyone.  Hate and discrimination have nothing to do with it.  Law and morality have everything to do with it.  </p>
<p>P.S.  I&#8217;m still waiting to hear what specific legal rights are being denied to gay couples under California&#8217;s civil union law.</p>
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		<title>By: motr_man</title>
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		<dc:creator>motr_man</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:51:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Boredalum - Your selfproclaimed certainty about the original intent of the framers with respect to the court is laughable when you consider how little of the court&#039;s present day power is given to them in the Constitution.  We&#039;re just going to have to agree to disagree on that (since there is no way you can back up your claims about the framers intent for the court) and like many of you other posts is largely opinion or misreprented information.  So lets get back on topic - Gay marriage.
You said &quot;This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.&quot;
People throw this term around a lot and I think most of them have no idea what it means nor what it meant originally.  You seem to be one of those people.  I am going to ask the guys to do a video on it.  But lets pretend for a moment that it means what you seem to think it means (incorrectly I might add).  Your post indicates that there should be a &quot;solid, not porous&quot; wall - in other words, no moral influence on government from religion, religious people or religious values.  If you really believe this, you should do a 180 right now and start telling people to vote YES!  Let me explain with a very likely, yet hypothetical example.  It is only a matter of time before activist gays demand a gay wedding in a church that will not perform it.  The gays sue and the church in question loses its tax exempt status.  Hooray! Atheism and moral relativism strike a mighty blow!  Encouraged by this &quot;success&quot;, similar suits happen all over the nation.  But don&#039;t cheer too loudly before you consider the potential consequences.  You now have all sorts of churches that are no longer churches according to the IRS.  Its not like their congregations are just going to vanish or lose their faith overnight.  So what do the churches do? ... They incorporate.  The USA has spent the last 100 years perfecting tax loopholes for corporations, and the churches will end up paying a minor amount of taxes that they didn&#039;t used to.  But wait!  There is an enormous consequence you likely have not considered.  Now that all these churches are businesses, the pastors can say whatever they want from the pulpit.  They can legally endorse or denounce political parties, bills, candidates, etc.  Worse yet, they can take the money people give them and begin actively, openly lobbying Washington and Sacramento all day long for moral change.  If you don&#039;t want these churches to become mutli-billion dollar lobbying organizations, you had better think twice about how you vote on Prop 8.  That should worry boredalum and other Prop 8 opponents a lot.  On a final tangetial note, California Civil Unions already guarrantee all the same rights as traditional marriage in the state of California.  The inescapable CONCLUSION --- If you are socially concervative and you want to keep churches&#039; tax exempt status intact, Vote Yes on 8.  And if you are socially liberal and want to keep churches from becoming corporations and actively lobbying the government, then you should Vote Yes on Prop 8.  So really whether you are gay or straight, atheist or religious, liberal or conservative, your best hope for separation of church and state (as incorrectly defined by boredalum) is to VOTE YES ON PROP 8.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Boredalum &#8211; Your selfproclaimed certainty about the original intent of the framers with respect to the court is laughable when you consider how little of the court&#8217;s present day power is given to them in the Constitution.  We&#8217;re just going to have to agree to disagree on that (since there is no way you can back up your claims about the framers intent for the court) and like many of you other posts is largely opinion or misreprented information.  So lets get back on topic &#8211; Gay marriage.<br />
You said &#8220;This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.&#8221;<br />
People throw this term around a lot and I think most of them have no idea what it means nor what it meant originally.  You seem to be one of those people.  I am going to ask the guys to do a video on it.  But lets pretend for a moment that it means what you seem to think it means (incorrectly I might add).  Your post indicates that there should be a &#8220;solid, not porous&#8221; wall &#8211; in other words, no moral influence on government from religion, religious people or religious values.  If you really believe this, you should do a 180 right now and start telling people to vote YES!  Let me explain with a very likely, yet hypothetical example.  It is only a matter of time before activist gays demand a gay wedding in a church that will not perform it.  The gays sue and the church in question loses its tax exempt status.  Hooray! Atheism and moral relativism strike a mighty blow!  Encouraged by this &#8220;success&#8221;, similar suits happen all over the nation.  But don&#8217;t cheer too loudly before you consider the potential consequences.  You now have all sorts of churches that are no longer churches according to the IRS.  Its not like their congregations are just going to vanish or lose their faith overnight.  So what do the churches do? &#8230; They incorporate.  The USA has spent the last 100 years perfecting tax loopholes for corporations, and the churches will end up paying a minor amount of taxes that they didn&#8217;t used to.  But wait!  There is an enormous consequence you likely have not considered.  Now that all these churches are businesses, the pastors can say whatever they want from the pulpit.  They can legally endorse or denounce political parties, bills, candidates, etc.  Worse yet, they can take the money people give them and begin actively, openly lobbying Washington and Sacramento all day long for moral change.  If you don&#8217;t want these churches to become mutli-billion dollar lobbying organizations, you had better think twice about how you vote on Prop 8.  That should worry boredalum and other Prop 8 opponents a lot.  On a final tangetial note, California Civil Unions already guarrantee all the same rights as traditional marriage in the state of California.  The inescapable CONCLUSION &#8212; If you are socially concervative and you want to keep churches&#8217; tax exempt status intact, Vote Yes on 8.  And if you are socially liberal and want to keep churches from becoming corporations and actively lobbying the government, then you should Vote Yes on Prop 8.  So really whether you are gay or straight, atheist or religious, liberal or conservative, your best hope for separation of church and state (as incorrectly defined by boredalum) is to VOTE YES ON PROP 8.</p>
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		<title>By: gettoman</title>
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		<dc:creator>gettoman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 19:06:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the argument is very simple in regards to rights for anyone. You have the right to believe, act and do what you will, however the moment those actions and/or beliefs violate those of other people, it&#039;s wrong. 

The argument to sue a religious organization because they choose not to recognize your mariage is not right. They are religious. You CHOOSE to belong to that organization or not. In order to belong you need to abide by said requirements...it&#039;s your CHOICE. They aren&#039;t forcing you to be part of their religion, they aren&#039;t forcing you to do anything, but to come in force them to marry you? That&#039;s over the line. 

If I wanted to get married in a Greek-Orthodox Church I would have to be baptized in their religion...but I don&#039;t go out and sue them because I can&#039;t be married by them...

Be wary...the moment you start legislation that crosses that sacred line of separation of Church and State we start taking HUGE steps backwards. 

Do I have an issue with Gay people? Nope...just their lifestyle choice. I acknowledge them as good people and they deserve to be treated as people, they are for heavens sake, but that doesn&#039;t mean I condone their lifestyle. 

There&#039;s a simple saying that I think we could all apply here to any situation in life: &quot;Just cuz you can, doesn&#039;t mean you should.&quot; So, next time judges, when you are faced with peer pressure to overturn popular opion (IE the people&#039;s point of view and elected view) remember: &quot;Just cuz you can, doesn&#039;t mean you should.&quot; 

Just my thoughts, just my 2 pennies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the argument is very simple in regards to rights for anyone. You have the right to believe, act and do what you will, however the moment those actions and/or beliefs violate those of other people, it&#8217;s wrong. </p>
<p>The argument to sue a religious organization because they choose not to recognize your mariage is not right. They are religious. You CHOOSE to belong to that organization or not. In order to belong you need to abide by said requirements&#8230;it&#8217;s your CHOICE. They aren&#8217;t forcing you to be part of their religion, they aren&#8217;t forcing you to do anything, but to come in force them to marry you? That&#8217;s over the line. </p>
<p>If I wanted to get married in a Greek-Orthodox Church I would have to be baptized in their religion&#8230;but I don&#8217;t go out and sue them because I can&#8217;t be married by them&#8230;</p>
<p>Be wary&#8230;the moment you start legislation that crosses that sacred line of separation of Church and State we start taking HUGE steps backwards. </p>
<p>Do I have an issue with Gay people? Nope&#8230;just their lifestyle choice. I acknowledge them as good people and they deserve to be treated as people, they are for heavens sake, but that doesn&#8217;t mean I condone their lifestyle. </p>
<p>There&#8217;s a simple saying that I think we could all apply here to any situation in life: &#8220;Just cuz you can, doesn&#8217;t mean you should.&#8221; So, next time judges, when you are faced with peer pressure to overturn popular opion (IE the people&#8217;s point of view and elected view) remember: &#8220;Just cuz you can, doesn&#8217;t mean you should.&#8221; </p>
<p>Just my thoughts, just my 2 pennies.</p>
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		<title>By: keelhaulbill</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:42:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Diego
&quot;The evidence (yeah like all of it) suggests that sexual prefrance is biologically determined&quot;. Really? All of it? Are you sure you want to make that argument? If you do you have to accept the conciquences. That means at best natural selection has targeted gays for extinction. If there is no desire / means to reproduce, the gene will work itself out of the population. Genetics would dictate that to keep the flame alive you should stay in the closet. 
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In fact, the only way to keep the homosexual population with anything close to a positive growth rate (asside from not being &quot;true to yourself&quot; and pasing the gene through a heterosexual relationship) is to win over converts. Convince people that they should give it a try and see if they like it better. But if that were possible then it would throw the whole genetic argument out the window. 
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There is choice. You can play the &quot;genetics made me do it&quot; card if you like. But somewhere along the line there is experimentation, preference, and choice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Diego<br />
&#8220;The evidence (yeah like all of it) suggests that sexual prefrance is biologically determined&#8221;. Really? All of it? Are you sure you want to make that argument? If you do you have to accept the conciquences. That means at best natural selection has targeted gays for extinction. If there is no desire / means to reproduce, the gene will work itself out of the population. Genetics would dictate that to keep the flame alive you should stay in the closet. <br />
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In fact, the only way to keep the homosexual population with anything close to a positive growth rate (asside from not being &#8220;true to yourself&#8221; and pasing the gene through a heterosexual relationship) is to win over converts. Convince people that they should give it a try and see if they like it better. But if that were possible then it would throw the whole genetic argument out the window. <br />
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There is choice. You can play the &#8220;genetics made me do it&#8221; card if you like. But somewhere along the line there is experimentation, preference, and choice.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-3/#comment-4589</link>
		<dc:creator>boredalum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 17:34:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>graybeard:
Immutability is a legal term of art, and like many other terms of art, its legal meaning and application may not be in accord with its every day dictionary definition and usage.  You know what it means by looking it up in a legal dictionary and checking its usage in legal opinions published by the highest court of the relevant jurisdiction. Equal Protection under the California Const. as interpreted by the Cal. S. Ct. may be different than Equal Protection under the Alabama Const. as interpreted by the Alabama Supreme Court and different still from the Federal Supreme Court&#039;s determination based on the Federal Const.  The best way to understand what Equal Protection means in California, and what immutability is, and to what extent immutability is required under California law is to read the In re Marriages opinion issued in May 2008, as well as checking cited references (these are authoritative) or by looking at courts in other jurisdictions (these would offer persuasive reasoning that would not be binding the Cal. courts).
Beyond the conclusory and blanket assertion that I have a &quot;number of unsupported statements&quot; - do you have any specifics in mind?  I did not offer a bibliography to my arguments, but I&#039;d be happy to cite you to legitimate support for each claim that I made.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>graybeard:<br />
Immutability is a legal term of art, and like many other terms of art, its legal meaning and application may not be in accord with its every day dictionary definition and usage.  You know what it means by looking it up in a legal dictionary and checking its usage in legal opinions published by the highest court of the relevant jurisdiction. Equal Protection under the California Const. as interpreted by the Cal. S. Ct. may be different than Equal Protection under the Alabama Const. as interpreted by the Alabama Supreme Court and different still from the Federal Supreme Court&#8217;s determination based on the Federal Const.  The best way to understand what Equal Protection means in California, and what immutability is, and to what extent immutability is required under California law is to read the In re Marriages opinion issued in May 2008, as well as checking cited references (these are authoritative) or by looking at courts in other jurisdictions (these would offer persuasive reasoning that would not be binding the Cal. courts).<br />
Beyond the conclusory and blanket assertion that I have a &#8220;number of unsupported statements&#8221; &#8211; do you have any specifics in mind?  I did not offer a bibliography to my arguments, but I&#8217;d be happy to cite you to legitimate support for each claim that I made.</p>
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<dc:creator>graybeard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 15:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>-boredalum
Your postings contain quite a number of unsupported statements.  Is anything really immutable?  If so, how do you know?</description>
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Your postings contain quite a number of unsupported statements.  Is anything really immutable?  If so, how do you know?</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<dc:creator>boredalum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 06:06:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>IMMUTABILITY AND EQUAL PROTECTION:
Constitutional law DOES NOT require immutability for suspect (protected) classification. The best examples of this are: religious preference and alienage. Both of these categories get suspect classification even though people can volitionally change their religious affiliation and aliens can become citizens. An argument can be made also that race can be changed (e.g. Michael Jackson; people who bleach/tan their skin or get cosmetic surgery) as can sex (sexual reassignment surgery and hormone therapy can physically alter sex and in California, a transsexual person can have their sex officially changed on their birth certificate and by law after a full transition). One of my earlier posts cites to the section of the Cal. S. Ct. opinion where this discussion took place with regard to religion, alienage, and sexual orientation.
IN ANY CASE – SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS IMMUTABLE
The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled. The evangelical groups that run ex-gay programs even admit that their success rate is not very good. And, more importantly, almost all, if not all, ex-gays are “converted” through religious programs and rituals, with many practices involved causing pain, depression, and significant personal harm. These “converts” are pretty much all devout believers – and those who are not shamed and depressed for the rest of their lives, often committing suicide as a result of the “conversions” – utilize very strong faith and will power every day to control their natural urges and behaviors.  Anyone can suppress natural aspects of themselves with enough will power – Tibetan monks can turn off their pain receptors and have burned themselves alive without flinching – does that mean that pain is not natural? The APA is opposed to these ridiculous religious, not science, driven therapies. It warns of the tremendous negative toll these therapies have on their participants. I could discuss for pages and pages the horrific process by which these “therapies” are done – especially when teenagers are forced into them without consent and the damage they endure immediately and throughout the rest of their lives.  People here should not be fooled that a claim of “gay conversion” is a legitimate argument for why same sex marriage should be banned. But even for those who truly believe that sexuality is a choice – that you personally choose every morning what sexual orientation you are going to be for the day, and that gays and lesbians make that choice consciously and daily – immutability is still not a necessary requirement under California law for Equal Protection.
RIGHTS VERSUS PRIVILEGES DEBATE
This debate is really a red herring. Access to civil marriage is a fundamental right. This has been repeated over and over throughout history. The Cal. S. Ct. said so – and it is almost exclusively our courts that declare which rights are fundamental when such is not explicitly spelled out in the Constitution. Just because you have to pay for a marriage license at the county clerk (which is not true anyway because common law marriage takes effect without any need for payment or licensure) does not make marriage the same as getting a driver’s license (there is no common law equivalent to being able to drive). Voting is also not explicitly defined as a fundamental right in the constitution. Although amendments were passed to the Federal Constitution affirming that first African Americans and then women could not be denied suffrage – the fundamental right to vote preexisted these amendments and is not disputed today without ever having been spelled out in the Constitution originally.  And while poll taxes are unconstitutional, some restrictions and costs on voting are acceptable. States that have stringent voter ID laws inherently require an implicit tax because it costs money to go to the DMV and get a driver’s license identification, or pay for other forms that prove ID as required by the state’s law. In criminal cases, there is no right to an appeal, but it has been well established that where states offer appeals (which they all do), the first appeal, also known as a direct appeal, is an appeal by right. Any convicted defendant has the right to a first appeal, to counsel at that appeal, and to reduced cost or waived fees on a show of financial need. These rights are not in the Constitution, but they are nevertheless rights.
But anyway, so what?  LET’S ASSUME MARRIAGE WAS JUST A PRIVILEGE.
Would it be ok to deny gays and lesbians access to a driver’s license just because the majority in a proposition said so? Would it be ok to deny African Americans the privilege to attend public museums like the Smithsonian just because the majority of voters wills it?  There’s no right to higher education, so would it be ok to deny women the privilege of attending medical school?  Would it be ok to deprive Asians the privilege of sitting on a jury?  Would it be ok for the majority of voters to come together and deny gays and lesbians the privilege of running for elected office?  Of course not – none of these denials of access to “privileges” would be ok, ever! Whether they are designated as rights or privileges, whenever the state offers an institution, it cannot deny access to that institution to any group of people (without at least rational reasoning, but in this case compelling reasoning). Civil marriage is an institution offered by the state. It is a right – according to California’s Supreme Court. Access to this right cannot be denied to a protected class – gays and lesbians. But even if you think it is better to characterize it as a privilege, and even if you don’t believe gays and lesbians should be a protected class – it would still be as wrong, inappropriate, offensive, and nonsensical to deny gays and lesbians access to civil marriage, just as it would be to deny them access, as a result of a statewide initiative, to such institutions as driver’s licenses, jury participation, higher education, museums, and so forth. This is especially true considering that gays and lesbians are raising thousands of children in California in loving and supportive families, and that every legitimate, verified study has shown that kids in same sex households grow up to be just as happy, functional, and socially well adapted as children who grow up in opposite sex households.
TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE
No discussion of this issue fails to devolve into religious and pseudo-religious discussions of “traditional marriage.” I maintain that what we are talking about here is a civil, secular institution (civil marriage) and not religious marriage, even though the two separate institutions share the same operative terminology – marriage.  (And they are separate concepts because for a marriage to be legal, no matter what religion preformed it, what special rules, requirements, and rituals were involved, and how elaborate the ceremony, a California couple must still go through the un-ceremonial process of getting a state issued marriage license provided that certain state requirements are satisfied – and this license can be gotten without a religious marriage being necessary).
It would probably solve this dilemma if the nomenclature for all civil marriages was changed to civil union so that all couples, same sex and opposite sex, would have access to the same civil institution and the same civil rights no matter whether or not certain religions accept same sex religious marriage or not. But there is no traction for that idea now, so while we have a civil institution called marriage, gays and lesbians should have equal access to it.
In any case – marriage has been changing throughout our human history.  So those who argue that marriage has always been, under G-d’s formula, a union of one man with one woman, are completely wrong. Biblical marriage, by this supposed perfect formula, involved one man OWNING one or several women (look at the big patriarchs in the bibles). Patriarchal polygamy was practiced by Mormons up until a century ago, and offshoots of LDS still practice it today. Even after most civilizations accepted the standard of monogamy, marriage still entailed ownership of women. In the Islamic world, coincidently polygamy and male ownership of women still exists – and Islam was founded on Judeo-Christian principles. Throughout most of history until the modern era, marriages were not based on loving relationships between male and female equals, but instead most marriages were arranged for purposes of convenience, business, treaties, community building, and a whole assortment of other reasons.  In Jewish tradition, arranged marriages took place throughout most of European Jewish history, well into the modern era, and to this day, some more traditional sects of Judaism still practice arranged marriages (and like all arranged marriages it was a business deal involving a dowry like any other property transaction). Many modern nations throughout the world still practice this custom today as well. And even if we define “traditional” as “American” to try and avoid many of these unfortunate and stubborn facts that kill the traditional/timeless definition of marriage argument – women were considered chattel, properties of their husbands without any rights to property ownership, sexual consent, and so forth until well into the 1800s. This includes the traditional notions of marriage in California after statehood. Marital rape laws, domestic violence laws, divorce laws, child custody laws, and other amendments to marriage have been taking place in the context of marriage to this day. So marriage is anything but static and traditional.  It has been changing with evolving notions of human rights, human dignity, and the times throughout history.  There is no such thing as traditional marriage or a G-d’s plan to marriage or family that is consistent or universal. In any case, since civil marriage is secular, it does not matter what religions do or don’t say about religious marriage. In Catholicism, divorcees cannot remarry. It would be totally absurd, unacceptable, and offensive if a proposition were passed in California in accordance with Catholicism to ban divorcees from marrying – and this is still the case even though divorcees are not a protected class. Further, if G-d’s supposed plan for marriage were so perfect – why have heterosexuals so badly collectively failed in executing it.  The national divorce rate is higher than 50 percent, it’s perfectly permissible for Britney Spears to get a 72 hour sham Vegas marriage, domestic violence, physical and sexual abuse, and other evils pervade many heterosexual marriages between partners and children in the marriages.  It seems unreasonable for same sex couples to be denied access to a civil institution on the argument that these couples would somehow ruin the institution, when proponents of the status quo of the institution haven’t exactly been very good to it themselves.
REASONS AGAINST SAME SEX MARRIAGE
There are no legitimate secular reasons against civil same sex marriage. Many arguments are made, and many posts on this site have tried to raise these, but any that come close are inextricably linked to religious doctrine, and under church/state separation these do not hold water in discussion of civil institutions.
REASONS FOR SAME SEX MARRIAGE
It’s a civil rights issue.  It provides loving, devoted couples rights, benefits, obligations, and responsibilities.  It provides loving, devoted couples equality and dignity under the law and within society.  Married parents provide a better, more secure environment for children and same sex couples are raising tens of thousands of children in California who drastically benefit if their parents are married. It does not hurt opposite sex relationships or heterosexual people. It does not hurt society - there is no empirical proof of that beyond conjecture and religious assertions.  The sky has not fallen, and society has not disintegrated in Massachusetts, Canada, or European nations that have allowed same sex marriage. This is a short illustrative list intended to make the point, it is by no means exhaustive.
VOTE NO ON PROP 8
Prop 8 will not benefit anyone, but it would smear California’s constitution with a blotch of discrimination, unfairness, and animus.  Prop 8 would hurt thousands of loving, devoted couples while not helping anyone.  Prop 8 will hurt thousands of children who are being raised by their loving, devoted same sex parents.  Prop 8 would create a precedent that the majority could easily amend a constitution to oppress any minority, any time, on any issue – just because the majority can get away with doing that. I think everyone on this forum is educated and culturally aware enough to know many historical instances of this happening – where a majority will oppresses a minority group. Prop 8 is primarily financed and sponsored by religious organizations (and most of the financing is coming from outside our state – which is also offensive) that seek to inject religious doctrine into secular law – this is beyond troubling.  Failure of Prop 8 will not affect educational curricula, church tax exempt status, or heterosexual happiness or relationships.  Prop 8 is nothing more than a hateful discriminatory initiative intended to write discrimination into California’s constitution by taking a right (or privilege if you must call it that) away from a whole segment of the population while not benefiting anyone.  Should a constitution be amended for these reasons?  Prop 8 is wrong, it’s unfair, it’s sponsored, financed, and supported primarily by out of state and religious groups (and not by the Californians whom it would affect), it’s un-Californian, and does only harm and no good.
PLEASE VOTE NO ON PROP 8.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>IMMUTABILITY AND EQUAL PROTECTION:<br />
Constitutional law DOES NOT require immutability for suspect (protected) classification. The best examples of this are: religious preference and alienage. Both of these categories get suspect classification even though people can volitionally change their religious affiliation and aliens can become citizens. An argument can be made also that race can be changed (e.g. Michael Jackson; people who bleach/tan their skin or get cosmetic surgery) as can sex (sexual reassignment surgery and hormone therapy can physically alter sex and in California, a transsexual person can have their sex officially changed on their birth certificate and by law after a full transition). One of my earlier posts cites to the section of the Cal. S. Ct. opinion where this discussion took place with regard to religion, alienage, and sexual orientation.<br />
IN ANY CASE – SEXUAL ORIENTATION IS IMMUTABLE<br />
The ex-gay movement is a farce. Sure, there are people who claim to be ex-gays. But the majority of them, in time, will “relapse” because their nature cannot be controlled. The evangelical groups that run ex-gay programs even admit that their success rate is not very good. And, more importantly, almost all, if not all, ex-gays are “converted” through religious programs and rituals, with many practices involved causing pain, depression, and significant personal harm. These “converts” are pretty much all devout believers – and those who are not shamed and depressed for the rest of their lives, often committing suicide as a result of the “conversions” – utilize very strong faith and will power every day to control their natural urges and behaviors.  Anyone can suppress natural aspects of themselves with enough will power – Tibetan monks can turn off their pain receptors and have burned themselves alive without flinching – does that mean that pain is not natural? The APA is opposed to these ridiculous religious, not science, driven therapies. It warns of the tremendous negative toll these therapies have on their participants. I could discuss for pages and pages the horrific process by which these “therapies” are done – especially when teenagers are forced into them without consent and the damage they endure immediately and throughout the rest of their lives.  People here should not be fooled that a claim of “gay conversion” is a legitimate argument for why same sex marriage should be banned. But even for those who truly believe that sexuality is a choice – that you personally choose every morning what sexual orientation you are going to be for the day, and that gays and lesbians make that choice consciously and daily – immutability is still not a necessary requirement under California law for Equal Protection.<br />
RIGHTS VERSUS PRIVILEGES DEBATE<br />
This debate is really a red herring. Access to civil marriage is a fundamental right. This has been repeated over and over throughout history. The Cal. S. Ct. said so – and it is almost exclusively our courts that declare which rights are fundamental when such is not explicitly spelled out in the Constitution. Just because you have to pay for a marriage license at the county clerk (which is not true anyway because common law marriage takes effect without any need for payment or licensure) does not make marriage the same as getting a driver’s license (there is no common law equivalent to being able to drive). Voting is also not explicitly defined as a fundamental right in the constitution. Although amendments were passed to the Federal Constitution affirming that first African Americans and then women could not be denied suffrage – the fundamental right to vote preexisted these amendments and is not disputed today without ever having been spelled out in the Constitution originally.  And while poll taxes are unconstitutional, some restrictions and costs on voting are acceptable. States that have stringent voter ID laws inherently require an implicit tax because it costs money to go to the DMV and get a driver’s license identification, or pay for other forms that prove ID as required by the state’s law. In criminal cases, there is no right to an appeal, but it has been well established that where states offer appeals (which they all do), the first appeal, also known as a direct appeal, is an appeal by right. Any convicted defendant has the right to a first appeal, to counsel at that appeal, and to reduced cost or waived fees on a show of financial need. These rights are not in the Constitution, but they are nevertheless rights.<br />
But anyway, so what?  LET’S ASSUME MARRIAGE WAS JUST A PRIVILEGE.<br />
Would it be ok to deny gays and lesbians access to a driver’s license just because the majority in a proposition said so? Would it be ok to deny African Americans the privilege to attend public museums like the Smithsonian just because the majority of voters wills it?  There’s no right to higher education, so would it be ok to deny women the privilege of attending medical school?  Would it be ok to deprive Asians the privilege of sitting on a jury?  Would it be ok for the majority of voters to come together and deny gays and lesbians the privilege of running for elected office?  Of course not – none of these denials of access to “privileges” would be ok, ever! Whether they are designated as rights or privileges, whenever the state offers an institution, it cannot deny access to that institution to any group of people (without at least rational reasoning, but in this case compelling reasoning). Civil marriage is an institution offered by the state. It is a right – according to California’s Supreme Court. Access to this right cannot be denied to a protected class – gays and lesbians. But even if you think it is better to characterize it as a privilege, and even if you don’t believe gays and lesbians should be a protected class – it would still be as wrong, inappropriate, offensive, and nonsensical to deny gays and lesbians access to civil marriage, just as it would be to deny them access, as a result of a statewide initiative, to such institutions as driver’s licenses, jury participation, higher education, museums, and so forth. This is especially true considering that gays and lesbians are raising thousands of children in California in loving and supportive families, and that every legitimate, verified study has shown that kids in same sex households grow up to be just as happy, functional, and socially well adapted as children who grow up in opposite sex households.<br />
TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE<br />
No discussion of this issue fails to devolve into religious and pseudo-religious discussions of “traditional marriage.” I maintain that what we are talking about here is a civil, secular institution (civil marriage) and not religious marriage, even though the two separate institutions share the same operative terminology – marriage.  (And they are separate concepts because for a marriage to be legal, no matter what religion preformed it, what special rules, requirements, and rituals were involved, and how elaborate the ceremony, a California couple must still go through the un-ceremonial process of getting a state issued marriage license provided that certain state requirements are satisfied – and this license can be gotten without a religious marriage being necessary).<br />
It would probably solve this dilemma if the nomenclature for all civil marriages was changed to civil union so that all couples, same sex and opposite sex, would have access to the same civil institution and the same civil rights no matter whether or not certain religions accept same sex religious marriage or not. But there is no traction for that idea now, so while we have a civil institution called marriage, gays and lesbians should have equal access to it.<br />
In any case – marriage has been changing throughout our human history.  So those who argue that marriage has always been, under G-d’s formula, a union of one man with one woman, are completely wrong. Biblical marriage, by this supposed perfect formula, involved one man OWNING one or several women (look at the big patriarchs in the bibles). Patriarchal polygamy was practiced by Mormons up until a century ago, and offshoots of LDS still practice it today. Even after most civilizations accepted the standard of monogamy, marriage still entailed ownership of women. In the Islamic world, coincidently polygamy and male ownership of women still exists – and Islam was founded on Judeo-Christian principles. Throughout most of history until the modern era, marriages were not based on loving relationships between male and female equals, but instead most marriages were arranged for purposes of convenience, business, treaties, community building, and a whole assortment of other reasons.  In Jewish tradition, arranged marriages took place throughout most of European Jewish history, well into the modern era, and to this day, some more traditional sects of Judaism still practice arranged marriages (and like all arranged marriages it was a business deal involving a dowry like any other property transaction). Many modern nations throughout the world still practice this custom today as well. And even if we define “traditional” as “American” to try and avoid many of these unfortunate and stubborn facts that kill the traditional/timeless definition of marriage argument – women were considered chattel, properties of their husbands without any rights to property ownership, sexual consent, and so forth until well into the 1800s. This includes the traditional notions of marriage in California after statehood. Marital rape laws, domestic violence laws, divorce laws, child custody laws, and other amendments to marriage have been taking place in the context of marriage to this day. So marriage is anything but static and traditional.  It has been changing with evolving notions of human rights, human dignity, and the times throughout history.  There is no such thing as traditional marriage or a G-d’s plan to marriage or family that is consistent or universal. In any case, since civil marriage is secular, it does not matter what religions do or don’t say about religious marriage. In Catholicism, divorcees cannot remarry. It would be totally absurd, unacceptable, and offensive if a proposition were passed in California in accordance with Catholicism to ban divorcees from marrying – and this is still the case even though divorcees are not a protected class. Further, if G-d’s supposed plan for marriage were so perfect – why have heterosexuals so badly collectively failed in executing it.  The national divorce rate is higher than 50 percent, it’s perfectly permissible for Britney Spears to get a 72 hour sham Vegas marriage, domestic violence, physical and sexual abuse, and other evils pervade many heterosexual marriages between partners and children in the marriages.  It seems unreasonable for same sex couples to be denied access to a civil institution on the argument that these couples would somehow ruin the institution, when proponents of the status quo of the institution haven’t exactly been very good to it themselves.<br />
REASONS AGAINST SAME SEX MARRIAGE<br />
There are no legitimate secular reasons against civil same sex marriage. Many arguments are made, and many posts on this site have tried to raise these, but any that come close are inextricably linked to religious doctrine, and under church/state separation these do not hold water in discussion of civil institutions.<br />
REASONS FOR SAME SEX MARRIAGE<br />
It’s a civil rights issue.  It provides loving, devoted couples rights, benefits, obligations, and responsibilities.  It provides loving, devoted couples equality and dignity under the law and within society.  Married parents provide a better, more secure environment for children and same sex couples are raising tens of thousands of children in California who drastically benefit if their parents are married. It does not hurt opposite sex relationships or heterosexual people. It does not hurt society &#8211; there is no empirical proof of that beyond conjecture and religious assertions.  The sky has not fallen, and society has not disintegrated in Massachusetts, Canada, or European nations that have allowed same sex marriage. This is a short illustrative list intended to make the point, it is by no means exhaustive.<br />
VOTE NO ON PROP 8<br />
Prop 8 will not benefit anyone, but it would smear California’s constitution with a blotch of discrimination, unfairness, and animus.  Prop 8 would hurt thousands of loving, devoted couples while not helping anyone.  Prop 8 will hurt thousands of children who are being raised by their loving, devoted same sex parents.  Prop 8 would create a precedent that the majority could easily amend a constitution to oppress any minority, any time, on any issue – just because the majority can get away with doing that. I think everyone on this forum is educated and culturally aware enough to know many historical instances of this happening – where a majority will oppresses a minority group. Prop 8 is primarily financed and sponsored by religious organizations (and most of the financing is coming from outside our state – which is also offensive) that seek to inject religious doctrine into secular law – this is beyond troubling.  Failure of Prop 8 will not affect educational curricula, church tax exempt status, or heterosexual happiness or relationships.  Prop 8 is nothing more than a hateful discriminatory initiative intended to write discrimination into California’s constitution by taking a right (or privilege if you must call it that) away from a whole segment of the population while not benefiting anyone.  Should a constitution be amended for these reasons?  Prop 8 is wrong, it’s unfair, it’s sponsored, financed, and supported primarily by out of state and religious groups (and not by the Californians whom it would affect), it’s un-Californian, and does only harm and no good.<br />
PLEASE VOTE NO ON PROP 8.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 05:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Scott:
Courts make law all the time, let’s not pretend like that’s not part of their historic role. They state, define, and interpret common law, and make law by interpreting statutes, and constitutional provisions. That’s been our system since the very founding of this country and it’s not a new concept invented by the Cal. S. Ct. or any other court solely in the last few decades. Examples of judge made law: availability of damages in negligence actions, parol evidence in contracts, defining categories of persons as suspect class, recovery of damages for wrongful death, constitutional standing requirements, limitations on executive power, differences between executive treaties compared to executive agreements, tiered scrutiny and so many more procedural and substantive matters without which our legal system would be unrecognizable.
The legal system is based in the Constitution of the United States, Laws and Treaties. The Declaration of Independence is a nice document with historical significance (it lists grievances against King George so that we remember why we fought for Independence) but absolutely no legal significance, at all, whatsoever, period. I won’t address your religious arguments or get into a debate over which deity of many is the true deity or are the true deities, who or what the Creator is or is not, and what that Creator’s role in marriage is or is not. I’d love to have a theological debate with you in another thread – it would likely include differences in interpretation, errors in translation, and unverifiable aspects to the bibles as written by our ancients – but these have absolutely no bearing, significance or weight in discussing the purely civil secular matter of marriage in California. I will say that G-d is not the source of our rights in the United States or California and I have not chatted Him up lately about His stance on Prop 8. It would prove G-d’s fallibility if He were our source of rights because undoubtedly they have changed drastically throughout our history, indicating they were not perfect to begin with.
Four JUSTICES of the California Supreme Court (not just any 4 judges) did their job in interpreting the Cal Const to find that Prop 22 was unconstitutional. These Justices are 6 out 7 Republicans and Republican appointments, and they tend to generally be a very conservative court. (So stop representing them as small group of freakish liberal San Francisco judges that did something so wicked and unfathomable). If the voters got together and passed by majoritarian rule a proposition creating a statute that says “No divorcees (or Asians or Interracial couples or Atheists) in California can get married and their marriages will not be recognized” such a law would likewise rightfully get struck down. When “the People” acts as a super-legislature to pass a law – that law is subject to judicial review just like any other law passed by a legislator. If it is unconstitutional, it should get struck. One of the Court’s functions is to safeguard minorities from the popular and often discriminatory will of the majority.
Same sex marriage will not harm you, your relationships, or society. There is no proof that it will or has anywhere where it has existed now for many years, and on the contrary there is proof that it does not cause harm. The fabric of society might be torn (however that is defined - and most likely in religious terms) but that is not the fault of gays and lesbians or their relationships. Marriage and families might be in shambles in this country because there is a more than 50 percent divorce rate. Why not try to attack the “real” “problem” by making it harder to dissolve marriages, especially when children are involved. It does nothing to better society to keep loving, devoted couples who wish to marry, who are already raising children (out of wedlock, when generally the argument from your side would be that children are better born and raised in wedlock), and who want to cherish their relationship (often solemnized by religions that recognize same sex unions) with rights, responsibilities, and obligations, from being able to enter the legal institution known as civil marriage.
The passage or failure of Prop 8 would have no impact on school curricula or church tax exempt status. The law professor at Pepperdine who argued that same sex marriage would do these things has been debunked, and he represented a minority viewpoint consistent with the fact that Pepperdine Law School is a religious school that is founded on Christian values and requires students and faculty to abide by Christian morals and philosophy (no sex outside of marriage, no alcohol on school property, etc. – see Student Handbook). Also note that Pepperdine Law School got all references to itself removed from Prop 8 ads because as a school it does not take a position or condone one of its professors’ propaganda.  Citing Massachusetts as a counter point is deceiving because that is a different state with different laws.  I would also submit that while teaching Kindergartners about sex is inappropriate, because there are Kindergartners who have same sex parents, just as there are those who are in interracial families, raised by extended family, are adopted, etc., it is not a bad idea to teach about the diversity of the student body and families in America and in California even starting in Kindergarten.  But in any case, that’s what individual school districts will decide and they can teach whatever they want irrespective of Prop 8, and in California, the law allows parents to pull kids out of classes where sex and relationships are discussed.  Prop 8 proponents LIE in their ads and they have been called out on those lies by every relevant and trustworthy fact checking source. 
NOT ONLY DO PROP 8 PROPONENTS LIE IN THEIR ADS, THEY HAVE NOW STOOPED TO THE LEVEL OF THREATS. See: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2008/10/23/state/n145556D05.DTL&amp;tsp=1
My analysis – it’s not democracy in action when proponents are using extortion and threat tactics to bully opponents.
My list of groups opposing Prop 8 was not meant to dissuade anyone from fact checking or making reasoned voting decisions. It was meant to highlight that No on 8 has broad support from many notable politicians, religious organizations, community leaders, and many other groups. Every voter should still make their own independent, informed decision on election day, but it is not wrong to factor in where money is coming from on both sides, and where and why certain groups oppose Prop 8. I was especially highlighting that this isn’t a secular vs. religious struggle by showing that many religious groups (even those like Orthodox Jews who oppose same sex unions under Jewish doctrine), oppose Prop 8 because it is wrong for religious doctrine to control secular government and secular law. The many religions of the U.S. are not monolithic on this issue, and even within the Mormon church (most associated with this movement) there is debate whether their drive in support of Prop 8 is acceptable.
Your thoughts about “natural families” are not supported by experts who have done multi-decade and highly reliable studies. I’ll take the APA analysis over your personal and untested thoughts. No offense – but in voting on a constitutional amendment where this sub-issue is worth considering, individuals’ conjecture is less meaningful than independent and expert scientific, verifiable studies which find that kids raised in same sex households fair just as well as those in opposite sex households.
And separate but “equal” institutions are inherently unequal – and studies in Connecticut and NJ have proven such.  People should be treated equally under the law!  Just like you can’t legally keep gays and lesbians from drinking from the same water fountains as heterosexuals, you can’t keep them from participation in civil institutions (especially since gays and lesbians are a protected class and civil marriage is a fundamental right).

Again, Prop 8 only hurts many and benefits no one! Don’t write hate and discrimination in the Constitution.  Please Vote No on 8.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Scott:<br />
Courts make law all the time, let’s not pretend like that’s not part of their historic role. They state, define, and interpret common law, and make law by interpreting statutes, and constitutional provisions. That’s been our system since the very founding of this country and it’s not a new concept invented by the Cal. S. Ct. or any other court solely in the last few decades. Examples of judge made law: availability of damages in negligence actions, parol evidence in contracts, defining categories of persons as suspect class, recovery of damages for wrongful death, constitutional standing requirements, limitations on executive power, differences between executive treaties compared to executive agreements, tiered scrutiny and so many more procedural and substantive matters without which our legal system would be unrecognizable.<br />
The legal system is based in the Constitution of the United States, Laws and Treaties. The Declaration of Independence is a nice document with historical significance (it lists grievances against King George so that we remember why we fought for Independence) but absolutely no legal significance, at all, whatsoever, period. I won’t address your religious arguments or get into a debate over which deity of many is the true deity or are the true deities, who or what the Creator is or is not, and what that Creator’s role in marriage is or is not. I’d love to have a theological debate with you in another thread – it would likely include differences in interpretation, errors in translation, and unverifiable aspects to the bibles as written by our ancients – but these have absolutely no bearing, significance or weight in discussing the purely civil secular matter of marriage in California. I will say that G-d is not the source of our rights in the United States or California and I have not chatted Him up lately about His stance on Prop 8. It would prove G-d’s fallibility if He were our source of rights because undoubtedly they have changed drastically throughout our history, indicating they were not perfect to begin with.<br />
Four JUSTICES of the California Supreme Court (not just any 4 judges) did their job in interpreting the Cal Const to find that Prop 22 was unconstitutional. These Justices are 6 out 7 Republicans and Republican appointments, and they tend to generally be a very conservative court. (So stop representing them as small group of freakish liberal San Francisco judges that did something so wicked and unfathomable). If the voters got together and passed by majoritarian rule a proposition creating a statute that says “No divorcees (or Asians or Interracial couples or Atheists) in California can get married and their marriages will not be recognized” such a law would likewise rightfully get struck down. When “the People” acts as a super-legislature to pass a law – that law is subject to judicial review just like any other law passed by a legislator. If it is unconstitutional, it should get struck. One of the Court’s functions is to safeguard minorities from the popular and often discriminatory will of the majority.<br />
Same sex marriage will not harm you, your relationships, or society. There is no proof that it will or has anywhere where it has existed now for many years, and on the contrary there is proof that it does not cause harm. The fabric of society might be torn (however that is defined &#8211; and most likely in religious terms) but that is not the fault of gays and lesbians or their relationships. Marriage and families might be in shambles in this country because there is a more than 50 percent divorce rate. Why not try to attack the “real” “problem” by making it harder to dissolve marriages, especially when children are involved. It does nothing to better society to keep loving, devoted couples who wish to marry, who are already raising children (out of wedlock, when generally the argument from your side would be that children are better born and raised in wedlock), and who want to cherish their relationship (often solemnized by religions that recognize same sex unions) with rights, responsibilities, and obligations, from being able to enter the legal institution known as civil marriage.<br />
The passage or failure of Prop 8 would have no impact on school curricula or church tax exempt status. The law professor at Pepperdine who argued that same sex marriage would do these things has been debunked, and he represented a minority viewpoint consistent with the fact that Pepperdine Law School is a religious school that is founded on Christian values and requires students and faculty to abide by Christian morals and philosophy (no sex outside of marriage, no alcohol on school property, etc. – see Student Handbook). Also note that Pepperdine Law School got all references to itself removed from Prop 8 ads because as a school it does not take a position or condone one of its professors’ propaganda.  Citing Massachusetts as a counter point is deceiving because that is a different state with different laws.  I would also submit that while teaching Kindergartners about sex is inappropriate, because there are Kindergartners who have same sex parents, just as there are those who are in interracial families, raised by extended family, are adopted, etc., it is not a bad idea to teach about the diversity of the student body and families in America and in California even starting in Kindergarten.  But in any case, that’s what individual school districts will decide and they can teach whatever they want irrespective of Prop 8, and in California, the law allows parents to pull kids out of classes where sex and relationships are discussed.  Prop 8 proponents LIE in their ads and they have been called out on those lies by every relevant and trustworthy fact checking source.<br />
NOT ONLY DO PROP 8 PROPONENTS LIE IN THEIR ADS, THEY HAVE NOW STOOPED TO THE LEVEL OF THREATS. See: <a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2008/10/23/state/n145556D05.DTL&#038;tsp=1" rel="nofollow">http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2008/10/23/state/n145556D05.DTL&#038;tsp=1</a><br />
My analysis – it’s not democracy in action when proponents are using extortion and threat tactics to bully opponents.<br />
My list of groups opposing Prop 8 was not meant to dissuade anyone from fact checking or making reasoned voting decisions. It was meant to highlight that No on 8 has broad support from many notable politicians, religious organizations, community leaders, and many other groups. Every voter should still make their own independent, informed decision on election day, but it is not wrong to factor in where money is coming from on both sides, and where and why certain groups oppose Prop 8. I was especially highlighting that this isn’t a secular vs. religious struggle by showing that many religious groups (even those like Orthodox Jews who oppose same sex unions under Jewish doctrine), oppose Prop 8 because it is wrong for religious doctrine to control secular government and secular law. The many religions of the U.S. are not monolithic on this issue, and even within the Mormon church (most associated with this movement) there is debate whether their drive in support of Prop 8 is acceptable.<br />
Your thoughts about “natural families” are not supported by experts who have done multi-decade and highly reliable studies. I’ll take the APA analysis over your personal and untested thoughts. No offense – but in voting on a constitutional amendment where this sub-issue is worth considering, individuals’ conjecture is less meaningful than independent and expert scientific, verifiable studies which find that kids raised in same sex households fair just as well as those in opposite sex households.<br />
And separate but “equal” institutions are inherently unequal – and studies in Connecticut and NJ have proven such.  People should be treated equally under the law!  Just like you can’t legally keep gays and lesbians from drinking from the same water fountains as heterosexuals, you can’t keep them from participation in civil institutions (especially since gays and lesbians are a protected class and civil marriage is a fundamental right).</p>
<p>Again, Prop 8 only hurts many and benefits no one! Don’t write hate and discrimination in the Constitution.  Please Vote No on 8.</p>
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		<title>By: kamaakestad</title>
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		<dc:creator>kamaakestad</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Oct 2008 03:03:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice haircut</description>
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		<title>By: JustAmes</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I may not always agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.&quot;

I admit I am reluctant to comment on this video. However, I appreciate this video (so I&#039;ll go ahead and comment anyways). It sparked discussion. It took a topic that has been floating around and gave it an outlet. I&#039;m sure that the Brother&#039;s Winn appreciate everyone&#039;s comment, whether they are in agreement or not. It&#039;s clear that this topic has passion from both sides, people will believe what they want to because of their own moral compass, and who am I to tell them that they are wrong? That is what democracy is supposed to be. Whether someone is misinformed, emotional, backed by religion, not backed by religion, tolerant, intolerant, for or against Prop 8, most opinions can not helped but be formed by a person&#039;s experiences, and in that case, there is not a &quot;correct&quot; view to take. 

I&#039;ve heard it said that you can make some people happy some of the time, but you can&#039;t make all people happy all the time. So the gays in California were unhappy about the vote. This happens to many people, but as an Americans, we have to understand the way our government was set up. If the majority of the people do not agree with something, they get their way, to the chagrin of those for it. I say, if gays wish to see change they have the right to fight for it. Rally support at the voting poles, and do so in a respectful manner. No, I do not support gay marriage. On my own moral grounds, I cannot.  Do I believe that it was wrong for the Supreme Court to step in and change what the people had already decided? Yes, but only on the principle that if 61% of voters decided to define marriage as between a man and a woman, then who is to say that they cannot vote and have their vote matter? At very least, a revote should have been done to confirm the belief of the Supreme Court. If, truly, public opinion had changed, then it would show in voting. That is the way that democracy is supposed to work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I may not always agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I admit I am reluctant to comment on this video. However, I appreciate this video (so I&#8217;ll go ahead and comment anyways). It sparked discussion. It took a topic that has been floating around and gave it an outlet. I&#8217;m sure that the Brother&#8217;s Winn appreciate everyone&#8217;s comment, whether they are in agreement or not. It&#8217;s clear that this topic has passion from both sides, people will believe what they want to because of their own moral compass, and who am I to tell them that they are wrong? That is what democracy is supposed to be. Whether someone is misinformed, emotional, backed by religion, not backed by religion, tolerant, intolerant, for or against Prop 8, most opinions can not helped but be formed by a person&#8217;s experiences, and in that case, there is not a &#8220;correct&#8221; view to take. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve heard it said that you can make some people happy some of the time, but you can&#8217;t make all people happy all the time. So the gays in California were unhappy about the vote. This happens to many people, but as an Americans, we have to understand the way our government was set up. If the majority of the people do not agree with something, they get their way, to the chagrin of those for it. I say, if gays wish to see change they have the right to fight for it. Rally support at the voting poles, and do so in a respectful manner. No, I do not support gay marriage. On my own moral grounds, I cannot.  Do I believe that it was wrong for the Supreme Court to step in and change what the people had already decided? Yes, but only on the principle that if 61% of voters decided to define marriage as between a man and a woman, then who is to say that they cannot vote and have their vote matter? At very least, a revote should have been done to confirm the belief of the Supreme Court. If, truly, public opinion had changed, then it would show in voting. That is the way that democracy is supposed to work.</p>
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		<title>By: Drecon</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:19:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And there are of course bisexuals that like both men and women and can be equally happy with either sex.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And there are of course bisexuals that like both men and women and can be equally happy with either sex.</p>
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		<title>By: Diego</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:54:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@keelhaulbill

The evidence(yeah like all of it) suggests that sexual prefrance is biologically determined, just as having asian apperance is. The fact that more gay people pass as straight then asians as white does not change the underlying arbitrary basis for inequality.

Being out, or pretending to be straight, those are choices, They are simply different strategies on how to be gay in our society, simply because you can&#039;t tell by looking that a person is gay does not mean that it is something they can change.

Would you feel it were just if you were excluded from many of the benefits of civil society unless you decided to supress a strong biological urge, and pretend to have an urge which you don&#039;t have, and even find distasteful?

The point of the show was basically &quot;oh no activist judges&quot;, do you feel that way about the 1948 dicision? Does your opinion change at all, given that discriminatory laws are often repealed through judical process?</description>
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<p>The evidence(yeah like all of it) suggests that sexual prefrance is biologically determined, just as having asian apperance is. The fact that more gay people pass as straight then asians as white does not change the underlying arbitrary basis for inequality.</p>
<p>Being out, or pretending to be straight, those are choices, They are simply different strategies on how to be gay in our society, simply because you can&#8217;t tell by looking that a person is gay does not mean that it is something they can change.</p>
<p>Would you feel it were just if you were excluded from many of the benefits of civil society unless you decided to supress a strong biological urge, and pretend to have an urge which you don&#8217;t have, and even find distasteful?</p>
<p>The point of the show was basically &#8220;oh no activist judges&#8221;, do you feel that way about the 1948 dicision? Does your opinion change at all, given that discriminatory laws are often repealed through judical process?</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 17:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dragonroka27
yeah aren&#039;t all the posts great? Nice and even tempered too. It&#039;s pretty obvious a lot of viewers have passionate and differing opinions on this subject. I&#039;ve said it before and I&#039;ll say it again: A toast to civility!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dragonroka27<br />
yeah aren&#8217;t all the posts great? Nice and even tempered too. It&#8217;s pretty obvious a lot of viewers have passionate and differing opinions on this subject. I&#8217;ve said it before and I&#8217;ll say it again: A toast to civility!</p>
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		<title>By: dragonroka27</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 09:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks heaps! wow, I&#039;ve never seen this many comments...
kristina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks heaps! wow, I&#8217;ve never seen this many comments&#8230;<br />
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		<title>By: keelhaulbill</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 02:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Diego
Your Asian/Gay analogy isn&#039;t really working for me. You see, someone that is Asian cannot change that fact where as someone that is gay can. There are many examples of people that are gay becoming straight and straights becoming gay. In fact sexual orientation used to be called sexual preference... as in choice. (But that implies accountability. And we can&#039;t have that.)
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I&#039;ll quote Russ, &quot;the characteristic upon which the discrimination is based must be immutable.” Immutable means &quot;unchanging over time or unable to be changed&quot;.
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I could always become gay when ever I felt it would be convenient. But I could never become an asian.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Diego<br />
Your Asian/Gay analogy isn&#8217;t really working for me. You see, someone that is Asian cannot change that fact where as someone that is gay can. There are many examples of people that are gay becoming straight and straights becoming gay. In fact sexual orientation used to be called sexual preference&#8230; as in choice. (But that implies accountability. And we can&#8217;t have that.)<br />
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I&#8217;ll quote Russ, &#8220;the characteristic upon which the discrimination is based must be immutable.” Immutable means &#8220;unchanging over time or unable to be changed&#8221;.<br />
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I could always become gay when ever I felt it would be convenient. But I could never become an asian.</p>
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		<title>By: graybeard</title>
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		<dc:creator>graybeard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 23:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In America we have done a lot of environmentally stupid things in the name of rights.  People have exercised water rights, property rights, and numerous other sorts of rights to make decisions which have had disastrous downstream consequences.  Now we try to prevent such shortsightedness by requiring environmental impact studies to determine long term consequences of decisions.  The subtleties of societal interaction are incredibly complex, yet we may casually vote down a definition of marriage which has been stable for  thousands of years without any objective look at possible downstream consequences.  How can we be so stupid in the treatment of our societal environment?  Have we learned nothing?  Where is an objective societal impact study?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In America we have done a lot of environmentally stupid things in the name of rights.  People have exercised water rights, property rights, and numerous other sorts of rights to make decisions which have had disastrous downstream consequences.  Now we try to prevent such shortsightedness by requiring environmental impact studies to determine long term consequences of decisions.  The subtleties of societal interaction are incredibly complex, yet we may casually vote down a definition of marriage which has been stable for  thousands of years without any objective look at possible downstream consequences.  How can we be so stupid in the treatment of our societal environment?  Have we learned nothing?  Where is an objective societal impact study?</p>
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		<title>By: Diego</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diego</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 19:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If prop 8 took away Asian&#039;s equal marriage rights would you support it? If you do support 8, what&#039;s the difference?

The Cable act did just that, it was the law in California.

In 1948 the equal rights of Asians to marry was reinstated by court decision. In Perez vs. Sharp, the California Supreme Court ruled against anti-miscegenation laws, stating that they were based on racial distinctions that were &quot;by their very nature, odious to a free people.&quot;

This is how this usually happens, the court was doing its job in 1948, and in 2008.

Don&#039;t like that Asians(gays) have the same marriage rights as whites(straights)? Well, taking away peoples rights is a pretty shitty thing to do, I certainly hope that this attempt at mob rule fails.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If prop 8 took away Asian&#8217;s equal marriage rights would you support it? If you do support 8, what&#8217;s the difference?</p>
<p>The Cable act did just that, it was the law in California.</p>
<p>In 1948 the equal rights of Asians to marry was reinstated by court decision. In Perez vs. Sharp, the California Supreme Court ruled against anti-miscegenation laws, stating that they were based on racial distinctions that were &#8220;by their very nature, odious to a free people.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is how this usually happens, the court was doing its job in 1948, and in 2008.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t like that Asians(gays) have the same marriage rights as whites(straights)? Well, taking away peoples rights is a pretty shitty thing to do, I certainly hope that this attempt at mob rule fails.</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnnyWhat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 16:11:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pkw
I think you hit the nail on the head as far as declining marriage rates in general. Many upon many people aren&#039;t feeling any need to be married whatsoever.  Those &quot;rewards&quot; of marriage that you spoke of are appealing to some, and it is an upside to marriage. Of course then there are all the legal resposnibilites that comes with marriage when say... you don&#039;t want to be married to that person any more. What a hassle! So like you&#039;re sugguesting there are a lot of people who are just saying why bother.</description>
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I think you hit the nail on the head as far as declining marriage rates in general. Many upon many people aren&#8217;t feeling any need to be married whatsoever.  Those &#8220;rewards&#8221; of marriage that you spoke of are appealing to some, and it is an upside to marriage. Of course then there are all the legal resposnibilites that comes with marriage when say&#8230; you don&#8217;t want to be married to that person any more. What a hassle! So like you&#8217;re sugguesting there are a lot of people who are just saying why bother.</p>
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		<title>By: pkw</title>
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		<dc:creator>pkw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 15:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have to ask a question, and no, I haven&#039;t read through the posts.
Why be married?  I mean, I personally believe it&#039;s right for religious reasons, but other than that, what&#039;s the point of the whole instution of marriage?  Societal recognition?  Since when should I care what other people think?  A symbol of commitment to my partner?  My partner works with a guy who loves his live-in-girlfriend like crazy, yet knows the day their relationship becomes common-law marriage, and plans to move out the day before, live elsewhere for a length of time, then move in with her again.  They have a mutual commitment to each other, and do not need or care to have anyone else including the state ratify it.  Lots of people write their own marriage vows.  So the words can&#039;t be explicitly crucial.
I&#039;m not totally sure if I&#039;m saying it adequately, but why marriage?  What&#039;s the point?  If you removed the &quot;rewards&quot; granted for things like taxes and insurance, and permit the right to visit in medical situations, would you still bother with the marriage ceremony?  Is it some sort of romanitcized notion from childhood that true love leads to marriage?
I don&#039;t think gays should be denied rights because of their sexual orientation, but I don&#039;t think marriage is a right.  No where did the framers mention a right to marriage.  If they had, alot of people who don&#039;t stumble accross &quot;the one&quot; would be denied that right.
I think marriage is a religious institution that the government has traditionally recognized and encouraged.  So take away the stamp of approval, and I wonder, who would still get married?  I am thinking primarily the religious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to ask a question, and no, I haven&#8217;t read through the posts.<br />
Why be married?  I mean, I personally believe it&#8217;s right for religious reasons, but other than that, what&#8217;s the point of the whole instution of marriage?  Societal recognition?  Since when should I care what other people think?  A symbol of commitment to my partner?  My partner works with a guy who loves his live-in-girlfriend like crazy, yet knows the day their relationship becomes common-law marriage, and plans to move out the day before, live elsewhere for a length of time, then move in with her again.  They have a mutual commitment to each other, and do not need or care to have anyone else including the state ratify it.  Lots of people write their own marriage vows.  So the words can&#8217;t be explicitly crucial.<br />
I&#8217;m not totally sure if I&#8217;m saying it adequately, but why marriage?  What&#8217;s the point?  If you removed the &#8220;rewards&#8221; granted for things like taxes and insurance, and permit the right to visit in medical situations, would you still bother with the marriage ceremony?  Is it some sort of romanitcized notion from childhood that true love leads to marriage?<br />
I don&#8217;t think gays should be denied rights because of their sexual orientation, but I don&#8217;t think marriage is a right.  No where did the framers mention a right to marriage.  If they had, alot of people who don&#8217;t stumble accross &#8220;the one&#8221; would be denied that right.<br />
I think marriage is a religious institution that the government has traditionally recognized and encouraged.  So take away the stamp of approval, and I wonder, who would still get married?  I am thinking primarily the religious.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<dc:creator>boredalum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 05:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To motr_man:

I&#039;ll keep this short.  Constitutions and courts are anti-majoritarian.  That&#039;s how the Framers invisioned them, and that&#039;s how they should be.  And when the People votes in an initiative, it acts as super-legislature, so in that sense, a court should be able to check it, the way judicial review checks any other law passed by a legislature for constitutionality. If we are talking about the federal constitution, it would take a whole lot more than a simple majority to erase Article III.  And while it&#039;s debatable whether Californians could do that by initiative in this state, it would be incredibly foolish for them to do so.  There&#039;s so much more nuance here - but I&#039;ll keep this one short.  If you really believe that a majoritarian mob should be able to oppress any minority, at any time, without any checks - well, thankfully that&#039;s not the country in which we live and I am grateful for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To motr_man:</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll keep this short.  Constitutions and courts are anti-majoritarian.  That&#8217;s how the Framers invisioned them, and that&#8217;s how they should be.  And when the People votes in an initiative, it acts as super-legislature, so in that sense, a court should be able to check it, the way judicial review checks any other law passed by a legislature for constitutionality. If we are talking about the federal constitution, it would take a whole lot more than a simple majority to erase Article III.  And while it&#8217;s debatable whether Californians could do that by initiative in this state, it would be incredibly foolish for them to do so.  There&#8217;s so much more nuance here &#8211; but I&#8217;ll keep this one short.  If you really believe that a majoritarian mob should be able to oppress any minority, at any time, without any checks &#8211; well, thankfully that&#8217;s not the country in which we live and I am grateful for that.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<dc:creator>boredalum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 02:27:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To: Jennifer McKenzie

I&#039;m afraid that I lost you on your argument.  Even supposing that 100 percent of the &quot;homosexual community&quot; voted in a state wide election, the community would represent what, maybe 5 percent of the entire statewide electorate, maybe even less.    Is it really a fair argument that because lesbian and gay folk are often associated with liberal movements, that it&#039;s ok to strip them of fundamental constitutional rights (i.e. access to secular, civil marriage) just out of spite because of the assumption that many of them would vote for gun restrictions and pro-environment legislation?  

Just to be clear, there is no one centralized gay identity politic or voting agenda.  Lesbian and gay people exist in every race, religion, creed, political affiliation, and neighborhood.  There are plenty of gay republicans, fiscal and social conservatives (gun owners, hunters, and polluters) just as there are many gay democrats, fiscal and social liberals (supporters of Brady Bill type laws and conservation policies).  If it would make a difference in your vote, I&#039;d be happy to introduce you to many gay and lesbian republicans, gun owners, business people, and conservatives.  Check Andrew Sullivan - a prolific conservative writer who identifies as Libertarian and would probably agree with you on more issues than you&#039;d think.  Whatever your reason for voting the way that you do - I hope dearly that you wouldn&#039;t vote yes on 8 just because you assume that all gays in California vote against your interests when the time comes.

And as far as the minority overruling the majority by circumventing the voting system:
When the majority (mostly out of animus or a discriminatory history/tradition) oppresses a minority by keeping it inferior and denies it rights - it is the place of our courts, their constitutional responsibility, to do equitable justice and make sure that the minority receives rights, access, and representation.

It&#039;s not like the minority (lesbians and gays) are oppressing the majority and forcing their will on the majority.  Lesbians and gays want to live in peace, to have the same secular civil rights as all other citizens.  Their marriages do nothing to harm or interfere with heterosexual couples, heterosexual marriages, or heterosexual enjoyment of life.  A same sex marriage has no negative impact on heterosexual marriages.  

On the other hand, a same sex marriage helps lesbians and gays stay in committed relationships with financial and legal support, obligations, and responsibilities.  Marriage benefits children that are raised in same sex households.  Marriage allows lesbians and gays to be happy.  Same sex marriage has no impact on people who are not lesbian or gay.  To write a constitutional amendment that benefits no one and only harms thousands of devoted couples and thousands more children whose parents are denied dignity, civil rights, and happiness - that&#039;s just wrong.

And Guin:

The minority is not imposing its views on anyone.  Would it be ok for the majority to pass a law (from animus and a discriminatory history/tradition) that says lesbians and gays (a minority) aren&#039;t allowed to attend the same schools, work in the same offices, drink from the same water fountains, attend the same parks, have access to the same institutions as members of the majority?  Under any circumstance would passing such a law be acceptable to anyone on this forum?  (Really, would anyone here support a law like that?) Would it not be the role of a court, interpreting the equality provisions of the constitution to step in and say that such a law is unconstitutional and that the minority should have access to the same institutions as the majority?

That&#039;s what we&#039;re talking about here.  Civil marriage - a secular, government sponsored institution - should be available to same sex couples just as it is to opposite sex couples.  Any house of worship that wants to solomnize such a union - great.  Any house of worship that opposes such a union - great.  Some religions recognize same sex unions, others don&#039;t.  Some religions recognize divorce, others don&#039;t.  That doesn&#039;t matter.  

A synagogue will never lose tax exempt status because it doesn&#039;t marry two Christians.  A Catholic church will never lose tax exempt status because it refuses to marry divorcees.  A Mormon church will never lose tax exempt status because non-Mormons can&#039;t enter their temples or be married in interfaith unions.  Religions can discriminate all they want - governments cannot.  And when a majority of the people comes together in a statewide initiative and acts as a super-legislature, not every law it passes is a good law or a constitutional law.  Propositions can be unconstitutional.  Prop 22 was - even though at the time the majority of voters supported it.  That alone does not make it right.  

Just as it would be wrong for the majority of Californians to reinstitute bans on interracial marriage, or to create a holy Sabbath day that all Californians must observe, or to come together and create separate (and inferior) institutions for any minority group, so too is it wrong for the majority will to strip rights and access to civil institutions away from lesbians and gays.   

When the will of the majority oppresses a minority - the courts have to step in and undo that will.  That concept might seem undemocratic - but that&#039;s why we don&#039;t live in a true democracy, and that&#039;s why we have survived this long.  We don’t want it to be ok for the majority will to oppress a minority group.  In the annals of history, the only societies that have done this have been recorded in infamy.  Laws and constitutions should give and protect rights, or restrict freedoms for all people equally.  They should never pick out a minority and block it from the enjoyment of liberties all others in the majority can access.

Don&#039;t vote for 8 just because you’re mad at the supreme court or want to play a game of civics.  Vote for it only if you truly believe writing discrimination into the constitution and taking rights away from a whole segment of the population benefits you personally somehow.  And if that&#039;s the case, I&#039;d love hear how that is.  If a constitutional amendment won&#039;t directly benefit you, but will directly harm others, you should not vote for it.

Vote no on Prop 8 - it&#039;s hurtful, it has no secular purpose, it discriminates, it&#039;s wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To: Jennifer McKenzie</p>
<p>I&#8217;m afraid that I lost you on your argument.  Even supposing that 100 percent of the &#8220;homosexual community&#8221; voted in a state wide election, the community would represent what, maybe 5 percent of the entire statewide electorate, maybe even less.    Is it really a fair argument that because lesbian and gay folk are often associated with liberal movements, that it&#8217;s ok to strip them of fundamental constitutional rights (i.e. access to secular, civil marriage) just out of spite because of the assumption that many of them would vote for gun restrictions and pro-environment legislation?  </p>
<p>Just to be clear, there is no one centralized gay identity politic or voting agenda.  Lesbian and gay people exist in every race, religion, creed, political affiliation, and neighborhood.  There are plenty of gay republicans, fiscal and social conservatives (gun owners, hunters, and polluters) just as there are many gay democrats, fiscal and social liberals (supporters of Brady Bill type laws and conservation policies).  If it would make a difference in your vote, I&#8217;d be happy to introduce you to many gay and lesbian republicans, gun owners, business people, and conservatives.  Check Andrew Sullivan &#8211; a prolific conservative writer who identifies as Libertarian and would probably agree with you on more issues than you&#8217;d think.  Whatever your reason for voting the way that you do &#8211; I hope dearly that you wouldn&#8217;t vote yes on 8 just because you assume that all gays in California vote against your interests when the time comes.</p>
<p>And as far as the minority overruling the majority by circumventing the voting system:<br />
When the majority (mostly out of animus or a discriminatory history/tradition) oppresses a minority by keeping it inferior and denies it rights &#8211; it is the place of our courts, their constitutional responsibility, to do equitable justice and make sure that the minority receives rights, access, and representation.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not like the minority (lesbians and gays) are oppressing the majority and forcing their will on the majority.  Lesbians and gays want to live in peace, to have the same secular civil rights as all other citizens.  Their marriages do nothing to harm or interfere with heterosexual couples, heterosexual marriages, or heterosexual enjoyment of life.  A same sex marriage has no negative impact on heterosexual marriages.  </p>
<p>On the other hand, a same sex marriage helps lesbians and gays stay in committed relationships with financial and legal support, obligations, and responsibilities.  Marriage benefits children that are raised in same sex households.  Marriage allows lesbians and gays to be happy.  Same sex marriage has no impact on people who are not lesbian or gay.  To write a constitutional amendment that benefits no one and only harms thousands of devoted couples and thousands more children whose parents are denied dignity, civil rights, and happiness &#8211; that&#8217;s just wrong.</p>
<p>And Guin:</p>
<p>The minority is not imposing its views on anyone.  Would it be ok for the majority to pass a law (from animus and a discriminatory history/tradition) that says lesbians and gays (a minority) aren&#8217;t allowed to attend the same schools, work in the same offices, drink from the same water fountains, attend the same parks, have access to the same institutions as members of the majority?  Under any circumstance would passing such a law be acceptable to anyone on this forum?  (Really, would anyone here support a law like that?) Would it not be the role of a court, interpreting the equality provisions of the constitution to step in and say that such a law is unconstitutional and that the minority should have access to the same institutions as the majority?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re talking about here.  Civil marriage &#8211; a secular, government sponsored institution &#8211; should be available to same sex couples just as it is to opposite sex couples.  Any house of worship that wants to solomnize such a union &#8211; great.  Any house of worship that opposes such a union &#8211; great.  Some religions recognize same sex unions, others don&#8217;t.  Some religions recognize divorce, others don&#8217;t.  That doesn&#8217;t matter.  </p>
<p>A synagogue will never lose tax exempt status because it doesn&#8217;t marry two Christians.  A Catholic church will never lose tax exempt status because it refuses to marry divorcees.  A Mormon church will never lose tax exempt status because non-Mormons can&#8217;t enter their temples or be married in interfaith unions.  Religions can discriminate all they want &#8211; governments cannot.  And when a majority of the people comes together in a statewide initiative and acts as a super-legislature, not every law it passes is a good law or a constitutional law.  Propositions can be unconstitutional.  Prop 22 was &#8211; even though at the time the majority of voters supported it.  That alone does not make it right.  </p>
<p>Just as it would be wrong for the majority of Californians to reinstitute bans on interracial marriage, or to create a holy Sabbath day that all Californians must observe, or to come together and create separate (and inferior) institutions for any minority group, so too is it wrong for the majority will to strip rights and access to civil institutions away from lesbians and gays.   </p>
<p>When the will of the majority oppresses a minority &#8211; the courts have to step in and undo that will.  That concept might seem undemocratic &#8211; but that&#8217;s why we don&#8217;t live in a true democracy, and that&#8217;s why we have survived this long.  We don’t want it to be ok for the majority will to oppress a minority group.  In the annals of history, the only societies that have done this have been recorded in infamy.  Laws and constitutions should give and protect rights, or restrict freedoms for all people equally.  They should never pick out a minority and block it from the enjoyment of liberties all others in the majority can access.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t vote for 8 just because you’re mad at the supreme court or want to play a game of civics.  Vote for it only if you truly believe writing discrimination into the constitution and taking rights away from a whole segment of the population benefits you personally somehow.  And if that&#8217;s the case, I&#8217;d love hear how that is.  If a constitutional amendment won&#8217;t directly benefit you, but will directly harm others, you should not vote for it.</p>
<p>Vote no on Prop 8 &#8211; it&#8217;s hurtful, it has no secular purpose, it discriminates, it&#8217;s wrong.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 01:50:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Boredalum, Your arguments are consistantly bursting with ethos and lacking in logos.  I will site only one of your flawed arguments, since to address them all might require a post as long as your own (and long posts become tedious).  You say - &quot;Courts exist, in part, to protect minorities from majoritarian rule.&quot;  The voice of the MAJORITY establishes what is and is not a part of the Constitution, so the Courts cannot (and are not intended to) serve as a check against the power of the people.  Indeed, how can they be, when &quot;the people&quot; is the source of their power?  The highest courts of the judicial branch (State and Federal) are designed to check and balance the legislative and executive branches only, not the people.  Observe that a simple MAJORITY can simply rewrite the Constitution and entirely remove the supreme court, if it chose to do so.  The court would be powerless to stop it, so no real check on power there.  If the court has stepped over its bounds, then on Nov 4th the majority will tell it so by voting Yes, changing the Constitution and put the court back in its proper place - subordinate to the will of the people (read MAJORITY).  So there you have it, the court cannot check the power of the people.  Again this is just one of many cases in which you analysis is legally, politically and logical wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Boredalum, Your arguments are consistantly bursting with ethos and lacking in logos.  I will site only one of your flawed arguments, since to address them all might require a post as long as your own (and long posts become tedious).  You say &#8211; &#8220;Courts exist, in part, to protect minorities from majoritarian rule.&#8221;  The voice of the MAJORITY establishes what is and is not a part of the Constitution, so the Courts cannot (and are not intended to) serve as a check against the power of the people.  Indeed, how can they be, when &#8220;the people&#8221; is the source of their power?  The highest courts of the judicial branch (State and Federal) are designed to check and balance the legislative and executive branches only, not the people.  Observe that a simple MAJORITY can simply rewrite the Constitution and entirely remove the supreme court, if it chose to do so.  The court would be powerless to stop it, so no real check on power there.  If the court has stepped over its bounds, then on Nov 4th the majority will tell it so by voting Yes, changing the Constitution and put the court back in its proper place &#8211; subordinate to the will of the people (read MAJORITY).  So there you have it, the court cannot check the power of the people.  Again this is just one of many cases in which you analysis is legally, politically and logical wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 01:32:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To boredalum:

Mob rule is a bad thing.  

Judicial activism is defined in several ways.  What seems most activist to me is when court rulings make law rather than interpret it.  

It is funny that people are spending so much time talking about the &quot;right&quot; of homosexuals to marry.  What does the United States legal system consider to be the source of these rights?  &quot;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are ENDOWED BY THEIR CREATOR with certain unalienable Rights. . .&quot;  Oh dear, not only is one of the founding documents of the nation (Declaration of independence) talking about God, it says that he is the source of our rights.  So the question must be, does God grant homosexuals the right to marry.  If you go with the country&#039;s Judeo-Christian founding principles, that would have to be a &quot;No.&quot;  In case you haven&#039;t heard much from God recently, check out my post below for more information on the basis of laws, governments, and societies.  

There are many things I could say about the nature of the California Constitution and amendments to it.  I&#039;m not sure &quot;sacred&quot; is the best word to describe it.  In any case, four judges had a much easier time changing the law than getting another majority of California voters to approve another law limiting marriage to a man and a woman.  

People making the case for gay marriage often state categorically that it causes no harm and does not &quot;directly&quot; affect anyone.  During jury selection a lawyer asked my father what he thought about &quot;victimless&quot; crimes.  His answer was that there are no victimless crimes, just crimes where the victims are too numerous to count.  Now don&#039;t anyone get flustered because I mentioned gay marriage and crime in the same paragraph.  If you ask an individual if gay marriage will harm them directly they will probably say no, because they can&#039;t think of any way that it would.  But will gay marriage have an effect on society as a whole?  Of course it will.  Will that effect produce any negative consequences for society as a whole.  I believe it will and I believe it has already been demonstrated to do just that (again see my post below).  That fundamental change in society will affect all of us directly whether we realize exactly how or not.  

Arguing that Prop 8 does not produce any consequences for school curriculum, Church tax exempt status, etc. is one of the sneakiest kinds of lies; it is a half-truth.  The strict wording of Prop 8 does not include or strike any text from the education code. That is technically correct. However, educators in Massachusetts have already used the judicial fiat that legalize gay marriage there to teach gay and lesbian relationships to Kindergartners with no parental notification or ability to opt out. If it has already happened there why should anyone believe that it will not have a similar effect in California? It seems like a virtual guarantee to me.  So the Prop 8 ads are not lies.  They are stating what the effects of failing to pass Prop 8 are certain to be.  The falsehood is on the side of No on 8 here.  

You lists of groups against Prop 8 mean less than nothing to me.  You lament poor decisions by uninformed voters following mass produced voting guides on the one hand, while on the other you encourage everyone to vote against Prop 8 because the teachers unions say so.  I say study the issue and vote your conscience and let the ACLU and the Anti-Defamation League go their own way.  The Mormon church has taken a stand on Prop 8 and they have every right to, but did you also know that they even though the church has taken a position on Prop 8 the members of the church are not told how to vote on it.  They are asked &quot;to study the issues and candidates carefully and prayerfully, and then to vote for and actively support those you believe will most nearly carry out your ideas of good government.&quot;  I looked it up (http://tinyurl.com/4bgehj).  Gay marriage is a moral issue and law and morality have a good deal going together (again see my post below).  

&quot;This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.&quot;  First of all, that &quot;wall&quot; is in a letter of Jefferson&#039;s, not the Constitution.  Second, I believe the intent was to prevent government from interfering with religion and not to prevent religion from having any influence in the laws of the land.  The founding fathers understood the importance of morality in a well ordered society and encouraged church influence. . .  

&quot;That wise Men have in all Ages thought Government necessary for the Good of Mankind; and, that wise Governments have always thought Religion necessary for the well ordering and well-being of Society, and accordingly have been ever careful to encourage and protect the Ministers of it, paying them the highest publick Honours, that their Doctrines might thereby meet with the greater Respect among the common People.&quot; - Ben Franklin.  

In other words, religion makes good people, good people make good societies, and good societies make good government.  

?&quot;Many other religious people don’t deserve my tolerance&quot; - That is the funny thing about tolerance; it depends to a great extent on what you consider virtue or vice.  No one should tolerate evil or injustice in the world, but what people consider evil or unjust will vary depending on where their own moral compass points.  

&quot;Once religious people tell me what I can or can’t do. . . &quot; - The key word here is &quot;people&quot;.  They may be religious, but they are people, and they have as much right to have their say in government and society and the morality that steers it as you do.  If you can be for gay marriage because that is your idea of a well ordered society, they can be against it for the same reason.  They aren&#039;t having any greater effect on how you live your life than you will be having on them.  

&quot;Many Christian religious denominations, Reform and some Conservative Jewish communities, Buddhists, Unitarian Universalists, and other religions want to marry same sex partners. Other religions do not.&quot;  - They don&#039;t call it the Culture Wars for nothing!  The fact that there are an increasing number of religious groups that have abandoned traditional marriage shows the direction public morality has been taking of late.  Ultimately, people will decide or perhaps just go along with a certain definition of what is moral and that will determine the legal outcome.  Like I said in my post below. . . If there is a God and he bothered to outline his system of morality in the Bible (or anywhere else since most of the world’s major religions teach similar values), then embracing homosexuality as a cultural norm is likely going to provoke Sodom and Gomorra Part II. If there is no God (or he doesn’t take a very active role in human affairs) but nature has things figured out pretty well, then homosexuality isn’t the best plan either. If it is genetic, it should be a very difficult trait to naturally pass on to offspring. But if neither of the above is true, then it doesn’t matter what anyone does because we’ll all most likely be dead tomorrow anyway.

&quot;The government should not and I believe cannot force them to do so if it is against their doctrine.&quot; - Unfortunately, certain other people don&#039;t see it that way and will attempt to restrict freedom of thought, speech, and exercise of conscience and religion in the name of  homosexual &quot;rights&quot;.  The video highlighted a few lawsuits where that has already occurred.  The courts are being used to intimidate people and force them to violate their consciences.  Very wrong indeed.  
 
&quot;It hurts loving, devoted couples. IT HARMS CHILDREN&quot; – Won&#039;t someone please think of the children?!  Sorry I had to (chuckle).  I&#039;ll say what I said before.  I think natural families are  the ideal system and they have worked for a long time. Men and women each have important roles in producing and raising children which seem to strike a natural balance. Keeping men and women together in a stable, exclusive relationship (i.e. marriage) each concerned and contributing to their children’s development seems to be in the best interests of society. I think society’s laws should reflect and encourage that.  

&quot;Let loving and devoted couples – good parents to thousands of children in California – be happy, have access to the same legal protections and dignities as other loving, devoted couples and parents.&quot; - California has very liberal civil union laws.  Exactly what legal protections are gay couples missing out on?  

Just for fun.  If marriage is a right, why did I have to apply to the government to get permission to exercise that right?  The DMV handbook (shudder) says driving is a privilege not a right.  Drivers are licensed.  Marriages are licensed (that&#039;s what this whole thing is about).  Wouldn&#039;t that mean marriage is also privilege?  Don&#039;t ascribe that particular bit of logic to me.  That is your government at work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To boredalum:</p>
<p>Mob rule is a bad thing.  </p>
<p>Judicial activism is defined in several ways.  What seems most activist to me is when court rulings make law rather than interpret it.  </p>
<p>It is funny that people are spending so much time talking about the &#8220;right&#8221; of homosexuals to marry.  What does the United States legal system consider to be the source of these rights?  &#8220;We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are ENDOWED BY THEIR CREATOR with certain unalienable Rights. . .&#8221;  Oh dear, not only is one of the founding documents of the nation (Declaration of independence) talking about God, it says that he is the source of our rights.  So the question must be, does God grant homosexuals the right to marry.  If you go with the country&#8217;s Judeo-Christian founding principles, that would have to be a &#8220;No.&#8221;  In case you haven&#8217;t heard much from God recently, check out my post below for more information on the basis of laws, governments, and societies.  </p>
<p>There are many things I could say about the nature of the California Constitution and amendments to it.  I&#8217;m not sure &#8220;sacred&#8221; is the best word to describe it.  In any case, four judges had a much easier time changing the law than getting another majority of California voters to approve another law limiting marriage to a man and a woman.  </p>
<p>People making the case for gay marriage often state categorically that it causes no harm and does not &#8220;directly&#8221; affect anyone.  During jury selection a lawyer asked my father what he thought about &#8220;victimless&#8221; crimes.  His answer was that there are no victimless crimes, just crimes where the victims are too numerous to count.  Now don&#8217;t anyone get flustered because I mentioned gay marriage and crime in the same paragraph.  If you ask an individual if gay marriage will harm them directly they will probably say no, because they can&#8217;t think of any way that it would.  But will gay marriage have an effect on society as a whole?  Of course it will.  Will that effect produce any negative consequences for society as a whole.  I believe it will and I believe it has already been demonstrated to do just that (again see my post below).  That fundamental change in society will affect all of us directly whether we realize exactly how or not.  </p>
<p>Arguing that Prop 8 does not produce any consequences for school curriculum, Church tax exempt status, etc. is one of the sneakiest kinds of lies; it is a half-truth.  The strict wording of Prop 8 does not include or strike any text from the education code. That is technically correct. However, educators in Massachusetts have already used the judicial fiat that legalize gay marriage there to teach gay and lesbian relationships to Kindergartners with no parental notification or ability to opt out. If it has already happened there why should anyone believe that it will not have a similar effect in California? It seems like a virtual guarantee to me.  So the Prop 8 ads are not lies.  They are stating what the effects of failing to pass Prop 8 are certain to be.  The falsehood is on the side of No on 8 here.  </p>
<p>You lists of groups against Prop 8 mean less than nothing to me.  You lament poor decisions by uninformed voters following mass produced voting guides on the one hand, while on the other you encourage everyone to vote against Prop 8 because the teachers unions say so.  I say study the issue and vote your conscience and let the ACLU and the Anti-Defamation League go their own way.  The Mormon church has taken a stand on Prop 8 and they have every right to, but did you also know that they even though the church has taken a position on Prop 8 the members of the church are not told how to vote on it.  They are asked &#8220;to study the issues and candidates carefully and prayerfully, and then to vote for and actively support those you believe will most nearly carry out your ideas of good government.&#8221;  I looked it up (<a href="http://tinyurl.com/4bgehj" rel="nofollow">http://tinyurl.com/4bgehj</a>).  Gay marriage is a moral issue and law and morality have a good deal going together (again see my post below).  </p>
<p>&#8220;This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.&#8221;  First of all, that &#8220;wall&#8221; is in a letter of Jefferson&#8217;s, not the Constitution.  Second, I believe the intent was to prevent government from interfering with religion and not to prevent religion from having any influence in the laws of the land.  The founding fathers understood the importance of morality in a well ordered society and encouraged church influence. . .  </p>
<p>&#8220;That wise Men have in all Ages thought Government necessary for the Good of Mankind; and, that wise Governments have always thought Religion necessary for the well ordering and well-being of Society, and accordingly have been ever careful to encourage and protect the Ministers of it, paying them the highest publick Honours, that their Doctrines might thereby meet with the greater Respect among the common People.&#8221; &#8211; Ben Franklin.  </p>
<p>In other words, religion makes good people, good people make good societies, and good societies make good government.  </p>
<p>?&#8221;Many other religious people don’t deserve my tolerance&#8221; &#8211; That is the funny thing about tolerance; it depends to a great extent on what you consider virtue or vice.  No one should tolerate evil or injustice in the world, but what people consider evil or unjust will vary depending on where their own moral compass points.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Once religious people tell me what I can or can’t do. . . &#8221; &#8211; The key word here is &#8220;people&#8221;.  They may be religious, but they are people, and they have as much right to have their say in government and society and the morality that steers it as you do.  If you can be for gay marriage because that is your idea of a well ordered society, they can be against it for the same reason.  They aren&#8217;t having any greater effect on how you live your life than you will be having on them.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Many Christian religious denominations, Reform and some Conservative Jewish communities, Buddhists, Unitarian Universalists, and other religions want to marry same sex partners. Other religions do not.&#8221;  &#8211; They don&#8217;t call it the Culture Wars for nothing!  The fact that there are an increasing number of religious groups that have abandoned traditional marriage shows the direction public morality has been taking of late.  Ultimately, people will decide or perhaps just go along with a certain definition of what is moral and that will determine the legal outcome.  Like I said in my post below. . . If there is a God and he bothered to outline his system of morality in the Bible (or anywhere else since most of the world’s major religions teach similar values), then embracing homosexuality as a cultural norm is likely going to provoke Sodom and Gomorra Part II. If there is no God (or he doesn’t take a very active role in human affairs) but nature has things figured out pretty well, then homosexuality isn’t the best plan either. If it is genetic, it should be a very difficult trait to naturally pass on to offspring. But if neither of the above is true, then it doesn’t matter what anyone does because we’ll all most likely be dead tomorrow anyway.</p>
<p>&#8220;The government should not and I believe cannot force them to do so if it is against their doctrine.&#8221; &#8211; Unfortunately, certain other people don&#8217;t see it that way and will attempt to restrict freedom of thought, speech, and exercise of conscience and religion in the name of  homosexual &#8220;rights&#8221;.  The video highlighted a few lawsuits where that has already occurred.  The courts are being used to intimidate people and force them to violate their consciences.  Very wrong indeed.  </p>
<p>&#8220;It hurts loving, devoted couples. IT HARMS CHILDREN&#8221; – Won&#8217;t someone please think of the children?!  Sorry I had to (chuckle).  I&#8217;ll say what I said before.  I think natural families are  the ideal system and they have worked for a long time. Men and women each have important roles in producing and raising children which seem to strike a natural balance. Keeping men and women together in a stable, exclusive relationship (i.e. marriage) each concerned and contributing to their children’s development seems to be in the best interests of society. I think society’s laws should reflect and encourage that.  </p>
<p>&#8220;Let loving and devoted couples – good parents to thousands of children in California – be happy, have access to the same legal protections and dignities as other loving, devoted couples and parents.&#8221; &#8211; California has very liberal civil union laws.  Exactly what legal protections are gay couples missing out on?  </p>
<p>Just for fun.  If marriage is a right, why did I have to apply to the government to get permission to exercise that right?  The DMV handbook (shudder) says driving is a privilege not a right.  Drivers are licensed.  Marriages are licensed (that&#8217;s what this whole thing is about).  Wouldn&#8217;t that mean marriage is also privilege?  Don&#8217;t ascribe that particular bit of logic to me.  That is your government at work.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 01:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the best video I&#039;ve seen Re: prop 8. Great job handling a very tough issue by making it both informative and funny, and appropriate for little viewers too! I&#039;m passing it on to everyone I know!</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Oct 2008 01:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Jennifer McKenzie : Its Ok, i tend to eat words.</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 23:06:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And I apologize for my awful spelling!
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 23:04:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m afraid the argument that the majority acquired through an election isn&#039;t valid because on 15% voted doesn&#039;t sway me in the least.  
It irritates me that those who are quick to demand their rights rarely come out to vote for them.  It also irritates me that the side that often uses the &quot;fear tactics&quot; (Like guns being in the hands of criminals and drive by shootings) to get THEIR laws passed are accusing the other side of using it now.  &quot;Fear mongering&quot; I believe is the term.
The fact is that the reason I will vote for this, if I do, is because I do not want litigation to be our new way of forcing change.  
Consider this.  I am a social liberal who has no religious fervor demanding action, yet I am so frustrated with the way some political groups have been able to brow beat the system, I may vote against my conscious.  
I live a very big glass house when it comes to morals and when I think about &quot;civil disobedience&quot;, I think about Rosa Parks.
But when the civil rights of one affect my culture, who am I going to support?   If you are an opponent of Proposition 8, chances are you have voted for environmental legislation and gun legislation that has affected jobs in my area and my gun ownership rights.  
So, what am I supposed to do?  Allow the rights of the few to dominate the rights of many?  Didn&#039;t we have a revolution about that?  Do I allow a change in the California Constitution that excludes a minority and may create even more problems in the future?
As one who is unwilling to judge those who wish to marry nor support those who ignore the will of the people, where should my mark go?
And frankly, if only 15% vote, it&#039;s because we&#039;ve shown again and again that our vote doesn&#039;t mean anything.
Which the homosexual community has just reinforced.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m afraid the argument that the majority acquired through an election isn&#8217;t valid because on 15% voted doesn&#8217;t sway me in the least.<br />
It irritates me that those who are quick to demand their rights rarely come out to vote for them.  It also irritates me that the side that often uses the &#8220;fear tactics&#8221; (Like guns being in the hands of criminals and drive by shootings) to get THEIR laws passed are accusing the other side of using it now.  &#8220;Fear mongering&#8221; I believe is the term.<br />
The fact is that the reason I will vote for this, if I do, is because I do not want litigation to be our new way of forcing change.<br />
Consider this.  I am a social liberal who has no religious fervor demanding action, yet I am so frustrated with the way some political groups have been able to brow beat the system, I may vote against my conscious.<br />
I live a very big glass house when it comes to morals and when I think about &#8220;civil disobedience&#8221;, I think about Rosa Parks.<br />
But when the civil rights of one affect my culture, who am I going to support?   If you are an opponent of Proposition 8, chances are you have voted for environmental legislation and gun legislation that has affected jobs in my area and my gun ownership rights.<br />
So, what am I supposed to do?  Allow the rights of the few to dominate the rights of many?  Didn&#8217;t we have a revolution about that?  Do I allow a change in the California Constitution that excludes a minority and may create even more problems in the future?<br />
As one who is unwilling to judge those who wish to marry nor support those who ignore the will of the people, where should my mark go?<br />
And frankly, if only 15% vote, it&#8217;s because we&#8217;ve shown again and again that our vote doesn&#8217;t mean anything.<br />
Which the homosexual community has just reinforced.</p>
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		<description>Ok this how i understand it . the minority has overruled the majority by circumventing the voteing system.

Now the minority is imposing their views on the majority.And calling the majority intolerant for not wanting to change their views.

Is that about gist of it????</description>
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<p>Now the minority is imposing their views on the majority.And calling the majority intolerant for not wanting to change their views.</p>
<p>Is that about gist of it????</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 17:43:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>GoddessMother

The link you posted was from a Focus on the Family publication. They&#039;re not overly fond of gays and lesbians amd support therapy in an effort to try to cure homosexuality. The APA thinks such practices do more harm than good, so I&#039;m a tad skeptical of articles that come from them. Just my opinion though. (shrugs)</description>
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<p>The link you posted was from a Focus on the Family publication. They&#8217;re not overly fond of gays and lesbians amd support therapy in an effort to try to cure homosexuality. The APA thinks such practices do more harm than good, so I&#8217;m a tad skeptical of articles that come from them. Just my opinion though. (shrugs)</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 16:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>http://www.citizenlink.org/content/A000008475.cfm
Another reason Gay marriage is not a good idea, especially when children are involved.</description>
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Another reason Gay marriage is not a good idea, especially when children are involved.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 13:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ain&#039;t it though effamy? Nothing like a good spirited debate that doesn&#039;t degreade into name calling and shouting matches.</description>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 10:17:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Curtis:

To avoid missing the forest for the trees - my reference to the mob is really not all that controversial.  It&#039;s a common way of expressing the idea that sometimes purely majoritarian societies allow the will of the majority to suppress the rights, participation, or freedoms of minorities.  This is frequently referred to by scholars, historians, political theorists, etc. as tyranny of the majority or mob rule.  As historical and contemporary reference points: African slavery in the U.S., decimation of Jews in Germany and throughout Europe by the Nazis and their cohorts, mistreatment of women by the Taliban and certain fundamentalist Islamic nations (just to name a very small few instances where the majority mob oppressed the minority). So in a sense, I did mean the mob in a pejorative way, but because it was a distraction, perhaps I could have rephrased in some sugar coated euphemism not to offend anyone’s fragile sensibilities.  

And to be clear – I do not refer to people with whom I disagree as a mob.  I mean the idea more generally to criticize the notion of a purely majoritarian system that lacks controls intended to protect minorities.  That was the genius behind the Founder’s vision of three co-equal branches of government.  What the Founders may not have intended, but very quickly accepted, was the notion that courts can throw out legislation when it is unconstitutional.  In Marbury v. Madison, Justice Marshall famously wrote: “It is emphatically the province and duty of the Judicial Department to say what the law is.”  Since the early 1800s, the concept of judicial review has been a part of our legal system.  Courts are not activist just because they throw out bad legislation – either because it is unconstitutional or because the basis behind it was purely discriminatory, the result of animus, or decided by illegal means.  When courts throw out bad legislation, they are doing their job and upholding their obligation under the constitution.  In fact, Justice Scalia is the most activist of all Supreme Court jurists if you count the amount of federal legislation he has tossed.  Courts exist, in part, to protect minorities from majoritarian rule.  

As to the numbers – yes, when talking about a constitutional amendment, a sacred document that should be worth more than the paper it is written on, it makes a difference how many people cast votes.  This is especially true when we’re talking about taking rights AWAY from some people (a minority) by a slim majority that is neither directly benefited nor harmed by that minority’s enjoyment of those rights.  It is completely incomprehensible that California allows constitutional amendments by simple majorities.  There is a reason the Founders made it so difficult to amend the federal Constitution – requiring super majorities and intensive referenda.  Now prop 22 was only statutory and not a constitutional amendment.  However, at the time 4.5 million voters voted for it, 3.0 million voted against, and somewhere in the neighborhood of 30.0 million people did not express an opinion through suffrage.  We’re talking about access to a fundamental right here.  Taking your logic to its extreme – if only 2 people out of 38 million vote for something and only 1 person votes against, should that mean that those 2 people get to decide for all 38 million simply because they represented a majority of the voters.  I’m suggesting that might not be the best idea, or the best way to run a government.  And while I agree that we will never have 100% public participation in our system, it is troubling that 15% of the electorate can have the power to take away fundamental rights from a minority within the state.  Especially when one considers all the problems in California’s initiative system where many people vote without being informed, don’t read the voter bulletins, don’t understand the far reaching implications of policy choices, are often told how to vote by community groups without conducting their independent and intellectual analysis, and most importantly are misled by partisans in the process: examples with regard to Prop 8 are the filthy lies spread by proponents that have been countered by every legitimate fact checking source.  For instance, neither the victory nor defeat of Prop 8 will have any consequence with regard to what kids are taught at schools nor churches tax exempt status.  Yet, proponents of Prop 8 have been flooding the airwaves with millions of dollars of ads, in addition to print, brochure, and website ads repeating these lies in order to scare prospective undecided voters.  That’s the real shame.  California’s teachers, nurses, every major newspaper, many progressive clergy, and a very long list of other individuals and groups are calling Prop 8 out on these divisive tactics.  But No on 8 also recognizes that it won’t reach everyone to repudiate the lies, and so undoubtedly there will be people voting for 8 as a result of them – should it be ok for minorities to lose rights simply because some people who voted for that loss were intentionally misinformed or confused; does that possibility not strike on some level as unfair and wrong.  

For these very long reasons, I believe it is wrong to amend a constitution by a simple majority to take rights away from people.  That is not why constitutions exist and it is not the philosophy on which our country was founded.

Russ:

Spare me the sir nonsense.  And call me a bigot and other childish insults all you want, but you don’t know me and your personal attacks have no meaning for me.

I referenced Mormons in particular because while Mormons only make up roughly 2 percent of California’s population (or in the neighborhood of 700K individuals), a whopping 40 percent of the money financing yes on 8 has come from them – much, if not most of it, in fact from out of state.  I have no problem with Mormons or their beliefs – they can love or discriminate whomever, whatever, and as much as they want.  It was not too long ago that Mormon doctrine saw African Americans and Native Americans as inferior because of their darker skin and discriminated against these groups with regard to church hiring, leadership positions, and accepting of sacraments.  But you know what – I don’t care.  Let them discriminate within their church.  It’s their prerogative, they are entitled to it, and neither I nor the government can or should be able to say anything about it.

On the other hand, when a religious group tries to do its missionary work by converting secular government and laws to suit its doctrine, then I have a right and an obligation to stand up to that.  This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.  This was a brilliant idea intended to protect the church from the state as well as the state from the church.  Now I agree that our legal history with regard to this separation is ambiguous and arguments can be made all over the map about what that wall between the two means.  However, many scholars believe, and I agree with them, that the wall should be solid, not porous.
And yes, I believe some believers are spiteful – not all, but certainly some.  When I read about individuals barely surviving in this economy donating their entire lifesavings to this issue – to taking away other people’s rights without a direct benefit to them – I have to question why someone would do such a thing.  A secular, state sanctioned, same sex marriage might disgust a fundamentalist religious believer, but it does not affect that person or that person’s relationship(s) at all whatsoever.  So why give that much money.  Why of all the causes in this world that need help would this be the 1 issue someone would choose to take up.  

And in referencing religious fundamentalists, I was not exclusively talking about Mormons.  I have no qualms calling Fred Phelps and his clan any number of negative words.  When you go around making it your religious duty, your entire life’s work, to protest gay and military funerals, etc. because you hate certain people whom you’ve never met – you have problems and I don’t feel the need to respect, dignify, or affirm your inherent worth.  Many other religious people don’t deserve my tolerance – fundamentalist Baptists who would bring back stoning to death certain “mortal sins” if they could (again, not all Baptists, I believe the vast majority of them are loving, peaceful, and well intentioned), Islamic fascists who believe it is honorable to commit homicide by suicide bombings, or who believe it is acceptable to blame women for rape and throw acid at their faces for dishonoring their husbands, radical religions that some would deem cults who commit mass suicides to welcome the end of days, so forth.

I have plenty of respect for people of faith and most religions.  But I do not believe that has to be a blanket policy in order for me to not be a bigot.  And I also believe religion should be a private relationship between communities of people and individuals and their deities.  Once religious people tell me what I can or can’t do or with whom I can or can’t associate, or once religions cross the church/state divide and start to dictate what a secular government should do to be in accord with their doctrines – then yeah, I have a problem with that.  And it’s not because I am a bigot.

My analysis of Loving and Perez was not weak – though it might have been short.  Immutability is a grey area – it actually is NOT required under Equal Protection analysis.  For instance alienage and religious affiliation are not immutable.  Maybe in your reading of the Cal. S. Ct. decision you missed this discussion:
“We disagree, however, with the Court of Appeal’s conclusion that it is appropriate to reject sexual orientation as a suspect classification, in applying the California Constitution’s equal protection clause, on the ground that there is a question as to whether this characteristic is or is not “immutable.” Although we noted in Sail’er Inn, supra, 5 Cal.3d 1, that generally a person’s gender is viewed as an immutable trait (id. at p. 18), ***immutability is not invariably required in order for a characteristic to be considered a suspect classification for equal protection purposes.*** California cases establish that a person’s religion is a suspect classification for equal protection purposes (see, e.g., Owens v. City of Signal Hill (1984) 154 Cal.App.3d 123, 128; Williams v. Kapilow &amp; Son, Inc. (1980) 105 Cal.App.3d 156, 161-162), and one’s religion, of course, is not immutable but is a matter over which an individual has control. (See also Raffaelli v. Committee of Bar Examiners (1972) 7 Cal.3d 288, 292 [alienage treated as a suspect classification notwithstanding circumstance that alien can become a citizen].) (emphasis added by boredalum inside asterisk for emphasis). 

Because a person’s sexual orientation is so integral an aspect of one’s identity, it is not appropriate to require a person to repudiate or change his or her sexual orientation in order to avoid discriminatory treatment. (Accord, Hernandez-Montiel v. I.N.S. (9th Cir. 2000) 225 F.3d 1084, 1093 [“[s]exual orientation and sexual identity . . . are so fundamental to one’s identity that a person should not be required to abandon them”]; Egan v. Canada, supra, 2 S.C.R. 513, 528 [“whether or not sexual orientation is based on biological or physiological factors, which may be a matter of some controversy, it is a deeply personal characteristic that is either unchangeable or changeable only at unacceptable personal costs”].)

As far as political powerlessness – sexual orientation is on par or less well represented than women, non-white races, and people of faith.  There are clearly fewer gays and lesbians on any level of government or in the courts than those 3 groups.  The Cal. S. Ct. was right on in its analysis.  And under Perez – it was absolutely the correct decision under California Equal Protection analysis.  

Finally – the only religious institutions that have a legitimate stake here are those religions that DO recognize same sex unions under their doctrines.  Why do you choose one religious group over another to paint with your broad brush strokes.  Many Christian religious denominations, Reform and some Conservative Jewish communities, Buddhists, Unitarian Universalists, and other religions want to marry same sex partners.  Other religions do not.  The government should not and I believe cannot force them to do so if it is against their doctrine.  Again, I believe in a rigid separation of church and state.  I believe that no matter where or how a couple is married, they must still get a secular state marriage license from the county clerk in order for the relationship to be recognized (notwithstanding common law marriages and the issues that come with those).  A church can no more be sued or required to solemnize a same sex marriage as it would be to hire a rabbi or imam to serve as clergy.  If any aberrations of this principle have occurred, that would be wrong and I would take as strong a position on it as I have on this issue.

And just to be clear – here is what the California S. Ct. also said:
&quot;[A]ffording same-sex couples the opportunity to obtain the designation of marriage will not impinge upon the religious freedom of any religious organization, official, or any other person; no religion will be required to change its religious policies or practices with regard to same-sex couples, and no religious officiant will be required to solemnize a marriage in contravention of his or her religious beliefs.&quot;

Prop 8 only does harm, not good.  It takes away rights from people.  It hurts loving, devoted couples.  IT HARMS CHILDREN – because whether you like it or not, same sex couples raise families and most of them are great parents who provide loving and supportive homes to their children.  But when parents are treated differently under the law, children suffer.  And if you say that same sex couples should not be able to get married or have children because they can’t procreate – then single adults can’t be parents either, senior citizens can’t marry or adopt, neither can heterosexual couples with fertility problems, and heterosexuals who want to marry for various reasons not including having children shouldn’t be allowed to marry either.  And to the millions of children in foster care or waiting to be adopted all across the world and in need of warm, loving homes – well, I guess screw them too, right.  

There is no compelling secular reason to justify excluding same sex couples from civil marriage.  There is not even a legitimate rational reason that passes the laugh test.  The only reasons out there are purely religious or have roots in religious doctrine – and those come from only a certain group of religions, but by no means are all religious denominations monolithic on this front.

Amending a constitution to take rights away from people – adding an amendment to a constitution that serves only the purpose of discriminating and harming people with no benefit to anyone – is wrong, it makes no sense, it sets a horribly dangerous precedent, and it’s bad for California.

Please Vote NO on prop 8.  

Let loving and devoted couples – good parents to thousands of children in California – be happy, have access to the same legal protections and dignities as other loving, devoted couples and parents.

Check out the list of people and groups that oppose prop 8!  These include:
Gov. Schwarzenegger
Senators Obama, Biden, Feinstein, and Boxer
Speaker Pelosi
Mayors of San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco
Every major California newspaper
League of Women Voters
All Six Episcopal Dioceses; Board of Rabbis of Southern California (including Reconstructionist, Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox rabbis); too many religious organizations to list; 
Anti-Defamation League
ACLU
NAACP chapters
MALDEF
Various pan-Asian groups
California Teachers
California Nurses
United Farm Workers
California Pediatricians
California Psychologists
You know what – the list is way too long, see for yourselves: 
http://www.noonprop8.com/about/who-opposes-prop-8

Please Vote No on 8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Curtis:</p>
<p>To avoid missing the forest for the trees &#8211; my reference to the mob is really not all that controversial.  It&#8217;s a common way of expressing the idea that sometimes purely majoritarian societies allow the will of the majority to suppress the rights, participation, or freedoms of minorities.  This is frequently referred to by scholars, historians, political theorists, etc. as tyranny of the majority or mob rule.  As historical and contemporary reference points: African slavery in the U.S., decimation of Jews in Germany and throughout Europe by the Nazis and their cohorts, mistreatment of women by the Taliban and certain fundamentalist Islamic nations (just to name a very small few instances where the majority mob oppressed the minority). So in a sense, I did mean the mob in a pejorative way, but because it was a distraction, perhaps I could have rephrased in some sugar coated euphemism not to offend anyone’s fragile sensibilities.  </p>
<p>And to be clear – I do not refer to people with whom I disagree as a mob.  I mean the idea more generally to criticize the notion of a purely majoritarian system that lacks controls intended to protect minorities.  That was the genius behind the Founder’s vision of three co-equal branches of government.  What the Founders may not have intended, but very quickly accepted, was the notion that courts can throw out legislation when it is unconstitutional.  In Marbury v. Madison, Justice Marshall famously wrote: “It is emphatically the province and duty of the Judicial Department to say what the law is.”  Since the early 1800s, the concept of judicial review has been a part of our legal system.  Courts are not activist just because they throw out bad legislation – either because it is unconstitutional or because the basis behind it was purely discriminatory, the result of animus, or decided by illegal means.  When courts throw out bad legislation, they are doing their job and upholding their obligation under the constitution.  In fact, Justice Scalia is the most activist of all Supreme Court jurists if you count the amount of federal legislation he has tossed.  Courts exist, in part, to protect minorities from majoritarian rule.  </p>
<p>As to the numbers – yes, when talking about a constitutional amendment, a sacred document that should be worth more than the paper it is written on, it makes a difference how many people cast votes.  This is especially true when we’re talking about taking rights AWAY from some people (a minority) by a slim majority that is neither directly benefited nor harmed by that minority’s enjoyment of those rights.  It is completely incomprehensible that California allows constitutional amendments by simple majorities.  There is a reason the Founders made it so difficult to amend the federal Constitution – requiring super majorities and intensive referenda.  Now prop 22 was only statutory and not a constitutional amendment.  However, at the time 4.5 million voters voted for it, 3.0 million voted against, and somewhere in the neighborhood of 30.0 million people did not express an opinion through suffrage.  We’re talking about access to a fundamental right here.  Taking your logic to its extreme – if only 2 people out of 38 million vote for something and only 1 person votes against, should that mean that those 2 people get to decide for all 38 million simply because they represented a majority of the voters.  I’m suggesting that might not be the best idea, or the best way to run a government.  And while I agree that we will never have 100% public participation in our system, it is troubling that 15% of the electorate can have the power to take away fundamental rights from a minority within the state.  Especially when one considers all the problems in California’s initiative system where many people vote without being informed, don’t read the voter bulletins, don’t understand the far reaching implications of policy choices, are often told how to vote by community groups without conducting their independent and intellectual analysis, and most importantly are misled by partisans in the process: examples with regard to Prop 8 are the filthy lies spread by proponents that have been countered by every legitimate fact checking source.  For instance, neither the victory nor defeat of Prop 8 will have any consequence with regard to what kids are taught at schools nor churches tax exempt status.  Yet, proponents of Prop 8 have been flooding the airwaves with millions of dollars of ads, in addition to print, brochure, and website ads repeating these lies in order to scare prospective undecided voters.  That’s the real shame.  California’s teachers, nurses, every major newspaper, many progressive clergy, and a very long list of other individuals and groups are calling Prop 8 out on these divisive tactics.  But No on 8 also recognizes that it won’t reach everyone to repudiate the lies, and so undoubtedly there will be people voting for 8 as a result of them – should it be ok for minorities to lose rights simply because some people who voted for that loss were intentionally misinformed or confused; does that possibility not strike on some level as unfair and wrong.  </p>
<p>For these very long reasons, I believe it is wrong to amend a constitution by a simple majority to take rights away from people.  That is not why constitutions exist and it is not the philosophy on which our country was founded.</p>
<p>Russ:</p>
<p>Spare me the sir nonsense.  And call me a bigot and other childish insults all you want, but you don’t know me and your personal attacks have no meaning for me.</p>
<p>I referenced Mormons in particular because while Mormons only make up roughly 2 percent of California’s population (or in the neighborhood of 700K individuals), a whopping 40 percent of the money financing yes on 8 has come from them – much, if not most of it, in fact from out of state.  I have no problem with Mormons or their beliefs – they can love or discriminate whomever, whatever, and as much as they want.  It was not too long ago that Mormon doctrine saw African Americans and Native Americans as inferior because of their darker skin and discriminated against these groups with regard to church hiring, leadership positions, and accepting of sacraments.  But you know what – I don’t care.  Let them discriminate within their church.  It’s their prerogative, they are entitled to it, and neither I nor the government can or should be able to say anything about it.</p>
<p>On the other hand, when a religious group tries to do its missionary work by converting secular government and laws to suit its doctrine, then I have a right and an obligation to stand up to that.  This nation was founded on concepts of separation of church and state.  This was a brilliant idea intended to protect the church from the state as well as the state from the church.  Now I agree that our legal history with regard to this separation is ambiguous and arguments can be made all over the map about what that wall between the two means.  However, many scholars believe, and I agree with them, that the wall should be solid, not porous.<br />
And yes, I believe some believers are spiteful – not all, but certainly some.  When I read about individuals barely surviving in this economy donating their entire lifesavings to this issue – to taking away other people’s rights without a direct benefit to them – I have to question why someone would do such a thing.  A secular, state sanctioned, same sex marriage might disgust a fundamentalist religious believer, but it does not affect that person or that person’s relationship(s) at all whatsoever.  So why give that much money.  Why of all the causes in this world that need help would this be the 1 issue someone would choose to take up.  </p>
<p>And in referencing religious fundamentalists, I was not exclusively talking about Mormons.  I have no qualms calling Fred Phelps and his clan any number of negative words.  When you go around making it your religious duty, your entire life’s work, to protest gay and military funerals, etc. because you hate certain people whom you’ve never met – you have problems and I don’t feel the need to respect, dignify, or affirm your inherent worth.  Many other religious people don’t deserve my tolerance – fundamentalist Baptists who would bring back stoning to death certain “mortal sins” if they could (again, not all Baptists, I believe the vast majority of them are loving, peaceful, and well intentioned), Islamic fascists who believe it is honorable to commit homicide by suicide bombings, or who believe it is acceptable to blame women for rape and throw acid at their faces for dishonoring their husbands, radical religions that some would deem cults who commit mass suicides to welcome the end of days, so forth.</p>
<p>I have plenty of respect for people of faith and most religions.  But I do not believe that has to be a blanket policy in order for me to not be a bigot.  And I also believe religion should be a private relationship between communities of people and individuals and their deities.  Once religious people tell me what I can or can’t do or with whom I can or can’t associate, or once religions cross the church/state divide and start to dictate what a secular government should do to be in accord with their doctrines – then yeah, I have a problem with that.  And it’s not because I am a bigot.</p>
<p>My analysis of Loving and Perez was not weak – though it might have been short.  Immutability is a grey area – it actually is NOT required under Equal Protection analysis.  For instance alienage and religious affiliation are not immutable.  Maybe in your reading of the Cal. S. Ct. decision you missed this discussion:<br />
“We disagree, however, with the Court of Appeal’s conclusion that it is appropriate to reject sexual orientation as a suspect classification, in applying the California Constitution’s equal protection clause, on the ground that there is a question as to whether this characteristic is or is not “immutable.” Although we noted in Sail’er Inn, supra, 5 Cal.3d 1, that generally a person’s gender is viewed as an immutable trait (id. at p. 18), ***immutability is not invariably required in order for a characteristic to be considered a suspect classification for equal protection purposes.*** California cases establish that a person’s religion is a suspect classification for equal protection purposes (see, e.g., Owens v. City of Signal Hill (1984) 154 Cal.App.3d 123, 128; Williams v. Kapilow &amp; Son, Inc. (1980) 105 Cal.App.3d 156, 161-162), and one’s religion, of course, is not immutable but is a matter over which an individual has control. (See also Raffaelli v. Committee of Bar Examiners (1972) 7 Cal.3d 288, 292 [alienage treated as a suspect classification notwithstanding circumstance that alien can become a citizen].) (emphasis added by boredalum inside asterisk for emphasis). </p>
<p>Because a person’s sexual orientation is so integral an aspect of one’s identity, it is not appropriate to require a person to repudiate or change his or her sexual orientation in order to avoid discriminatory treatment. (Accord, Hernandez-Montiel v. I.N.S. (9th Cir. 2000) 225 F.3d 1084, 1093 [“[s]exual orientation and sexual identity . . . are so fundamental to one’s identity that a person should not be required to abandon them”]; Egan v. Canada, supra, 2 S.C.R. 513, 528 [“whether or not sexual orientation is based on biological or physiological factors, which may be a matter of some controversy, it is a deeply personal characteristic that is either unchangeable or changeable only at unacceptable personal costs”].)</p>
<p>As far as political powerlessness – sexual orientation is on par or less well represented than women, non-white races, and people of faith.  There are clearly fewer gays and lesbians on any level of government or in the courts than those 3 groups.  The Cal. S. Ct. was right on in its analysis.  And under Perez – it was absolutely the correct decision under California Equal Protection analysis.  </p>
<p>Finally – the only religious institutions that have a legitimate stake here are those religions that DO recognize same sex unions under their doctrines.  Why do you choose one religious group over another to paint with your broad brush strokes.  Many Christian religious denominations, Reform and some Conservative Jewish communities, Buddhists, Unitarian Universalists, and other religions want to marry same sex partners.  Other religions do not.  The government should not and I believe cannot force them to do so if it is against their doctrine.  Again, I believe in a rigid separation of church and state.  I believe that no matter where or how a couple is married, they must still get a secular state marriage license from the county clerk in order for the relationship to be recognized (notwithstanding common law marriages and the issues that come with those).  A church can no more be sued or required to solemnize a same sex marriage as it would be to hire a rabbi or imam to serve as clergy.  If any aberrations of this principle have occurred, that would be wrong and I would take as strong a position on it as I have on this issue.</p>
<p>And just to be clear – here is what the California S. Ct. also said:<br />
&#8220;[A]ffording same-sex couples the opportunity to obtain the designation of marriage will not impinge upon the religious freedom of any religious organization, official, or any other person; no religion will be required to change its religious policies or practices with regard to same-sex couples, and no religious officiant will be required to solemnize a marriage in contravention of his or her religious beliefs.&#8221;</p>
<p>Prop 8 only does harm, not good.  It takes away rights from people.  It hurts loving, devoted couples.  IT HARMS CHILDREN – because whether you like it or not, same sex couples raise families and most of them are great parents who provide loving and supportive homes to their children.  But when parents are treated differently under the law, children suffer.  And if you say that same sex couples should not be able to get married or have children because they can’t procreate – then single adults can’t be parents either, senior citizens can’t marry or adopt, neither can heterosexual couples with fertility problems, and heterosexuals who want to marry for various reasons not including having children shouldn’t be allowed to marry either.  And to the millions of children in foster care or waiting to be adopted all across the world and in need of warm, loving homes – well, I guess screw them too, right.  </p>
<p>There is no compelling secular reason to justify excluding same sex couples from civil marriage.  There is not even a legitimate rational reason that passes the laugh test.  The only reasons out there are purely religious or have roots in religious doctrine – and those come from only a certain group of religions, but by no means are all religious denominations monolithic on this front.</p>
<p>Amending a constitution to take rights away from people – adding an amendment to a constitution that serves only the purpose of discriminating and harming people with no benefit to anyone – is wrong, it makes no sense, it sets a horribly dangerous precedent, and it’s bad for California.</p>
<p>Please Vote NO on prop 8.  </p>
<p>Let loving and devoted couples – good parents to thousands of children in California – be happy, have access to the same legal protections and dignities as other loving, devoted couples and parents.</p>
<p>Check out the list of people and groups that oppose prop 8!  These include:<br />
Gov. Schwarzenegger<br />
Senators Obama, Biden, Feinstein, and Boxer<br />
Speaker Pelosi<br />
Mayors of San Diego, Los Angeles, San Francisco<br />
Every major California newspaper<br />
League of Women Voters<br />
All Six Episcopal Dioceses; Board of Rabbis of Southern California (including Reconstructionist, Reform, Conservative, and Orthodox rabbis); too many religious organizations to list;<br />
Anti-Defamation League<br />
ACLU<br />
NAACP chapters<br />
MALDEF<br />
Various pan-Asian groups<br />
California Teachers<br />
California Nurses<br />
United Farm Workers<br />
California Pediatricians<br />
California Psychologists<br />
You know what – the list is way too long, see for yourselves:<br />
<a href="http://www.noonprop8.com/about/who-opposes-prop-8" rel="nofollow">http://www.noonprop8.com/about/who-opposes-prop-8</a></p>
<p>Please Vote No on 8</p>
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		<description>And to life and family! And to the parents of children who were either procreated or adopted. The children of parents who are either traditional or alternative gay, straight, or bi. Single or coupled. As long as your children know that they are loved, safe, and cherished. I salute.</description>
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		<description>Russ
Typically I use the term civil rights when reffering to the Civil Rights Movement that we&#039;re all pretty familair with back in the 60&#039;s. I use the term Gay Rights when talking about this stuff, mostly because I just want to distingusih what I am talking about. I do understand what you mean about other civil rights leaders who have mentioned what you said. There was one I am very familiar with named Charlie Windburn of Cincinnati, he marched several times with Dr King himself and always differentiated between civil rights and gay rights.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Russ<br />
Typically I use the term civil rights when reffering to the Civil Rights Movement that we&#8217;re all pretty familair with back in the 60&#8242;s. I use the term Gay Rights when talking about this stuff, mostly because I just want to distingusih what I am talking about. I do understand what you mean about other civil rights leaders who have mentioned what you said. There was one I am very familiar with named Charlie Windburn of Cincinnati, he marched several times with Dr King himself and always differentiated between civil rights and gay rights.</p>
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		<title>By: Niron04</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niron04</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Potential

Thanks for questioning my intelligence of the English language. Thanks for the clarification of my message. Yes, I do agree with you on the last part response.  It&#039;s a moral imperative to protect and bolster our children  with love, respect, and acceptance. Our children should grow knowing it is okay to be who they are. They should grow up in a world living honestly, proud, and happy with values in hard work, contribution to community, and respect. They should know the world the around and not limited to a old outdated system that fears change. But of course that would mean a change in culture and we as Americans fear change. Ask your average Joe Plumber what country begins with the letter U. and you&#039;ll be in for a surprise.  Our culture is becoming stale with sense that we are the center of the universe with no knowledge any alternatives. But oh well. Maybe the next world? yeah the spirit world. God Bless this country.</description>
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<p>Thanks for questioning my intelligence of the English language. Thanks for the clarification of my message. Yes, I do agree with you on the last part response.  It&#8217;s a moral imperative to protect and bolster our children  with love, respect, and acceptance. Our children should grow knowing it is okay to be who they are. They should grow up in a world living honestly, proud, and happy with values in hard work, contribution to community, and respect. They should know the world the around and not limited to a old outdated system that fears change. But of course that would mean a change in culture and we as Americans fear change. Ask your average Joe Plumber what country begins with the letter U. and you&#8217;ll be in for a surprise.  Our culture is becoming stale with sense that we are the center of the universe with no knowledge any alternatives. But oh well. Maybe the next world? yeah the spirit world. God Bless this country.</p>
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		<title>By: Curtis</title>
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		<dc:creator>Curtis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:38:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Boredalum
It was a shame you stated, &quot;4.5 million people voted for Prop 22 in 2000. But this state has something like 38,000,000 people - so 4.5 million can hardly be said to represent the entire will of the state.&quot;  Are you suggesting the voting public can&#039;t choose laws or vote in candidates for office unless 100% of the public actually votes? Who will you recognize as President in January if Obama gets 26% of the voting-age public, McCain gets 24%, and 50% don&#039;t vote?  Referring to the side of the issue you don&#039;t agree with as &quot;the mob&quot; doesn&#039;t help your argument.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boredalum<br />
It was a shame you stated, &#8220;4.5 million people voted for Prop 22 in 2000. But this state has something like 38,000,000 people &#8211; so 4.5 million can hardly be said to represent the entire will of the state.&#8221;  Are you suggesting the voting public can&#8217;t choose laws or vote in candidates for office unless 100% of the public actually votes? Who will you recognize as President in January if Obama gets 26% of the voting-age public, McCain gets 24%, and 50% don&#8217;t vote?  Referring to the side of the issue you don&#8217;t agree with as &#8220;the mob&#8221; doesn&#8217;t help your argument.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JohnnyWhat:
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Re: Women&#039;s Suffrage.  Yes, I was aware of its original failure for a super majority in the Senate (it lost by just 3 votes the first time around -- that means that it did garner far better than 50%, just not the two-thirds majority needed).  The campaign to unseat those Senators who dared to vote against it, to me at least, is the more important aspect of the history.  It clearly demonstrates the popular support among the general public for the Amendment (many of the anti-suffrage Senators were given the boot in 1918).
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Re: Mrs. King and Gay Rights.  I was aware of her fight against bigotry and homophobia (coming from San Francisco, those are causes I agree with).  However, I was unaware of her ever equating modern &quot;Gay Rights,&quot; such as court imposed marriage, with &quot;Civil Rights.&quot;  (Remember, what passes for gay rights today is a far cry from what was encompassed in the term just a decade ago.)  I had never read her statement at Richard Stockton College until you posted it; if accurate, then I accordingly rescind my comment with regards to her.  As to the rest, regarding the majority of those Civil Rights leaders who sacrificed a great deal in their struggle, I affirm my comment:  They have requested that the term of Civil Rights not be usurped or applied in the context of gay rights; that is a request we should honor.
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Just as a personal note:  The &quot;?&quot; should not have been a question mark.  I typed in a &quot;does not equal&quot; sign, which evidently does not post on the blog.  I just wanted to point that out as the closing comment makes far less sense otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JohnnyWhat:<br />
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Re: Women&#8217;s Suffrage.  Yes, I was aware of its original failure for a super majority in the Senate (it lost by just 3 votes the first time around &#8212; that means that it did garner far better than 50%, just not the two-thirds majority needed).  The campaign to unseat those Senators who dared to vote against it, to me at least, is the more important aspect of the history.  It clearly demonstrates the popular support among the general public for the Amendment (many of the anti-suffrage Senators were given the boot in 1918).<br />
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Re: Mrs. King and Gay Rights.  I was aware of her fight against bigotry and homophobia (coming from San Francisco, those are causes I agree with).  However, I was unaware of her ever equating modern &#8220;Gay Rights,&#8221; such as court imposed marriage, with &#8220;Civil Rights.&#8221;  (Remember, what passes for gay rights today is a far cry from what was encompassed in the term just a decade ago.)  I had never read her statement at Richard Stockton College until you posted it; if accurate, then I accordingly rescind my comment with regards to her.  As to the rest, regarding the majority of those Civil Rights leaders who sacrificed a great deal in their struggle, I affirm my comment:  They have requested that the term of Civil Rights not be usurped or applied in the context of gay rights; that is a request we should honor.<br />
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Just as a personal note:  The &#8220;?&#8221; should not have been a question mark.  I typed in a &#8220;does not equal&#8221; sign, which evidently does not post on the blog.  I just wanted to point that out as the closing comment makes far less sense otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnnyWhat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 02:07:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weggles
Yeah I heard about some serious flame fanning on secondpersonpronountube. At first I was told I should check it out then a quick maybe not. I decided not to cause I&#039;d hate to see people bad mouth this show when they probably don&#039;t know much about it. Uninformed opinions are the worst. Informed opinions that I disagree with are totally ok. Oh and Russ, 
Did you know that the first time the 19th amendment went to the Senate it was delayed then failed. That threw the women&#039;s sufferage into some serious action and urged voters to toss out the anti-sufferage senators up for election in 1918. After that most of Congress was pro-sufferage. I thought that was pretty cool.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weggles<br />
Yeah I heard about some serious flame fanning on secondpersonpronountube. At first I was told I should check it out then a quick maybe not. I decided not to cause I&#8217;d hate to see people bad mouth this show when they probably don&#8217;t know much about it. Uninformed opinions are the worst. Informed opinions that I disagree with are totally ok. Oh and Russ,<br />
Did you know that the first time the 19th amendment went to the Senate it was delayed then failed. That threw the women&#8217;s sufferage into some serious action and urged voters to toss out the anti-sufferage senators up for election in 1918. After that most of Congress was pro-sufferage. I thought that was pretty cool.</p>
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		<title>By: WEGGLES</title>
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		<dc:creator>WEGGLES</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 01:50:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JohnnyWhat-

More or less a &quot;Ruckus&quot; as in causing people to voice their opinions on, since it&#039;s such a polarizing issue. 

It seems odd they&#039;d go from ICE, PMS for me, Glowing fish to... Gay Marriage. 

I am quite impressed at how well behaved the internet can be, though. :) (Too bad the youtube comments for the same video can&#039;t be as civil :[   )</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JohnnyWhat-</p>
<p>More or less a &#8220;Ruckus&#8221; as in causing people to voice their opinions on, since it&#8217;s such a polarizing issue. </p>
<p>It seems odd they&#8217;d go from ICE, PMS for me, Glowing fish to&#8230; Gay Marriage. </p>
<p>I am quite impressed at how well behaved the internet can be, though. :) (Too bad the youtube comments for the same video can&#8217;t be as civil :[   )</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnnyWhat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 01:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Russ
 I hate to contradictory but Ms. King was an avid supporter of gay rights examples are below:

On April 1, 1998 at The Palmer House Hilton in Chicago, King called on the civil rights community to join in the struggle against homophobia and anti-gay bias. &quot;Homophobia is like racism and anti-Semitism and other forms of bigotry in that it seeks to dehumanize a large group of people, to deny their humanity, their dignity and personhood&quot;, King stated. &quot;This sets the stage for further repression and violence that spread all too easily to victimize the next minority group.&quot;

She has even linked the Civil rights movement herself to the GLBT rights movement:

In a speech in November 2003 at the opening session of the 13th annual Creating Change Conference, organized by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, King made her now famous appeal linking the Civil Rights Movement to the LGBT agenda: &quot;I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people. ... But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King Jr. said, &#039;Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.&#039; I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream, to make room at the table of brotherhood and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people.&quot;

And lastly her thoughts on same sex marriage/civil unions:

On March 23, 2004, she told an audience at Richard Stockton University in Pomona, N.J, that same-sex marriage is a civil rights issue. King denounced a proposed amendment advanced by President George W. Bush to the United States Constitution that would ban equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. In her speech King also criticized a group of black pastors in her home state of Georgia for backing a bill to amend that state&#039;s constitution to block gay and lesbian couples from marrying. King is quoted as saying &quot;Gay and lesbian people have families, and their families should have legal protection, whether by marriage or civil union. A constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages is a form of gay bashing and it would do nothing at all to protect traditional marriage.&quot;

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Russ<br />
 I hate to contradictory but Ms. King was an avid supporter of gay rights examples are below:</p>
<p>On April 1, 1998 at The Palmer House Hilton in Chicago, King called on the civil rights community to join in the struggle against homophobia and anti-gay bias. &#8220;Homophobia is like racism and anti-Semitism and other forms of bigotry in that it seeks to dehumanize a large group of people, to deny their humanity, their dignity and personhood&#8221;, King stated. &#8220;This sets the stage for further repression and violence that spread all too easily to victimize the next minority group.&#8221;</p>
<p>She has even linked the Civil rights movement herself to the GLBT rights movement:</p>
<p>In a speech in November 2003 at the opening session of the 13th annual Creating Change Conference, organized by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, King made her now famous appeal linking the Civil Rights Movement to the LGBT agenda: &#8220;I still hear people say that I should not be talking about the rights of lesbian and gay people. &#8230; But I hasten to remind them that Martin Luther King Jr. said, &#8216;Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.&#8217; I appeal to everyone who believes in Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream, to make room at the table of brotherhood and sisterhood for lesbian and gay people.&#8221;</p>
<p>And lastly her thoughts on same sex marriage/civil unions:</p>
<p>On March 23, 2004, she told an audience at Richard Stockton University in Pomona, N.J, that same-sex marriage is a civil rights issue. King denounced a proposed amendment advanced by President George W. Bush to the United States Constitution that would ban equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. In her speech King also criticized a group of black pastors in her home state of Georgia for backing a bill to amend that state&#8217;s constitution to block gay and lesbian couples from marrying. King is quoted as saying &#8220;Gay and lesbian people have families, and their families should have legal protection, whether by marriage or civil union. A constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriages is a form of gay bashing and it would do nothing at all to protect traditional marriage.&#8221;</p>
<p>Sorry for the long post I just wanted to post what she had actually said.</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 01:32:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Weggles
It actually hasn&#039;t caused much of a ruckus. For the most part people have stated their opinion in very respectful terms. Sometimes in snide, sarcastic, or hyperbolic terms but those were usually just funny. It&#039;s obviously an issue people are passionate about and that&#039;s a beautiful thing. After all action is caused when emotions run high.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Weggles<br />
It actually hasn&#8217;t caused much of a ruckus. For the most part people have stated their opinion in very respectful terms. Sometimes in snide, sarcastic, or hyperbolic terms but those were usually just funny. It&#8217;s obviously an issue people are passionate about and that&#8217;s a beautiful thing. After all action is caused when emotions run high.</p>
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		<title>By: keelhaulbill</title>
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		<dc:creator>keelhaulbill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 01:31:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All hail Russ! I haven&#039;t witnessed a spanking like that in a long time. You&#039;re amazing.</description>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 01:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebutting &quot;jeffinputnam&quot;:  Your history needs some serious brushing up.
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1) Women&#039;s Suffrage DID pass nationally.  (See the Nineteenth Amendment.)  It passed, as is necessary to make an Amendment to the Constitution, by super majorities in both the House of Representatives and the Senate.  It then went to the states where EACH AND EVERY STATE ratified it (granted, Mississippi took until the 1980s to finally take care of that, but I hardly think we can pretend the majority of the US population lived in Mississippi at the time).  The 36 states needed, at the time (only 48 states then), to ratify the amendment finished the process in just over a year.  That might seem like a while, but compare it to the 18th Amendment (prohibition, also just over a year), or the 21st Amendment (repealing prohibition, just under a year), and you recognize that around one year was common.
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2) A majority of the community DID vote to give blacks equal rights -- twice.  (See the Thirteenth, Fourteenth, Fifteenth, and Twenty-fourth Amendments.)  This is a point that cannot be stressed nearly enough:  The will of the majority of the people, expressed in the adoption of FOUR Amendments to the Constitution was and is that Equal Protection under the law should be granted to every citizen of the United States, regardless of race.  There was no issue in our Constitutional Law about racial discrimination; an honest reading of that law SHOULD have clearly demonstrated the opposite to be true.  However, what we found in Plessy v. Ferguson was an activist court that imposed its policy preference, and what it adjudged to be the &quot;prevailing sentiments of the people,&quot; on the law to enforce a system of plainly discriminatory segregation.  (As an aside, I always get a kick out of the fact that Justice Harlan, a former member of the Ku Klux Klan, was the ONLY honest voice on the Court, strongly dissenting from what was obviously a bad ruling.)  This is exactly what we have in California today: An activist court imposing its policy preferences, and what it adjudges to be the &quot;prevailing sentiments of the people,&quot; over the law.  This is plainly the rule of the law being usurped by the rule of judges.
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3) Virginia has the most interesting history in regards to the issue of slavery.  I&#039;m not sure where they would have stood in 1863, but I do know that before the war, public sentiment was generally opposed to slavery in Virginia.  In fact, because of this opposition, most people at the time thought that Virginia would remain loyal to the Union, even with an &quot;Abolitionist President.&quot;  Most were VERY shocked when Virginia didn&#039;t (remember, Lincoln&#039;s first choice for General of the Union Army was none other than Robert E. Lee).  I also know that in 1865 they were the 12th state to ratify the 13th Amendment (abolishing slavery), and that they ratified it within nine days of Illinois (who was the 1st state to ratify the amendment).  I would suspect that their mood remained relatively the same in the interim.
Interestingly, race doesn&#039;t seem to have become a major divisive factor in Virginia until after the Civil War.  Reconstruction lasted a very longtime there, and some have argued that this fueled that animosity.
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4) Gay rights ? Civil rights.  It is entirely fallacious to argue otherwise.  There is absolutely no logical justification, no rational basis, no honest argument to equate the court demanded giving of special privileges to a politically active, well funded, overly represented group with the repudiation of the denial of guaranteed rights to a politically barred, mostly unfunded, under represented group.  Coretta Scott King and others who sacrificed so much to claim their rights of man have requested that the term of Civil Rights not be usurped or applied in the context of gay rights.  I think that&#039;s a request that should be honored.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebutting &#8220;jeffinputnam&#8221;:  Your history needs some serious brushing up.<br />
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1) Women&#8217;s Suffrage DID pass nationally.  (See the Nineteenth Amendment.)  It passed, as is necessary to make an Amendment to the Constitution, by super majorities in both the House of Representatives and the Senate.  It then went to the states where EACH AND EVERY STATE ratified it (granted, Mississippi took until the 1980s to finally take care of that, but I hardly think we can pretend the majority of the US population lived in Mississippi at the time).  The 36 states needed, at the time (only 48 states then), to ratify the amendment finished the process in just over a year.  That might seem like a while, but compare it to the 18th Amendment (prohibition, also just over a year), or the 21st Amendment (repealing prohibition, just under a year), and you recognize that around one year was common.<br />
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2) A majority of the community DID vote to give blacks equal rights &#8212; twice.  (See the Thirteenth, Fourteenth, Fifteenth, and Twenty-fourth Amendments.)  This is a point that cannot be stressed nearly enough:  The will of the majority of the people, expressed in the adoption of FOUR Amendments to the Constitution was and is that Equal Protection under the law should be granted to every citizen of the United States, regardless of race.  There was no issue in our Constitutional Law about racial discrimination; an honest reading of that law SHOULD have clearly demonstrated the opposite to be true.  However, what we found in Plessy v. Ferguson was an activist court that imposed its policy preference, and what it adjudged to be the &#8220;prevailing sentiments of the people,&#8221; on the law to enforce a system of plainly discriminatory segregation.  (As an aside, I always get a kick out of the fact that Justice Harlan, a former member of the Ku Klux Klan, was the ONLY honest voice on the Court, strongly dissenting from what was obviously a bad ruling.)  This is exactly what we have in California today: An activist court imposing its policy preferences, and what it adjudges to be the &#8220;prevailing sentiments of the people,&#8221; over the law.  This is plainly the rule of the law being usurped by the rule of judges.<br />
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3) Virginia has the most interesting history in regards to the issue of slavery.  I&#8217;m not sure where they would have stood in 1863, but I do know that before the war, public sentiment was generally opposed to slavery in Virginia.  In fact, because of this opposition, most people at the time thought that Virginia would remain loyal to the Union, even with an &#8220;Abolitionist President.&#8221;  Most were VERY shocked when Virginia didn&#8217;t (remember, Lincoln&#8217;s first choice for General of the Union Army was none other than Robert E. Lee).  I also know that in 1865 they were the 12th state to ratify the 13th Amendment (abolishing slavery), and that they ratified it within nine days of Illinois (who was the 1st state to ratify the amendment).  I would suspect that their mood remained relatively the same in the interim.<br />
Interestingly, race doesn&#8217;t seem to have become a major divisive factor in Virginia until after the Civil War.  Reconstruction lasted a very longtime there, and some have argued that this fueled that animosity.<br />
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4) Gay rights ? Civil rights.  It is entirely fallacious to argue otherwise.  There is absolutely no logical justification, no rational basis, no honest argument to equate the court demanded giving of special privileges to a politically active, well funded, overly represented group with the repudiation of the denial of guaranteed rights to a politically barred, mostly unfunded, under represented group.  Coretta Scott King and others who sacrificed so much to claim their rights of man have requested that the term of Civil Rights not be usurped or applied in the context of gay rights.  I think that&#8217;s a request that should be honored.</p>
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		<title>By: WEGGLES</title>
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		<dc:creator>WEGGLES</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:45:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To The Brothers Winn:

Successful Troll Successful?
Was the point of this &quot;episode&quot; to just cause a ruckus?</description>
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<p>Successful Troll Successful?<br />
Was the point of this &#8220;episode&#8221; to just cause a ruckus?</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Oct 2008 00:12:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rebutting &quot;boredalum&quot;:  Thank you, sir, for showing your hand.  Within two paragraphs you go from wanting to tolerate everyone&#039;s religious beliefs to accusing those who act on those beliefs, &quot;namely Mormons,&quot; of being &quot;spiteful religious groups.&quot;  You sir, are a bigot, and can be dismissed as such.
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Point 2:  Your Constitutional analysis is terribly weak.  Loving v. Virginia was based (correctly) on the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment, whose history and purpose was entirely based on invidious discrimination of Black people.  At the time, Virginia tried to argue that their statute wasn&#039;t an invidious discrimination, since it was a ban on *white* people intermarrying, but the Court showed conclusively that the intended effect was to prevent mixing of races, which intention was entirely based on an invidious racial discrimination against blacks (hoping to keep the races &quot;pure,&quot; enforcing institutional inferiority, etc.).  Thus, it fell squarely within the Equal Protection Clause.

Now, we have to be clear on this point:  What you are seeking here is NOT Equal Protection.  It&#039;s more of a &quot;substantive&quot; equal protection.  You want the law to reach a particular result, so you are imposing on the law a certain substance, which is most certainly not found within it, in order to achieve your ends.  That is intellectually disingenuous and dishonest.  And it&#039;s the same thing the Court attempts to do.

Moving now to the Constitution of California:  In order to have a violation of Equal Protection under the laws of California, in addition to having some showing of discrimination (not hard to show; all laws discriminate -- even taxes discriminate against the rich, etc.), against a politically powerless group (which, let&#039;s be honest, a politically powerless group in California homosexuals are not), the characteristic upon which the discrimination is based must be &quot;immutable.&quot;  READ the Majority Opinion in In re Marriages, the Court itself determined that homosexuality was NOT an immutable characteristic (such as race and gender) -- which, as an aside, among several other things makes the opinion of In re Marriages utterly arbitrary and unconstitutional -- Without each of those prongs being met, Equal Protection under the California Constitution is not implicated.

The Court in this case is hardly the bastion of the rule of law you would pretend it to be.  Rather, it is imposing its own policy preferences over the law it purports to apply, and the declared will of the majority.
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Lastly, it is a bold-faced lie to pretend that religions and the religious do not have a major stake in this issue.  One might assume that the First Amendment&#039;s Right of Association would trump any California state laws, but see Pruneyard; California laws have trumped before.  Under those laws, if a Church refuses to perform a marriage that the state has sanctioned, they can be sued (and, judging by the common trend, I think they would likely be sued).  Among the remedies available to the courts in cases of these suits is a removal from the Church of its license to perform any wedding, or the removal of its tax exempt status.  Perhaps YOU are simply misinformed, but I am guessing you are again being either utterly dishonest or disingenuous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rebutting &#8220;boredalum&#8221;:  Thank you, sir, for showing your hand.  Within two paragraphs you go from wanting to tolerate everyone&#8217;s religious beliefs to accusing those who act on those beliefs, &#8220;namely Mormons,&#8221; of being &#8220;spiteful religious groups.&#8221;  You sir, are a bigot, and can be dismissed as such.<br />
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Point 2:  Your Constitutional analysis is terribly weak.  Loving v. Virginia was based (correctly) on the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment, whose history and purpose was entirely based on invidious discrimination of Black people.  At the time, Virginia tried to argue that their statute wasn&#8217;t an invidious discrimination, since it was a ban on *white* people intermarrying, but the Court showed conclusively that the intended effect was to prevent mixing of races, which intention was entirely based on an invidious racial discrimination against blacks (hoping to keep the races &#8220;pure,&#8221; enforcing institutional inferiority, etc.).  Thus, it fell squarely within the Equal Protection Clause.</p>
<p>Now, we have to be clear on this point:  What you are seeking here is NOT Equal Protection.  It&#8217;s more of a &#8220;substantive&#8221; equal protection.  You want the law to reach a particular result, so you are imposing on the law a certain substance, which is most certainly not found within it, in order to achieve your ends.  That is intellectually disingenuous and dishonest.  And it&#8217;s the same thing the Court attempts to do.</p>
<p>Moving now to the Constitution of California:  In order to have a violation of Equal Protection under the laws of California, in addition to having some showing of discrimination (not hard to show; all laws discriminate &#8212; even taxes discriminate against the rich, etc.), against a politically powerless group (which, let&#8217;s be honest, a politically powerless group in California homosexuals are not), the characteristic upon which the discrimination is based must be &#8220;immutable.&#8221;  READ the Majority Opinion in In re Marriages, the Court itself determined that homosexuality was NOT an immutable characteristic (such as race and gender) &#8212; which, as an aside, among several other things makes the opinion of In re Marriages utterly arbitrary and unconstitutional &#8212; Without each of those prongs being met, Equal Protection under the California Constitution is not implicated.</p>
<p>The Court in this case is hardly the bastion of the rule of law you would pretend it to be.  Rather, it is imposing its own policy preferences over the law it purports to apply, and the declared will of the majority.<br />
.<br />
Lastly, it is a bold-faced lie to pretend that religions and the religious do not have a major stake in this issue.  One might assume that the First Amendment&#8217;s Right of Association would trump any California state laws, but see Pruneyard; California laws have trumped before.  Under those laws, if a Church refuses to perform a marriage that the state has sanctioned, they can be sued (and, judging by the common trend, I think they would likely be sued).  Among the remedies available to the courts in cases of these suits is a removal from the Church of its license to perform any wedding, or the removal of its tax exempt status.  Perhaps YOU are simply misinformed, but I am guessing you are again being either utterly dishonest or disingenuous.</p>
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		<title>By: idiotonuni</title>
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		<dc:creator>idiotonuni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 23:54:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>you homophobe.

P.S. there sure are a lot of 22&#039;s around here.  *hint* i sure would like to join them *hint*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you homophobe.</p>
<p>P.S. there sure are a lot of 22&#8242;s around here.  *hint* i sure would like to join them *hint*</p>
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		<title>By: JohnnyWhat</title>
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		<dc:creator>JohnnyWhat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 23:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pmmacc
If we&#039;re talking about intimate acts performed by two people, I&#039;d like to state that nothing is done by gay couples in that regard that straight couples can&#039;t/don&#039;t do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>pmmacc<br />
If we&#8217;re talking about intimate acts performed by two people, I&#8217;d like to state that nothing is done by gay couples in that regard that straight couples can&#8217;t/don&#8217;t do.</p>
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		<title>By: pmmacc</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 23:14:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We need to get off the &#039;rights&#039; garbage and look at biology. All the bacteria, virus and other things, needed to breakdown and dissolve meat (read human body) can be found in the human intestines, so when &#039;things&#039; get transfered from &quot;out area&quot; to the human body, those microbes just do what they know how to do - breakdown and destroy tissue. Once the microbes that should be in the intestines get into the body they can be transferred to others through any body fluid (diseases). Love anyone you want, just keep it clean!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We need to get off the &#8216;rights&#8217; garbage and look at biology. All the bacteria, virus and other things, needed to breakdown and dissolve meat (read human body) can be found in the human intestines, so when &#8216;things&#8217; get transfered from &#8220;out area&#8221; to the human body, those microbes just do what they know how to do &#8211; breakdown and destroy tissue. Once the microbes that should be in the intestines get into the body they can be transferred to others through any body fluid (diseases). Love anyone you want, just keep it clean!</p>
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		<title>By: Payallin</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 22:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually sandynj, asking if the ends justify the means is a legitimate argument. All that question is asking is, was the method appropriate for achieving the solution. 

If there is a crime problem, one solution is to put everyone in jail. No people free on the streets means no crimes can be committed. Problem solved. However, is the means(throwing everyone in jail) justified because the crime problem is solved?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually sandynj, asking if the ends justify the means is a legitimate argument. All that question is asking is, was the method appropriate for achieving the solution. </p>
<p>If there is a crime problem, one solution is to put everyone in jail. No people free on the streets means no crimes can be committed. Problem solved. However, is the means(throwing everyone in jail) justified because the crime problem is solved?</p>
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		<title>By: jeffinputnam</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 22:45:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d like to expand a bit on &quot;boredalum&#039;s&quot; comments.

Had the decision for women to vote gone to a national referendum it would not have passed for it was never a national majority opinion. Most western states were in favor, having already granted women that right. Most eastern and southern states would not agree to such a thing and the population at the time was, well, in the east and south.

Had Alabaman&#039;s been asked to vote to give blacks equal rights with whites in 1963, how do you think that would have turned out? 

Are you suggesting that blacks should not have the same rights unless a majority of a community voted to give them?

Had Virginia been polled in 1863 about slavery, how do you think that would have ended up? 

Civil rights are of a different nature than whether to build a highway or sell a piece of municipal land, they&#039;re in an entirely different galaxy. 

Civil rights are not to be had by a poll, whether a plebiscite of an opinion poll. They are based on what is *right under the Constitution* and Constitutions should not be used to withhold rights from one group over that of another. I can show you examples of those that did but the nations who embraced them are generally just chapters in history books.

So Brett, you take away the ability for gay couples to marry in California and sooner or later someone comes along and takes away your ability to do something you feel is inherent to your existence. Fair is fair, no?

Lastly, you boys say you&#039;re not homophobic but your reasons for supporting a movement to deny equal rights to people were, well, weak at best and specious at worst. Giving an example of once being gay-bashed to show your open-mindedness fails when placed in comparison to the reasons stated to stand against equal rights for your friends, business associates, family members and neighbors.

If you can prove that when gay men or women join together in a state sanctioned, permanent relationship that you will be personally harmed, I&#039;d like to hear about that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d like to expand a bit on &#8220;boredalum&#8217;s&#8221; comments.</p>
<p>Had the decision for women to vote gone to a national referendum it would not have passed for it was never a national majority opinion. Most western states were in favor, having already granted women that right. Most eastern and southern states would not agree to such a thing and the population at the time was, well, in the east and south.</p>
<p>Had Alabaman&#8217;s been asked to vote to give blacks equal rights with whites in 1963, how do you think that would have turned out? </p>
<p>Are you suggesting that blacks should not have the same rights unless a majority of a community voted to give them?</p>
<p>Had Virginia been polled in 1863 about slavery, how do you think that would have ended up? </p>
<p>Civil rights are of a different nature than whether to build a highway or sell a piece of municipal land, they&#8217;re in an entirely different galaxy. </p>
<p>Civil rights are not to be had by a poll, whether a plebiscite of an opinion poll. They are based on what is *right under the Constitution* and Constitutions should not be used to withhold rights from one group over that of another. I can show you examples of those that did but the nations who embraced them are generally just chapters in history books.</p>
<p>So Brett, you take away the ability for gay couples to marry in California and sooner or later someone comes along and takes away your ability to do something you feel is inherent to your existence. Fair is fair, no?</p>
<p>Lastly, you boys say you&#8217;re not homophobic but your reasons for supporting a movement to deny equal rights to people were, well, weak at best and specious at worst. Giving an example of once being gay-bashed to show your open-mindedness fails when placed in comparison to the reasons stated to stand against equal rights for your friends, business associates, family members and neighbors.</p>
<p>If you can prove that when gay men or women join together in a state sanctioned, permanent relationship that you will be personally harmed, I&#8217;d like to hear about that.</p>
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		<title>By: sandynj</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 22:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My only problem is that the announcer says that believing that &quot;The end justifies the means.&quot; is an incorrect belief. Actually, if ends do not justify means then NOTHING can. What most people mean when they trot out this philosophically meaningless canard is that good ends do not justify bad means.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My only problem is that the announcer says that believing that &#8220;The end justifies the means.&#8221; is an incorrect belief. Actually, if ends do not justify means then NOTHING can. What most people mean when they trot out this philosophically meaningless canard is that good ends do not justify bad means.</p>
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		<title>By: boredalum</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 21:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I liked and agreed in part with aspects of that video - but a lot of it was oversimplified, misleading, or dismissive of certain underlying issues. 

I hate when people keep referring to 4 activist liberal judges in San Francisco to underscore the idea that somehow the May 2008 decision was an act of legislative activism from the bench. These were 4 California Supreme Court Justices (most of whom are generally conservative and republican) who were doing their job actively, not activistly, by interpreting the California Constitution, and just happening to sit in San Francisco - one of their several locations throughout the state.

People&#039;s memory is so myopic. Could you imagine if someone made the argument today that Loving v. Virginia, overturning bans on interracial marriage (or it&#039;s California equivilant decades prior in Perez v. Sharp), was a form of unnacceptable judicial fiat? Or if Congress today passed a federal amendment banning interracial marriage - despite the S. Ct. opinion and the suspect classification that race gets under federal law. Well that&#039;s exactly the case in California - the Cal. S. Ct. found that marriage is a fundamental right, that sexual orientation is a protected class, and that under Due Process and Equal Protection same-sex couples must have access to the same fundamental rights as opposite sex couples.

Also, the yes on 8 side is blatantly lieing. Prop 8 has nothing to do with school kids or religious institutions. And it would be worse for kids, because whether proponents like it or not, gay couples will keep having and adoptiing kids and it would be better for those kids to live in recognized and legally protected households. Separate but unequal institutions would do more harm to kids than good. Also, whether prop 8 passes or not, teachers are at liberty to teach, according to the education code, anything they want about alternative families - and California parents have the right to remove their kids from classes where controversial family and sex issues are taught.  Nothing about this or churches&#039; tax exempt status in any way, whatsoever, is affected by prop 8.  Anyone saying otherwise is either misinformed or lieing in order to manipulate people&#039;s emotions.

And as far as lawsuits - yeah, that might be right, maybe there are too many of them on unnecessary issues. But, lawsuits should be filed when core fundamental rights are at stake and when the political process fails. Also, prop 8 has nothing to do with whether more or less lawsuits will get filed.

Here, it&#039;s debatable whether the political process failed. The legislature passed pro-same-sex-marriage laws twice and both times the governor vetoed them saying it should be up to the S. Ct. to determine the issue. That&#039;s often left out of the debate. More importantly, amending a constitution or taking away civil rights by a simple majority vote of the popular mob is antithetical to our fundamental legal structure. Constitutions and laws should protect minorities, not allow the mob to overwhelm them.

I could keep going on - but I think you get the really obvious issues involved here. The speaker on that video was funny and articulate but deceptive, and skilled at creating a smoke screen with regard to some of the important and unaddressed issues. And his characterization of public opinion and the will of the majority was off - as will be determined on Nov. 4. Yes, 4.5 million people voted for Prop 22 in 2000. But this state has something like 38,000,000 people - so 4.5 million can hardly be said to represent the entire will of the state. And that shouldn&#039;t matter - the mob majority in this country could do a lot of really bad things in curtailment of liberties and constitutional rights - that&#039;s why courts and constitutions exist to serve as a check. Prop 8 benefits no one but religious fundamentalists who should not be able to cross the church/state barrier and dictate secular state policy. It only hurts people by stripping away civil rights from certain groups, and does more harm to children who live in same sex households than anyone else. Laws based in animus or religious doctrine should never be constitutionally recognized - and that&#039;s so fundamental that any rationale, open minded person should be able to recognize it. Somehow though, that idea didn&#039;t get into the video while a subliminal message about the gay agenda did.

Here&#039;s how people should vote on 8:

Ask would a yes vote:
Have any real direct positive/negative impact on me?
Would it have a direct real negative/positive impact on someone else?

Ask would a no vote:
Have any real direct positive/negative impact on me?
Would it have a direct real positive/negative impact on someone else?

When put in those terms it is pretty clear - voting yes ONLY hurts others: loving, devoted, same sex couples and their children, families, and friends. A yes vote does not directly benefit anyone.  It only directly hurts others. 

Voting no on 8 maintains people&#039;s constitutionally recognized rights, treats people equally under the law, and does not hurt anyone. Churches should be free to discriminate whose relationships their religions recognize. Mormons should be free to keep gays out of their churches.  Reform Jews should be free to have gay and lesbian clergy and to solomnize same-sex unions under Jewish law.  But what we&#039;re talking about is secular, civil marriage.  Not religious marriage.  And as long as the state calls the relationship marriage for opposite sex couples, it should have the same name for same sex couples.  Creating separate institutions has no legitimate secular reason, and on the other hand causes real harm to loving same sex couples and their children.

Passing a constitutional amendment to strip a group of people of rights and dignity, especially when done by a simple majority vote, especially when most of the financial backing for it comes from out-of-state and by religious groups, namely Mormons, is wrong headed and mean spirited.  Just think of the precedent that would be set by the ability of a simple majority, financed by spiteful religious groups, to strip fundamental rights from people by writing discrimination into a constitution.  It&#039;s wrong.  Even if you aren&#039;t sure how you feel about people of the same sex getting married, a constitutional amendment like prop 8 is just wrong, it&#039;s scary, and it&#039;s not good for California.

Please vote No on 8.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked and agreed in part with aspects of that video &#8211; but a lot of it was oversimplified, misleading, or dismissive of certain underlying issues. </p>
<p>I hate when people keep referring to 4 activist liberal judges in San Francisco to underscore the idea that somehow the May 2008 decision was an act of legislative activism from the bench. These were 4 California Supreme Court Justices (most of whom are generally conservative and republican) who were doing their job actively, not activistly, by interpreting the California Constitution, and just happening to sit in San Francisco &#8211; one of their several locations throughout the state.</p>
<p>People&#8217;s memory is so myopic. Could you imagine if someone made the argument today that Loving v. Virginia, overturning bans on interracial marriage (or it&#8217;s California equivilant decades prior in Perez v. Sharp), was a form of unnacceptable judicial fiat? Or if Congress today passed a federal amendment banning interracial marriage &#8211; despite the S. Ct. opinion and the suspect classification that race gets under federal law. Well that&#8217;s exactly the case in California &#8211; the Cal. S. Ct. found that marriage is a fundamental right, that sexual orientation is a protected class, and that under Due Process and Equal Protection same-sex couples must have access to the same fundamental rights as opposite sex couples.</p>
<p>Also, the yes on 8 side is blatantly lieing. Prop 8 has nothing to do with school kids or religious institutions. And it would be worse for kids, because whether proponents like it or not, gay couples will keep having and adoptiing kids and it would be better for those kids to live in recognized and legally protected households. Separate but unequal institutions would do more harm to kids than good. Also, whether prop 8 passes or not, teachers are at liberty to teach, according to the education code, anything they want about alternative families &#8211; and California parents have the right to remove their kids from classes where controversial family and sex issues are taught.  Nothing about this or churches&#8217; tax exempt status in any way, whatsoever, is affected by prop 8.  Anyone saying otherwise is either misinformed or lieing in order to manipulate people&#8217;s emotions.</p>
<p>And as far as lawsuits &#8211; yeah, that might be right, maybe there are too many of them on unnecessary issues. But, lawsuits should be filed when core fundamental rights are at stake and when the political process fails. Also, prop 8 has nothing to do with whether more or less lawsuits will get filed.</p>
<p>Here, it&#8217;s debatable whether the political process failed. The legislature passed pro-same-sex-marriage laws twice and both times the governor vetoed them saying it should be up to the S. Ct. to determine the issue. That&#8217;s often left out of the debate. More importantly, amending a constitution or taking away civil rights by a simple majority vote of the popular mob is antithetical to our fundamental legal structure. Constitutions and laws should protect minorities, not allow the mob to overwhelm them.</p>
<p>I could keep going on &#8211; but I think you get the really obvious issues involved here. The speaker on that video was funny and articulate but deceptive, and skilled at creating a smoke screen with regard to some of the important and unaddressed issues. And his characterization of public opinion and the will of the majority was off &#8211; as will be determined on Nov. 4. Yes, 4.5 million people voted for Prop 22 in 2000. But this state has something like 38,000,000 people &#8211; so 4.5 million can hardly be said to represent the entire will of the state. And that shouldn&#8217;t matter &#8211; the mob majority in this country could do a lot of really bad things in curtailment of liberties and constitutional rights &#8211; that&#8217;s why courts and constitutions exist to serve as a check. Prop 8 benefits no one but religious fundamentalists who should not be able to cross the church/state barrier and dictate secular state policy. It only hurts people by stripping away civil rights from certain groups, and does more harm to children who live in same sex households than anyone else. Laws based in animus or religious doctrine should never be constitutionally recognized &#8211; and that&#8217;s so fundamental that any rationale, open minded person should be able to recognize it. Somehow though, that idea didn&#8217;t get into the video while a subliminal message about the gay agenda did.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how people should vote on 8:</p>
<p>Ask would a yes vote:<br />
Have any real direct positive/negative impact on me?<br />
Would it have a direct real negative/positive impact on someone else?</p>
<p>Ask would a no vote:<br />
Have any real direct positive/negative impact on me?<br />
Would it have a direct real positive/negative impact on someone else?</p>
<p>When put in those terms it is pretty clear &#8211; voting yes ONLY hurts others: loving, devoted, same sex couples and their children, families, and friends. A yes vote does not directly benefit anyone.  It only directly hurts others. </p>
<p>Voting no on 8 maintains people&#8217;s constitutionally recognized rights, treats people equally under the law, and does not hurt anyone. Churches should be free to discriminate whose relationships their religions recognize. Mormons should be free to keep gays out of their churches.  Reform Jews should be free to have gay and lesbian clergy and to solomnize same-sex unions under Jewish law.  But what we&#8217;re talking about is secular, civil marriage.  Not religious marriage.  And as long as the state calls the relationship marriage for opposite sex couples, it should have the same name for same sex couples.  Creating separate institutions has no legitimate secular reason, and on the other hand causes real harm to loving same sex couples and their children.</p>
<p>Passing a constitutional amendment to strip a group of people of rights and dignity, especially when done by a simple majority vote, especially when most of the financial backing for it comes from out-of-state and by religious groups, namely Mormons, is wrong headed and mean spirited.  Just think of the precedent that would be set by the ability of a simple majority, financed by spiteful religious groups, to strip fundamental rights from people by writing discrimination into a constitution.  It&#8217;s wrong.  Even if you aren&#8217;t sure how you feel about people of the same sex getting married, a constitutional amendment like prop 8 is just wrong, it&#8217;s scary, and it&#8217;s not good for California.</p>
<p>Please vote No on 8.</p>
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		<title>By: Drecon</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Soul Sister: there have been a lot of researches about the subject of mental health of children raised in &#039;alternative&#039; families (like single parents) and most do actually conclude that children resulting from such marriages are no different from other kids. 
I&#039;m not really ready to go into a statistics fight however I just want to say that it&#039;s a very bold statement to say that having homosexual parents is detrimental to the children. I seriously doubt there is anything backing that statement up except a gut feeling.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Soul Sister: there have been a lot of researches about the subject of mental health of children raised in &#8216;alternative&#8217; families (like single parents) and most do actually conclude that children resulting from such marriages are no different from other kids.<br />
I&#8217;m not really ready to go into a statistics fight however I just want to say that it&#8217;s a very bold statement to say that having homosexual parents is detrimental to the children. I seriously doubt there is anything backing that statement up except a gut feeling.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Because I oppose the radical redefinition of time-honored, historic and sacred institutions;
Because I oppose the degrading culture of individual gratification as the highest social ideal;
Because I oppose activist judges that diminish the stature of the courts through their anti-democratic, anti-majoritarian, anti-constitutional edicts:
.
I support Proposition 8.
I hope you will, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because I oppose the radical redefinition of time-honored, historic and sacred institutions;<br />
Because I oppose the degrading culture of individual gratification as the highest social ideal;<br />
Because I oppose activist judges that diminish the stature of the courts through their anti-democratic, anti-majoritarian, anti-constitutional edicts:<br />
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I support Proposition 8.<br />
I hope you will, too.</p>
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		<title>By: Russ</title>
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		<dc:creator>Russ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 19:08:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I went to high school in San Francisco.  I have several gay friends.  I also worked extensively on the (yes on) Proposition 22 campaign back in 2000 (my district was the only one to vote yes in the Bay Area).  Please understand, this is not a gay rights issue; under the civil unions and domestic partnership acts, homosexuals were accorded all the benefits and responsibilities that accrued to marriage.  And it most certainly is not a &quot;civil-rights&quot; issue -- even the Court in its majority opinion was unwilling to declare homosexuality an immutable characteristic (necessary for a civil rights question).

This is primarily a question of can unelected, unrepresentative judges imposing their policy preferences on the majority of Californians, in opposition to the laws and Constitution of the state?  It is secondarily the question of whether a litigious minority seeking to destroy the liberty of the people by attempting to force them to accept the minority&#039;s &quot;lifestyle&quot; as being morally equivalent, when it is not.  Those are the issues this vote turns on, and the things I hope people consider.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went to high school in San Francisco.  I have several gay friends.  I also worked extensively on the (yes on) Proposition 22 campaign back in 2000 (my district was the only one to vote yes in the Bay Area).  Please understand, this is not a gay rights issue; under the civil unions and domestic partnership acts, homosexuals were accorded all the benefits and responsibilities that accrued to marriage.  And it most certainly is not a &#8220;civil-rights&#8221; issue &#8212; even the Court in its majority opinion was unwilling to declare homosexuality an immutable characteristic (necessary for a civil rights question).</p>
<p>This is primarily a question of can unelected, unrepresentative judges imposing their policy preferences on the majority of Californians, in opposition to the laws and Constitution of the state?  It is secondarily the question of whether a litigious minority seeking to destroy the liberty of the people by attempting to force them to accept the minority&#8217;s &#8220;lifestyle&#8221; as being morally equivalent, when it is not.  Those are the issues this vote turns on, and the things I hope people consider.</p>
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		<title>By: Potential</title>
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		<dc:creator>Potential</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Previous post was in direct reference to Niron04&#039;s posting.</description>
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		<title>By: Potential</title>
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		<dc:creator>Potential</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You speak of the benefit of &quot;exposing children to the world around them&quot;, I am curious if you live in the same world that I do? Are you aware of the actual meaning of the word expose??? Expose: to lay open to danger, attack, harm, etc. The responsibility of schools is NOT to EXPOSE, as you say, but to educate in a secular realm and ONLY secularly. The responsibility of TEACHING children regarding the &quot;world around them&quot; such as moral issues regarding the fundamental structure and origin of the HUMAN family lies solely on the PARENTS and none other. PARENTS, not schools, are responsible for the PROTECTION of their children and to teach them appropriate principles according to their own beliefs and practices. I would venture to say the &quot;exposure&quot; of which you speak would further lead to the degradation of our society as it all began with the deterioration of the fundamental unit of society, the FAMILY i.e. divorce, neglect, abuse, domestic violence, poverty, etc.   I am sure Niron04 you could agree with me on one thought, most likely the &quot;world&quot; has been sufficiently unkind and intolerant of you that you did not need anyone to &quot;expose&quot; you in your youth to teach you that this world, while filled with a great deal of goodness, is seething with heartache, despair, and often times, even hatred. We should be focusing on BOLSTERING  and PROTECTING our children against the cruel world that you speak of, so when the day comes they ARE expose, which is inevitable, they will be able to make decision drawn from a strong foundation of love for all man kind while remaining true to who they are and what they stand for. I am in support of PROTECTION of children.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You speak of the benefit of &#8220;exposing children to the world around them&#8221;, I am curious if you live in the same world that I do? Are you aware of the actual meaning of the word expose??? Expose: to lay open to danger, attack, harm, etc. The responsibility of schools is NOT to EXPOSE, as you say, but to educate in a secular realm and ONLY secularly. The responsibility of TEACHING children regarding the &#8220;world around them&#8221; such as moral issues regarding the fundamental structure and origin of the HUMAN family lies solely on the PARENTS and none other. PARENTS, not schools, are responsible for the PROTECTION of their children and to teach them appropriate principles according to their own beliefs and practices. I would venture to say the &#8220;exposure&#8221; of which you speak would further lead to the degradation of our society as it all began with the deterioration of the fundamental unit of society, the FAMILY i.e. divorce, neglect, abuse, domestic violence, poverty, etc.   I am sure Niron04 you could agree with me on one thought, most likely the &#8220;world&#8221; has been sufficiently unkind and intolerant of you that you did not need anyone to &#8220;expose&#8221; you in your youth to teach you that this world, while filled with a great deal of goodness, is seething with heartache, despair, and often times, even hatred. We should be focusing on BOLSTERING  and PROTECTING our children against the cruel world that you speak of, so when the day comes they ARE expose, which is inevitable, they will be able to make decision drawn from a strong foundation of love for all man kind while remaining true to who they are and what they stand for. I am in support of PROTECTION of children.</p>
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		<title>By: kd</title>
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		<dc:creator>kd</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:22:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow!! Lots of Flaming! Great show! :)</description>
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		<title>By: esmily</title>
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		<dc:creator>esmily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 17:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Video mentions photographer sued in Arizona.  I know this happened in New Mexico; did it also happen in Arizona?</description>
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		<title>By: Payallin</title>
		<link>http://www.whatyououghttoknow.com/show/2008/10/21/gay-marriage/comment-page-2/#comment-4509</link>
		<dc:creator>Payallin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 16:24:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good job as usual guys</description>
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		<title>By: marc</title>
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		<dc:creator>marc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 15:26:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... 70 comments... well now 71.  Most posts are responsible responses too.  I am amazed with the amount of discussion on such a hot bed issue.</description>
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		<title>By: Soul Sister</title>
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		<dc:creator>Soul Sister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 14:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Drecon, I want to respond to your comment. I agree whole heartedly with adoption, although adopting instead of having your own kids just because you want there to be less children in the world is a grey area that I&#039;m not really sure how to figure out. I&#039;m also not sure about your comment about single moms. Of course they can raise their children. Many women do that all over the world. What I&#039;m saying is that most people don&#039;t choose that situation, and even if they DO it has detrimental effects on their family life. The same thing goes with homosexual couples. There are detrimental effects on their children and family life because of that union. Just as there are detrimental effects resulting from unhealthy straight marraiges--like abuse, emotional or otherwise.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Drecon, I want to respond to your comment. I agree whole heartedly with adoption, although adopting instead of having your own kids just because you want there to be less children in the world is a grey area that I&#8217;m not really sure how to figure out. I&#8217;m also not sure about your comment about single moms. Of course they can raise their children. Many women do that all over the world. What I&#8217;m saying is that most people don&#8217;t choose that situation, and even if they DO it has detrimental effects on their family life. The same thing goes with homosexual couples. There are detrimental effects on their children and family life because of that union. Just as there are detrimental effects resulting from unhealthy straight marraiges&#8211;like abuse, emotional or otherwise.</p>
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		<title>By: GoddessMother</title>
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		<dc:creator>GoddessMother</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think your video was very well thought out and respectful.  I agree totally, and I can point out one other even more insidious result of the acceptance of homosexuality as &quot;just a different lifestyle&quot;.  It has caused us all to be a little bit more reserved and less able to be close to each other as friends.  You can&#039;t be as good of friends as two females for fear it will be perceived as a sexual relationship or even worse that sexual tension may arise because there is no way to know if maybe your friend is gay.  The whole homosexual movement has made us all have to keep ourselves a little more distant from each other due to turning every relationship into a possibly sexual one.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think your video was very well thought out and respectful.  I agree totally, and I can point out one other even more insidious result of the acceptance of homosexuality as &#8220;just a different lifestyle&#8221;.  It has caused us all to be a little bit more reserved and less able to be close to each other as friends.  You can&#8217;t be as good of friends as two females for fear it will be perceived as a sexual relationship or even worse that sexual tension may arise because there is no way to know if maybe your friend is gay.  The whole homosexual movement has made us all have to keep ourselves a little more distant from each other due to turning every relationship into a possibly sexual one.</p>
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		<title>By: JellyDogg</title>
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		<dc:creator>JellyDogg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 13:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OOOOO...you made the Picture/Video of the day on Glenn Beck!! 
http://www.glennbeck.com/content/articles/article/198/17175/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OOOOO&#8230;you made the Picture/Video of the day on Glenn Beck!!<br />
<a href="http://www.glennbeck.com/content/articles/article/198/17175/" rel="nofollow">http://www.glennbeck.com/content/articles/article/198/17175/</a></p>
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		<title>By: designertoxophilite[22]</title>
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		<dc:creator>designertoxophilite[22]</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 11:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would just like to say that I too have been an avid viewer of the WYOTK podcast, and while I live over the pond in England, things are a little different to the situation over in california than here. Now I say california because unfortunately I do have a huge understanding of the American legal system and your constitution. 

Over here there too has been recent up-roars about gay marriages. While currently here two people who love each other of the same sex or of altered sexual orientation are not allowed to marry, they are allowed a civil partnership, which as far as I can find out, allows them equal rights and benefits as a married couple. 

Unlike where the brothers Winn live, there hasn’t been a huge push to make a civil partnership the same and under the same “banner” as marriage is. simply because the rights between the two (marriage / civil partnership) are the same.

On the contrary to popular belief between a lot of people who know me, I am not against gay partnerships, if someone falls in love or is only attracted to someone of the same sex, I can not and will not stand against that. I for a time when I was in sixth form (16-18 years of age) had several gay friends, of different sexes.

But equally as a christian, and I was brought up as a christian because my parents ran a church, I too have chosen to believe, not because of propaganda but simply because I have chosen too. I do disagree with people “marrying” one another if they are of the same sex, and I disagree with people being gay. I won’t apologise for that and the reason that I disagree is because of my faith. As a christian I believe that God created the heavens and the earth, and along with it, Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Cliche I know, but equally in leviticus it clearly says that partnerships between same sex couples is forbidden. 
Admittedly it doesn’t say it in those exact words, but depending on which version you read it will be pretty close. 

One of the key things I learnt as being a christian, is that you love your neighbour as you would love yourself and that simply means that you do start to argue and be unkind to someone who lives next door to you, or someone at your workplace / school etc, simply because you wouldn’t want the same behavior show or done towards yourself. In that sense I would never persecute or harm someone because of their belief or sexual orientation, but equally in the free speech civilisations that we live in, I have the right to disagree with someone else’s belief of sexual orientation.

In terms of people suing churches simply because they would not marry a gay couple is in my opinion ludicrous, because the church, christianity in fact is not the only religion in the world and as far as I can find out there are no other faiths in the world (please comment on this if i’m wrong and I will apologise if that is the case) that have allowed gay marriages to happen. 

Just in england in fact there have been several gay bishops that are partners and still preach the word of God. Now I’m not saying that they do not believe in God themselves, but I would love to know what version of their bible that cuts out all the parts on homosexuality. 

Like I have said, christianity and the church is not the only faith in which people believe, in fact if you combine all of the faiths and beliefs that do not believe in gay marriages and where within that faith it is frowned upon. The percentage of people who are not included within that spectrum is only 14.72% of the worlds population.  Now to me, thats a pretty small percentage of people infact of the 6,750,000,000 people thats only 98,000,000 which leaves 6,642,000,000 of people who disagree on a spiritual level in gay marriage which is a huge amount.

So why is it, that people are suing churches for not marrying gay couples, but not other faiths, like Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, I’m not saying people should start and sue other faiths for not changing one of their core belief’s, but what I am saying is the church and christianity as a whole has come far further in terms of allowing people to have different sexual beliefs in recent years and a lot of other beliefs have. 

I equally am not saying that other beliefs should change what they believe to accommodate the more modern and liberal society that we live in. 

All I simply want to say is that here in England and equally in America, people have the Right to believe in what they choose to believe in. So why are people bitter and arguing over faith issues, when the real issue is allowing people who love one another to have the same rights as people who are legally “married” 

If here in England people are allowed the same rights in a ‘civil partnership’ as a couple who are ‘married’ surely it doesn’t matter if the names are different to please both sides of the camp, those who don’t want people who are gay to be ‘married’ but also allows gay couples the right and freedom that comes with marriage by having a ‘civiil partnership’

I agree with the bothers Winn there are many religious institutions and faiths that will never change one of their core beliefs on homosexual marriage, and if the gay community can not tolerate that, how can they expect them to be tolerated back. “love thy neighbour as you would love yourself”</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would just like to say that I too have been an avid viewer of the WYOTK podcast, and while I live over the pond in England, things are a little different to the situation over in california than here. Now I say california because unfortunately I do have a huge understanding of the American legal system and your constitution. </p>
<p>Over here there too has been recent up-roars about gay marriages. While currently here two people who love each other of the same sex or of altered sexual orientation are not allowed to marry, they are allowed a civil partnership, which as far as I can find out, allows them equal rights and benefits as a married couple. </p>
<p>Unlike where the brothers Winn live, there hasn’t been a huge push to make a civil partnership the same and under the same “banner” as marriage is. simply because the rights between the two (marriage / civil partnership) are the same.</p>
<p>On the contrary to popular belief between a lot of people who know me, I am not against gay partnerships, if someone falls in love or is only attracted to someone of the same sex, I can not and will not stand against that. I for a time when I was in sixth form (16-18 years of age) had several gay friends, of different sexes.</p>
<p>But equally as a christian, and I was brought up as a christian because my parents ran a church, I too have chosen to believe, not because of propaganda but simply because I have chosen too. I do disagree with people “marrying” one another if they are of the same sex, and I disagree with people being gay. I won’t apologise for that and the reason that I disagree is because of my faith. As a christian I believe that God created the heavens and the earth, and along with it, Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve. Cliche I know, but equally in leviticus it clearly says that partnerships between same sex couples is forbidden.<br />
Admittedly it doesn’t say it in those exact words, but depending on which version you read it will be pretty close. </p>
<p>One of the key things I learnt as being a christian, is that you love your neighbour as you would love yourself and that simply means that you do start to argue and be unkind to someone who lives next door to you, or someone at your workplace / school etc, simply because you wouldn’t want the same behavior show or done towards yourself. In that sense I would never persecute or harm someone because of their belief or sexual orientation, but equally in the free speech civilisations that we live in, I have the right to disagree with someone else’s belief of sexual orientation.</p>
<p>In terms of people suing churches simply because they would not marry a gay couple is in my opinion ludicrous, because the church, christianity in fact is not the only religion in the world and as far as I can find out there are no other faiths in the world (please comment on this if i’m wrong and I will apologise if that is the case) that have allowed gay marriages to happen. </p>
<p>Just in england in fact there have been several gay bishops that are partners and still preach the word of God. Now I’m not saying that they do not believe in God themselves, but I would love to know what version of their bible that cuts out all the parts on homosexuality. </p>
<p>Like I have said, christianity and the church is not the only faith in which people believe, in fact if you combine all of the faiths and beliefs that do not believe in gay marriages and where within that faith it is frowned upon. The percentage of people who are not included within that spectrum is only 14.72% of the worlds population.  Now to me, thats a pretty small percentage of people infact of the 6,750,000,000 people thats only 98,000,000 which leaves 6,642,000,000 of people who disagree on a spiritual level in gay marriage which is a huge amount.</p>
<p>So why is it, that people are suing churches for not marrying gay couples, but not other faiths, like Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism, I’m not saying people should start and sue other faiths for not changing one of their core belief’s, but what I am saying is the church and christianity as a whole has come far further in terms of allowing people to have different sexual beliefs in recent years and a lot of other beliefs have. </p>
<p>I equally am not saying that other beliefs should change what they believe to accommodate the more modern and liberal society that we live in. </p>
<p>All I simply want to say is that here in England and equally in America, people have the Right to believe in what they choose to believe in. So why are people bitter and arguing over faith issues, when the real issue is allowing people who love one another to have the same rights as people who are legally “married” </p>
<p>If here in England people are allowed the same rights in a ‘civil partnership’ as a couple who are ‘married’ surely it doesn’t matter if the names are different to please both sides of the camp, those who don’t want people who are gay to be ‘married’ but also allows gay couples the right and freedom that comes with marriage by having a ‘civiil partnership’</p>
<p>I agree with the bothers Winn there are many religious institutions and faiths that will never change one of their core beliefs on homosexual marriage, and if the gay community can not tolerate that, how can they expect them to be tolerated back. “love thy neighbour as you would love yourself”</p>
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		<title>By: omnius</title>
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		<dc:creator>omnius</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 09:40:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To add my 2 cents and make it an even dollar, I think that, putting aside the whacko gay activists that are trying to use this issue to put a stake in organized religions (and are likely a small part of the overall gay community), the problem here is that the term “marriage” is being used to define multiple things.  Some use marriage to define a religious ceremony to “bless a union” while others use it synonymously with “civil union.”  

I find it funny when I hear people argue that same-sex marriage is OK, but polygamy is wrong, or “communes aren&#039;t marriage.”  Well, why not?  I think that we should let the churches have the term &quot;marriage&quot; (mostly because you aren&#039;t going to get them to stop calling it that anyway) and let them worry about who they will and won&#039;t marry (forcing them to “marry” people is anti-freedom, IMO) and we should create another term (how about a &quot;domestic corporation&quot;) that is any number of consenting adults coming together to create a household or community for the purpose of “pursuit of happiness” (or however you describe why people get hitched).  This &quot;domestic corporation&quot; would have the same rights as a “civil union” in that it will allow for inheritance between partners and children of partners, and will have the same kind of tax benefits (or penalties, depending on where you live).

There, 232 words and I’ve solved the world’s marriage problems.  World peace is next…</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To add my 2 cents and make it an even dollar, I think that, putting aside the whacko gay activists that are trying to use this issue to put a stake in organized religions (and are likely a small part of the overall gay community), the problem here is that the term “marriage” is being used to define multiple things.  Some use marriage to define a religious ceremony to “bless a union” while others use it synonymously with “civil union.”  </p>
<p>I find it funny when I hear people argue that same-sex marriage is OK, but polygamy is wrong, or “communes aren&#8217;t marriage.”  Well, why not?  I think that we should let the churches have the term &#8220;marriage&#8221; (mostly because you aren&#8217;t going to get them to stop calling it that anyway) and let them worry about who they will and won&#8217;t marry (forcing them to “marry” people is anti-freedom, IMO) and we should create another term (how about a &#8220;domestic corporation&#8221;) that is any number of consenting adults coming together to create a household or community for the purpose of “pursuit of happiness” (or however you describe why people get hitched).  This &#8220;domestic corporation&#8221; would have the same rights as a “civil union” in that it will allow for inheritance between partners and children of partners, and will have the same kind of tax benefits (or penalties, depending on where you live).</p>
<p>There, 232 words and I’ve solved the world’s marriage problems.  World peace is next…</p>
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		<title>By: Ingrid</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ingrid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 09:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@moded: you clearly did not read my later comments in which I clarified that statement (ok I used the word tolerance, but isn&#039;t that basically the same thing) in where you should be able to think and do what you think is right, but only if you are NOT hurting anyone. So no,  raping and murdering is not right. 
However if you feel it is right to vote against gay marriages, yes, than that is your right, and I&#039;m not going to hold that against you in any way. If that is your belief, than you should vote to it accordingly.
I just feel that it&#039;s a pitty that you feel and vote that way. I&#039;m not holding a grudge because of it against you, but it is my right to feel that way about that opinion on this topic of yours. I feel it is a pitty that a lot of people out there in California feel that way. But hey, as I allready said: you are never going to find anyone who completely agrees with you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@moded: you clearly did not read my later comments in which I clarified that statement (ok I used the word tolerance, but isn&#8217;t that basically the same thing) in where you should be able to think and do what you think is right, but only if you are NOT hurting anyone. So no,  raping and murdering is not right.<br />
However if you feel it is right to vote against gay marriages, yes, than that is your right, and I&#8217;m not going to hold that against you in any way. If that is your belief, than you should vote to it accordingly.<br />
I just feel that it&#8217;s a pitty that you feel and vote that way. I&#8217;m not holding a grudge because of it against you, but it is my right to feel that way about that opinion on this topic of yours. I feel it is a pitty that a lot of people out there in California feel that way. But hey, as I allready said: you are never going to find anyone who completely agrees with you!</p>
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		<title>By: Drecon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Drecon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 09:27:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a lot of problems with the statement that gay marriage is bad because you can&#039;t have children within such a marriage (I know there are more reasons but this one is the most cited here and it&#039;s the one I have the most problems with. 
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Let&#039;s look at a few grey areas first. If you need a man and a woman to raise a child how do you feel about single moms? Are they unable to raise a child? Wat if they remarry, should they be held from it because they child is not both their genes? I think most people would agree that There is no problem with this. 
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Let&#039;s take it one step further. How about lesbian marriage? Two of my friends have a lesbian realtionship and there is no doubt in their minds that they want to have children. And this ism easily accomplished by means of IVF. Should they be denied marriage? In this case there are a lot of parallels with ther single mom except that she marries a woman instead of a man, but there is still the parental bond that matters. 
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Another example: should a man and a woman be able to get married and instead of procreate adopt a child? I think most people would say yes. It&#039;s still the same warm family environment
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Now should two gay men be able to marry and adopt a child so that they can raise this child into a responsible adult? I say the parallels are astounding. 
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My conclusion here is that the argument against gay marriage from a childbirth perspective is outdated because there are more ways to have children than just procreating within a marriage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a lot of problems with the statement that gay marriage is bad because you can&#8217;t have children within such a marriage (I know there are more reasons but this one is the most cited here and it&#8217;s the one I have the most problems with.<br />
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Let&#8217;s look at a few grey areas first. If you need a man and a woman to raise a child how do you feel about single moms? Are they unable to raise a child? Wat if they remarry, should they be held from it because they child is not both their genes? I think most people would agree that There is no problem with this.<br />
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Let&#8217;s take it one step further. How about lesbian marriage? Two of my friends have a lesbian realtionship and there is no doubt in their minds that they want to have children. And this ism easily accomplished by means of IVF. Should they be denied marriage? In this case there are a lot of parallels with ther single mom except that she marries a woman instead of a man, but there is still the parental bond that matters.<br />
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Another example: should a man and a woman be able to get married and instead of procreate adopt a child? I think most people would say yes. It&#8217;s still the same warm family environment<br />
.<br />
Now should two gay men be able to marry and adopt a child so that they can raise this child into a responsible adult? I say the parallels are astounding.<br />
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My conclusion here is that the argument against gay marriage from a childbirth perspective is outdated because there are more ways to have children than just procreating within a marriage.</p>
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		<title>By: Niron04</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niron04</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 07:25:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow maybe we should just send all the gays to Mars. Everyone is afraid of same-sex marriage, I just don&#039;t understand how same-sex marriage is a threat to traditional marriage. The Judeo-Christian Bible interprets marriage between a man and woman.  Government shoul interpret marriage as between two willing and conscience human individuals who have a commitment for each other, with respect to family.  When is it that homosexual will be look upon as human, humans who breath air, with a beating heart.  With emotion, thought, free will and conscience? Look at history - African American slaves were thought as property, Native Americans as savages, Asians no less than a yellow peril, Jews as evil, women as less than.  When? When will we look at a homosexual couple and not see disgust and see that they too are a family with good and bad tidings, a  couple, a family, nothing more nothing less. No adjectives - just marriage is the plight of so-called same-sex marriage. 

But back on point. How is that you tell gays to be tolerant of radical religious institutions. Maybe you should tell that to Matthew Shepard.  You made it appear as if all homosexuals want to invade and obstruct religious institutions. You made it seem that homosexuals take legal action and sue at every chance they get. Well taking LEGAL action and suing for recognition and equality is better than being silent. It is better than seeing what is unfair and being treated as a second class citizen.  Thank God my rights to take legal action have not been taken away. 

I gotta say this is by far the most outlandish video. Yes, you, Brothers Winn, have your opinion but I am disappointed on how misleading and on sided you can be on this topic. You made no effort on how same-sex marriage would give FULL rights to same sex couples. You antagonized the California Supreme Court that overturned Prop 22. You made it as if we should fear our government. The judges simply interpreted Prop 22 as unconstitutional. Remember Loving v. Virginia (1967) the US Supreme Court declared Virginia&#039;s anti-miscegenation statute, the &quot;Racial Integrity Act of 1924&quot;, unconstitutional. Should we fear reform for the better, for the integrity and goodwill of our fellow citizen,  no. No, we should welcome change for the equality and mutual respect for each other. 

I don&#039;t see taking children to same-sex social events as it will expose children to the world around them. It teaches children that we are different yet equal and have the will to live free and proud. Yes, the government should have an initiative to expose children to different cultures and lifestyles. It is part of a learning process - children are learning about social and cultural lifestyles. 

Americans are ignorant we see only one side and no other. Maybe if there where an effort to include cultural understanding in the educational institution then our children won&#039;t be as dumb as us and have to deal with our problems. Then there will be peace. Yes, we had the Civil Rights Movement in the 60s. But that just made everyone equal it did not emphasize the need for cultural equality. America(ns) is dominate and ignorant. Why do you think we have a War in Iraq, because we don&#039;t see the value in their culture. We quickly convict minorities to place them in jail. We bash and mock gays with disgust.  

I did not like your presentation of the topic. Your way of protest is odd. You sport a &#039;support Prop 8&#039; sign in your lawn because you feel your rights are being voilated by the supreme court? Or is that you are against marriage between same-sex couples? It&#039;s  okay, you have your right to opion. It&#039;s just annoying when you protray your bigotry with an ugly smile.  &quot;Suing people to get your way&quot; with rainbow lettering is NOT cool. WTF mate - I thought you guys were cool.  Now you mock homosexuals? What&#039;s next? WhatYouOughtToKnow&#039;s OJ Simpson Case,  Barak Obama as the First Black President(btw he&#039;s half white), etc. Some chaos.  Maybe should stick to topics other than social and cultural issues.

Tolerance DOES NOT go both ways in your context.   As human individual we should not have to tolerate intolerance. We should not be silent in fear of retaliation. We should not have to tolerate unfairness. We should not have to tolerate anything that makes us less than.  The lamb does not willingly lay with the lion. The lamb knows that he is lunch and sees the lion&#039;s physical advantage so he will cry out and try to get away. Unless the lamb is blind to the fact that he is lunch he will lie down to the lion&#039;s will and be killed in slience. I am not that lamb.  

I am a homosexual. I am a Jew. I am Black. I am human. Acceptance goes both ways. I accept you as human will you accept me as human? Only then will there be mutual respect. You&#039;re entitled to your opinion, free will, conscience, and thought, but don&#039;t insult me for being human.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow maybe we should just send all the gays to Mars. Everyone is afraid of same-sex marriage, I just don&#8217;t understand how same-sex marriage is a threat to traditional marriage. The Judeo-Christian Bible interprets marriage between a man and woman.  Government shoul interpret marriage as between two willing and conscience human individuals who have a commitment for each other, with respect to family.  When is it that homosexual will be look upon as human, humans who breath air, with a beating heart.  With emotion, thought, free will and conscience? Look at history &#8211; African American slaves were thought as property, Native Americans as savages, Asians no less than a yellow peril, Jews as evil, women as less than.  When? When will we look at a homosexual couple and not see disgust and see that they too are a family with good and bad tidings, a  couple, a family, nothing more nothing less. No adjectives &#8211; just marriage is the plight of so-called same-sex marriage. </p>
<p>But back on point. How is that you tell gays to be tolerant of radical religious institutions. Maybe you should tell that to Matthew Shepard.  You made it appear as if all homosexuals want to invade and obstruct religious institutions. You made it seem that homosexuals take legal action and sue at every chance they get. Well taking LEGAL action and suing for recognition and equality is better than being silent. It is better than seeing what is unfair and being treated as a second class citizen.  Thank God my rights to take legal action have not been taken away. </p>
<p>I gotta say this is by far the most outlandish video. Yes, you, Brothers Winn, have your opinion but I am disappointed on how misleading and on sided you can be on this topic. You made no effort on how same-sex marriage would give FULL rights to same sex couples. You antagonized the California Supreme Court that overturned Prop 22. You made it as if we should fear our government. The judges simply interpreted Prop 22 as unconstitutional. Remember Loving v. Virginia (1967) the US Supreme Court declared Virginia&#8217;s anti-miscegenation statute, the &#8220;Racial Integrity Act of 1924&#8243;, unconstitutional. Should we fear reform for the better, for the integrity and goodwill of our fellow citizen,  no. No, we should welcome change for the equality and mutual respect for each other. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t see taking children to same-sex social events as it will expose children to the world around them. It teaches children that we are different yet equal and have the will to live free and proud. Yes, the government should have an initiative to expose children to different cultures and lifestyles. It is part of a learning process &#8211; children are learning about social and cultural lifestyles. </p>
<p>Americans are ignorant we see only one side and no other. Maybe if there where an effort to include cultural understanding in the educational institution then our children won&#8217;t be as dumb as us and have to deal with our problems. Then there will be peace. Yes, we had the Civil Rights Movement in the 60s. But that just made everyone equal it did not emphasize the need for cultural equality. America(ns) is dominate and ignorant. Why do you think we have a War in Iraq, because we don&#8217;t see the value in their culture. We quickly convict minorities to place them in jail. We bash and mock gays with disgust.  </p>
<p>I did not like your presentation of the topic. Your way of protest is odd. You sport a &#8216;support Prop 8&#8242; sign in your lawn because you feel your rights are being voilated by the supreme court? Or is that you are against marriage between same-sex couples? It&#8217;s  okay, you have your right to opion. It&#8217;s just annoying when you protray your bigotry with an ugly smile.  &#8220;Suing people to get your way&#8221; with rainbow lettering is NOT cool. WTF mate &#8211; I thought you guys were cool.  Now you mock homosexuals? What&#8217;s next? WhatYouOughtToKnow&#8217;s OJ Simpson Case,  Barak Obama as the First Black President(btw he&#8217;s half white), etc. Some chaos.  Maybe should stick to topics other than social and cultural issues.</p>
<p>Tolerance DOES NOT go both ways in your context.   As human individual we should not have to tolerate intolerance. We should not be silent in fear of retaliation. We should not have to tolerate unfairness. We should not have to tolerate anything that makes us less than.  The lamb does not willingly lay with the lion. The lamb knows that he is lunch and sees the lion&#821
